She's starting to come around

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Over the 27 yrs we've been married, I've been trying to get my wife into the lifestyle (swinging, threesomes, BBC, hotwife, etc.) and she's always been opposed. Over the years though I've gotten her to go to a local swingers motel many times, although with very little success, she's never been willing to allow more than a little touching. In the last almost 3 years, roughly since November of 2020, she's started to come around, she's allowed herself to be fingered, she's stroked/jacked off a few cocks, on most occasions it's been myself and at least one other guy, often times it's two strange men playing with her while I watch. Three times in the past she's been willing to have sex, twice we didn't have condoms, once we did and the guy flaked out.

This past Monday though, she was fully willing to let a strange guy fuck her bareback and he struggled to get it up. We had a free pass for our local swingers motel for a matinee pool/hot tub use, decided to use it. When we got there it was dead, we were the only one's there, after 15 minutes, this young guy came in looked around, then left. A short while later, this older guy came in, got undressed, got in the pool with us, we talked, he asked if we wanted "company" (basically to play), she said no, not no, not right now or maybe later, just, no. From previous times, generally she'll come around.

We spent some time in the pool, then later moved to the hot tub, the guy came and joined us, but she still wasn't ready. We spent some some time in the hot tub, then she decided she wanted to just go and sit in the chairs and cool off. This then turned into a slight argument, I went and relaxed int he pool, watching the porn on the tvs on the wall. There was another couple, older than us, that showed up, as well as two other single guys, one apparently had a room, the other just spending time in the pool area. The couple got in the hot tub, the older guy that's been wanting to play with us went and joined them, from my position in the pool, after a while I could see them and he playing the wife was blowing her husband and stroking the other guy, eventually, she got the guy off, she might have gotten her husband off too, I'm not positive.

Meanwhile, the wife came and joined me in the pool, we talked for a minute and I moved to the other hot tub, eventually she came and joined me. The single older guy had gone past us and was using the shower to rinse off, as he walked back by the hot tub, he asked if we wanted to play, I said it was up to her, she said she didn't care, I motioned for him to join us and it was on. Whatever got into her this time, she blew the guy, he fingered her and got her off a couple times. Finally, she was willing to fuck him, she was helping him, rubbing his cock on her pussy, trying to get it in, usually when it's gotten to this point she'll start asking for a condom, she didn't.

After a few minutes of trying, at a horrible angle and he couldn't quite do it, we al moved to one of the beds off to the side, we all played some more, she sucked both of us, finally he tried to get it in, but simply couldn't get it hard enough. She surprised me in many ways, one that she blew him, in the past when guys have tried to get her to do it she's refused, two she never asked for a condom (although I wouldn't expect that to be a regular thing), three only that he not cum inside her.

Later on, in discussion, her only comment was can we wait a couple months before we do anything again, she was really sore.
 
Any updates on your adventure to get your lady into the lifestyles? Hope she comes around, sounds like she is ready. Lots of swinging clubs in CO, hope you get her to go all the way, I bet once she does it will be all on. We started slow in the beginning and evolved to all sorts of variations os the lifestyle to where we are today. Our first was with another woman, then another man then the guy brought a lady friend and in time we had a small group of sex friends both male and female and couples. Hope your progress goes well. 💋
 
Any updates on your adventure to get your lady into the lifestyles? Hope she comes around, sounds like she is ready. Lots of swinging clubs in CO, hope you get her to go all the way, I bet once she does it will be all on. We started slow in the beginning and evolved to all sorts of variations os the lifestyle to where we are today. Our first was with another woman, then another man then the guy brought a lady friend and in time we had a small group of sex friends both male and female and couples. Hope your progress goes well. 💋
We've gone twice more since this day, both times she's gotten braver, I almost think at this point, I need to find a guy without her knowing, and discuss him meeting us for a matinee session, with the understanding that there's no guarantees of anything happening.

We went towards the end of November, the visit started as a huge argument about our sex lives, about sex in general, and a few other things, eventually she said she'd go, but I owed her a big dinner afterwards. Once there, we were nude and in the hot tub, there was this hispanic guy in the hot tub, we've seen him before, his English is so-so. After a couple minutes, in broken English he asked if he could touch, she didn't reply, but didn't stop him, he played with her breasts, moved beside her and she stroked his cock, I'm not sure what was happened, but he suddenly got up and left. We moved to the pool after awhile, hung out there. When we first got there, here were 3 single guys, after a bit we moved to the pool, spent some time there, then moved to the other hot tub. Eventually, four single guys showed up, then three couples. While in the pool, two couples and one guy showed up, the couples were older than us, initially they were playing with the one woman, then one of the guys came over to where we were standing watching one of the adult films. He asked if we wanted company, we said ok, he started to play with her, she was between us, he picked her legs up, fingering her, he wanted to fuck her, but she said no, he could rub on her, he could finger her, but she wasn't interested in sex at that time. We spent 15 minutes playing with him, then he got bored then moved back to play with the other couples. One of the other couples that showed up were heavily tatted, they were playing with each other at first, then with a couple of the other guys. After a bit we moved to the other hot tub, she was sitting on the raised seat, I was beside her, after a bit this younger black guy showed up and got in with us, then this older Hispanic guy showed up. He moved over beside her rubbing her leg, I told her to move in the water near him, when she did, he slid her near him, without prompting she reached over and started to stroke his cock, I knew he'd slid his hand under her, I thought he was fingering her, but apparently he'd put his finger in her ass. After a few minutes the other guy moved over to play with her too as I watched. When she got tired of the guys finger in her ass and asked him to remove it, he kinda grinned, she then stopped stroking him and pulled away from him. The guy got up and left, the other guy was playing for a few minutes, then she decided she had enough and wanted to leave.

