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Why is there such a double standard when men have multiple sex partners/girlfriends, but when women have multiple sexual partners there is so much scrutiny and labeling of the women?
It is okay for women to embrace being a sexual being just as much as it is for men to be sexual beings.
IS IT OKAY FOR WOMEN TO INITIATE SEX?
TJ
(I am basically writing an article as my answer so please bare with me. It will be interesting though! Please note that the answers and views are only that of myself and of a Judeo Christian point of view only. ) Thanks for reading it!
(Reason #1 the natural answer.)The double standard exists because since the beginning of time and even ancient times when mankind started to record history men have ruled, men built the society's so men have always set the standards. That's the most easiest basic answer from just a nature point of view. Men in ancient times had harem's and society has never had a problem with it. Even in the Bible men had multiple wives and there was nothing negative ever said about it by God except that a man who had more than one wife could not be a leader in the church. In Islam a man can have up to 4 wives. Also in Islam if you make to paradise you will be awarded 70 virgins. Personally I would rather have 1 hot professional with porn star skills than 70 women who didn't know squat about how to please me. I'm definitely no choir boy so I don't expect to ever end up with a choir girl. In fact it's my hope! LOL
Outside of the lifestyle a promiscuous woman or a harlot is not seen as a virtuous woman no matter what society you come from. The virtues and morality standards of most societies on earth were largely set up by the religious men which leads me to expound with this article answering the question of why the double standard exists from a religious perspective.
This is a biblical answer for why there is a double standard from a Christian point of view only. (please do not be offended or take it as a right or wrong answer because it's just one religious view and my own opinion! There are other religions and other personal views and they will all differ obviously!)
.(Reason #2. The spiritual answer) When God made the man he made him in his image spiritually and gave him a physical body made from the dust of the earth itself. So man alone spiritually is the glory of God himself upon the earth. No other creation upon the earth was created in the image of God upon the earth but the man. God also declared that man has all dominion and authority upon the earth and over everything upon it. That makes it spiritual and eternal law that man alone is the king and ruler of the earth and the highest ranking of all gods creation upon the earth. That's the story from the Bible. In the Book of Jubilee's according to the Angel of the Presence he told Moses that it was them (the Angel's of the presence) who brought all the creatures of the earth that god created to Adam to be named by him. Why? Because god put him in charge and gave him all authority and dominion upon the earth and over everything upon it so it was only appropriate for him alone to do so. One huge detail that most Christians do not understand about that law in Genesis 1:26. When god gave man all dominion and authority upon the earth he excluded himself and all other spiritual beings. That means that not even God himself could do anything major upon the earth from that moment forward without a man's authority and agreement. For example:
.Before the flood of the earth the prophet Noah announced it first. Meaning god went through Noah.
.Before he destroyed Sodom and Gomorah he Spoke to Abraham first.
.Before the children of Israel ever went into any captivity it was always spoken of or prophesied by a prophet first.
.The plagues of Egypt he went through Moses.
All of these major actions taken by God upon the earth was always done in agreement with a man someone who was representative of the authority and dominion of the earth so that god did not violate the law.
A reverse example: In the garden of Eden when Eve and the Serpent were doing their business We know that God was clearly watching them and that knew what was going on. So why didn't he intervene? He didn't intervene because he didn't have the authority to do so! To come down to the earth and interfere in any earthly affairs without the permission of the highest ranking being on earth (Adam) who has all dominion and authority would be a violation of gods own law in Genesis 1:26. It was solely Adam's place to intervene which we all know he failed to do so. God could not over step Adam and just handle the situation or he would be violating Adam's dominion and authority of the earth.
(So the first answer from a Christian perspective of why there is a double standard is: Man was made in gods image, man was king and given all dominion and authority, and therefore the man sets the standards upon the earth.)
