She’s just not that into it.

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There any many topics about how to talk to cuckolding with your partner and try to get them into it or explore it at least. I’m just wondering if there is others out there who have tried and their partner just wasn’t into cuckolding.

if so how did you handle it, are you still together?
if you haven’t brought it up yet, if you did and your partner wasn’t into it, is it a deal breaker, could you cope?
 
My wife has no interest what so ever in becoming a hotwife. She's blonde and beautiful and I'd like nothing more than to watch her fucking other guys.

However that's what I'd like, not what she wants to do, so obviously I accept her decision. I'd never want her to do anything she wasn't comfortable with.

I only became interested in the hotwife fantasy after years of happily married life, so why on earth would it be a deal breaker for me, because my wife doesn't want to fuck other guys.

I'm in love with her, simple as that.
 
Highlife110 said:
I agree with you, but to each their own. I don't understand how some of the people on here take things like breeding seriously. There's sexual fantasies but you have to live your normal life when you're not hard anymore. A fantasy is no reason to break up a happy marriage.

I doubt I will ever get to live out the dream of seeing my wife with a BBC either. I have never broached the subject directly but have tried to do things like watch IR porn with her. She definitely started to raise an eyebrow that I always chose an IR video, but I never got the balls to say why that is.

Now we've got young ******* and no time for a lot of that. The thought still turns me on like nothing else but it seems impossible to do right now.
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Highlife110 said:
I agree with you, but to each their own. I don't understand how some of the people on here take things like breeding seriously. There's sexual fantasies but you have to live your normal life when you're not hard anymore. A fantasy is no reason to break up a happy marriage.

I doubt I will ever get to live out the dream of seeing my wife with a BBC either. I have never broached the subject directly but have tried to do things like watch IR porn with her. She definitely started to raise an eyebrow that I always chose an IR video, but I never got the balls to say why that is.

Now we've got young ******* and no time for a lot of that. The thought still turns me on like nothing else but it seems impossible to do right now.
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As they say the fantasy will always be better than the reality, in your head the fantasy can be as wild and as dirty as you like . Same here I dont get the whole breeding thing that's abit weird to me , I fantasised about my wife getting fucked by a bbc now for around 4-5 years I'd love to see it but at the same time she's not into black guys anyway although we do have a black dildo and she does enjoy it and she knows I like IR and I enjoyed seeing the contrast she's fully aware , she loves me though she's a very loyal type she said to me if you love me why would you want to see another guy fuck me , I wrote a post on here a while back called "to my surprise" long story short when we got our bbc dildo she was interested in it abit more then our previous ones . I think she gets turned on knowing I like her riding a black dildo but nothing more .. but the fantasy remains I'd love to see her getting fucked for a good few hours by a bbc and watch her getting creampied that's for sure but it's all a fantasy for me .. anything more could ruin our relationship
 
I think it’s good if they are not into it. It means you get a wife to yourself, you have never got to worry and you can be calm and enjoy your lives together. Absolutely nothing wrong with that, and I am not sure if it’s a good thing trying to persuade a wife to go into a direction she doesn’t want to go in.

I think cuckolding is for the couples where the wife has strong feelings towards wanting to expand her sexual journey outside of the marriage. The women who like attention of other men and want to explore, even if their husbands may want to keep them to themselves.

So if your wife wants to stay just with you, enjoy her, enjoy the fact she just wants you. There is much pain and suffering that comes with wives that like other men’s cock inside them. It’s a long and painful journey, which I agree makes you a stronger person, but it comes with challenges.
 
Rob Johnson said:
I think it’s good if they are not into it. It means you get a wife to yourself, you have never got to worry and you can be calm and enjoy your lives together. Absolutely nothing wrong with that, and I am not sure if it’s a good thing trying to persuade a wife to go into a direction she doesn’t want to go in.

I think cuckolding is for the couples where the wife has strong feelings towards wanting to expand her sexual journey outside of the marriage. The women who like attention of other men and want to explore, even if their husbands may want to keep them to themselves.

So if your wife wants to stay just with you, enjoy her, enjoy the fact she just wants you. There is much pain and suffering that comes with wives that like other men’s cock inside them. It’s a long and painful journey, which I agree makes you a stronger person, but it comes with challenges.
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I agree. It makes the fantasy even hotter cos you know you cant have it .. its healthy having a fantasy I feel, once the fantasy is made a reality what else is there to look forward to ?
 
Take it from me, there is one HUGE step taking it from the play to reality. We're taking it very slow and encountered a couple of bumps along the way. Nothing serious but we're having a lot of fun with this. Our next step is going to a few jazz clubs in the city just to get the feel and perhaps encounter a black man (or two) just to talk.
 
Jellycapone said:
As they say the fantasy will always be better than the reality, in your head the fantasy can be as wild and as dirty as you like . Same here I dont get the whole breeding thing that's abit weird to me , I fantasised about my wife getting fucked by a bbc now for around 4-5 years I'd love to see it but at the same time she's not into black guys anyway although we do have a black dildo and she does enjoy it and she knows I like IR and I enjoyed seeing the contrast she's fully aware , she loves me though she's a very loyal type she said to me if you love me why would you want to see another guy fuck me , I wrote a post on here a while back called "to my surprise" long story short when we got our bbc dildo she was interested in it abit more then our previous ones . I think she gets turned on knowing I like her riding a black dildo but nothing more .. but the fantasy remains I'd love to see her getting fucked for a good few hours by a bbc and watch her getting creampied that's for sure but it's all a fantasy for me .. anything more could ruin our relationship
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Actually for us reality was better than fantasy. Would like to do again but trying for ******* right now.
 
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