I've been on here for years. I have had some great feedback when I ask questions and I have one regarding my wife. It isn't specifically about IR or cuckolding or any of that. Although I will say that I would love to be a cuck or stag, but I don't ever see it happening. My question is really about my wife's low libido. She is 38 and I am 34. We've been married for 11 years and our sex life has been a roller coaster. What I have noticed is that she seems to have low energy in general. She goes to bed by 9:30 pm and will not have sex because she has to be up at 6 for work like I do. During the weekends she might have an excuse or say that she forgot. Usually though the weekend is when we have our fun. Even then she seems to be lazy as a lover. I do the majority of the work for her pleasures. My libido is lower than it it was in my twenties and hers seems to be much lower than mine now. So ladies and gents please ask questions if I haven't given enough info and chime in on what some good solutions are for us to reach a better sex life. In my opinion we are too young to not enjoy great sex as a couple.