We then went back on NYD, second year in a row, this time was a bit of weird one for both of us, more her than me. She didn't argue when I suggested going. There were three single guys there when we got there, we started off in the pool, spent a little time there talking, watching one of the movies playing. We went to move to the one hot tub, but it had just been filled and was ice cold. She went to use the restroom and I went to get in the other hot tub. There was one guy there, she came over and joined us, he really didn't pay her much attention. Eventually there was this other guy, heavily tatted, we'd seen him there a couple years back, he'd wanted to play at that time and she wasn't interested in him. This time, she was sitting on the raised seat, he asked to touch, she said ok, he started playing, touching her breasts, sucking them, fingering her, etc. I stood up beside her to kiss her and talk to her, this was the second time a guy started to play with me, either stroking me and trying to suck my cock. While I'm not going to return the favor, I'm not going to stop it. Eventually he started going down on her, a couple times he asked her to move to one of the beds to play, she wasn't interested. He then moved up and was kissing her neck, whispering to her, I didn't know what was being said, then suddenly she grinned and motioned for me, and said let's move to the bed. As I found out, he wanted to go down on her, then watch us fuck, then he wanted to "clean her up" after I came in her. At first, after she lay down, he started to go down on her while I kneeled beside her and she sucked me. Eventually she told me to fuck her, I moved to fuck her, a lot of times when we fuck I'll pull out and cum on her. That was the case this time as well, I pulled out, started to jack off, he was lying beside us watching, as soon as I started to cum, he leaned in and sucked me dry, after a few seconds I fell backwards, he immediately moved between her legs to clean her up. As soon as we moved to suck me, she gave a huge grin, I think she expected me to freak out, so she was probably surprised I didn't really react. I know he got her off at least twice. After we were done, she and I went over and sat down to relax for a bit, eventually I went back to the pool, then she came and joined me. Throughout this, there were two other guys there that kept getting up looking out the door or occasionally leaving and coming back, I happened to go over by the door and commented about if there were other women around. He said there were, they might join us in a bit. After a bit another woman and another guy came in, they and the other guy got in the hot tub that had finally heated, after a bit another guy came in, her husband and joined them. We were hanging out in the pool, after a bit the other woman, her husband and the other two guys got in the pool. The three guys were playing with her, rubbing, fingering, her husband sat on the edge and she's sucking him while being played with. The guys playing with her got her off twice, very very vocal when she came. We stood off to the side watching, eventually the one guy who'd been playing with her moved over beside us to sit on the edge, she came over to talk to him and suck on him. I said something to my wife and we moved closer to them. At reached out and started to touch her, rubbing her breasts, then moved between her legs to rub her clit and finger her. My wife knew what I was doing, she seemed completely at ease and enthralled. The other guy who'd been waiting for her to come in, moved behind my wife, reached around fondling her breasts. After I got her off, I moved my wife's hand to rub and touch her, eventually I moved her hand to play with the woman, she fingered her and got her off. Later we all moved to the hot tub, after a while my wife said she was ready to go, the two women were joking about something, my wife headed over to the shower to rinse off, the other woman joined her, they washed each others backs, hugged, us guys all watched, the woman came back to the hot tub, my wife came over and we started talking, another guy started to play with the woman. As my wife and I were getting dressed, the woman, her husband two other guys moved over to the one bed and started to play, we didn't stick around to watch.
 
My wife and I only watch BBC videos when we have sex…and we get so turned on we’ve seriously discussed how hot it would be to watch her getting DP’d and gangbanged by 3+. What’s wild is we are very picky about BBC…it has to be massive like 10”+ and the darker the better. We were bashful when we first met but now we have sex and tell each other how badly we want it and how sexy each BBC is…we even rank them 😂

She even recently told me she’d get so wet if I sucked them with her. She even talks dirty about me fucking her hot sister while she’s taking BBC, but I’ve told her I get more horny watching or being apart of jsut her taking BBC. We are about to order 1-2 of the pornstar replica BBCs so she can feel a BBC inside of her and our dream scenario of her getting DP’d by 2 massive BBCs.

We only joined this site because we truly wanted to find a few random black dudes to have a wild night of fucking with us, but most people on here don’t stack up with the best BBC pornstars and if we ever do it, we both want every guy to be massive.
 
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