Seduced Aggressively

I think thats what I want.. I would like to be pursued and seduced aggressively if that makes any sense... almost passionately.... relentlessly pushed... i think then i will finally over come my fears and give it up to the black man... every day I find them more sexy then the day before....
It all started so innocently ... the more I got hit on the more I wanted it...
My husband would ******* if he knew of my secret desire.
Just wanted to get that off my chest and where better then our community. View attachment 1170850
So hott
 
HNJ I hope you can live your fantasy and spread those legs for some BBC but you really should try and get the hubby on board. Tell him you would like to try a mfm 3 sum see if he goes for that. What ever you decide I'm sure you will not have any problems attracting blk guys
Good advice. Not always possible but certainly preferable. Usually enables more opportunities without drama or complications
 
Who cares his opinion? Those holes are hers and I can only say that I admire and envy at the same time those stallions who will drill her.
Cheating is always hot but also has risks of unintended consequences like divorce. Happened to a friend when his wife left him to go live with her black stud. . Some husbands you just don't go there. Other husbands are excited abouts wives fucking BBC and willing to make compromises.
 
One important thing that people need to understand about this lifestyle..and swinging in general, is that the majority of the time it is the husband who initially brings up the idea. The reason for this is simple....can you imagine what would happen if a woman let her husband know that she was interested in having sex with other men if he WAS NOT down for it? It opens up a huge can of worms. It is widely known that many men struggle with jealousy and ego issues when it comes to their women being with other men. Simply put, many cannot handle even the idea of their woman even thinking about having sex with another man. For many men, this is their worst fear. So for a woman to give voice to that fear and actually admit that they have thought about it could spell the end of their relationship. I know it sounds hot to think that a woman could just tell her husband her thoughts about wanting a black man but the reality is that doing so could lead them down a dark road. Just imagine if a woman stated this desire and her husband wasn't with it. Now imagine this same woman doing something as innocent as watching an NBA or NFL game. What thoughts do you think would be going through her husband's mind? I've been hosting parties for several years and have met hundreds of couples during that time. I make it a point to ask all of them who had the initial idea to start swinging, 9 out of 10 times it was the husband who opened that door. And usually when it is first brought up it is the husband who is thinking about all the extra pussy he can get. It usually morphs into a hotwife/cuckold type of dynamic at a later point. I know there are many wives who would love to get into this but they are reluctant to say anything to their husbands for this reason. I know there is a lot of fantasy talk here people but please, let's try to stay realistic when people are looking for sincere advice. I'm sure none of us want to see anyone's marriage/relationship ruined.
Very good advice. Always looking to make enhancements to relationships where it is possible
 
Wow!! Yes yes yes excallty.. my husband would die especially if he knew i was remotely interested in a blk guy. Hes already insecure/jealous... we go in walmart and pass a blk guys hes like..did that nig** look at u.. did u look at him... hes not for it... at all.. i already know without asking... so im on my own if i do this which is also why i say.. im gonna have to be damn near "taken".. thx for understanding my friend! Impressive!
. Its very true that white men are more aware that women have sexual desires for black men and many have acted upon those desires but not all couples certainly. With some women it is more obvious than others. For many women its just a matteer of opportunity. Some husbands act to create opportunities and availabilities to black men. Some husbands, knowing their wives are hot , just let nature take its course.
 
I like this and it makes sense. I do not mind pursuing aggressively, provided you leave those "just-so-innocent-signs" that say "I want you to fuck me, but a good girl like me needs a reason or something to justify me submitting to you - a stranger." Always leave the door ajar, then the dude will push it open. An example of what that looks like is a wife I met at the Acura dealership couple of weeks ago. She's a hot lil spinner. Probably late 40's to no more than mid 50's. Very hot and could easily be mistaken for mid to late 30's. We engaged in one of the greatest conversations I have ever had with a stranger. It was like we discussed all above board things, but with an unsaid understanding that we both wabted to do something totally carnal with the one another. She's been a long stay-at-home wife with *******. She's kept herself looking good and purposely, but from the conversation I could tell she longed for some of he fun past. It wasn't too long before she made a statement that showed she was self-conscious about her age. I responded with a flatter and intimating that her age meant nothing to me, but in a way were it wasn't too clearly a pick-up line.

We got interrupted when another customer came into the Lounge to wait. Prior to that I was conversation was on a predictable path, but I had to work for it. With the other customer in the midst, the conversation died down almost like we both knew that it should die down, but trying to figure what to do without being obvious. My car was done so I had to leave, so I said thanks in a platonic way. However, I knew I couldn't let it go - I had worked so hard :) So after I got my car, I parked and return to see if I would catch her going to the rest room or something. Luckily, she was.

She liked cars so I went off that. I told her that I would like to try out her 2015 Acura TLX and she could try out my Ultimate Driving Machine (7- series). She went for that. I didn't ask for her number, I give her mine. The next week, on a Thursday she give me a holla. As she puts it, just to say "Hi" and some blah, blah, blah. We talked a little and I told her we should meetup, get a Latte and test out the car. She give some time about two weeks out and I agreed. I then purposely texted her to push it to another week out. She agreed. It's next weekend and she has since called and we have talked. The conversation slowly, but surely inched into the territory were it is clear that something could happen. She had tried to put me on the spot but hedge her bets that she's married. I responded that "she's cool and I like her car, so that was my intent." Then I stated something to the effect like, "but if you are wondering about what I am expecting? I am not expecting anything and only want what you would want. But I will admit, if you want what your dirty mind is taking you, I have every intension to give it to you cuz you are hot. " She asked me where did I think her mind is taking her. I told her bluntly, "to me fucking you". Took her by surprise she laughed and said I am forward and it is refreshing. Then when she was about to leave, she said you are "handsome" I will admit. Since that conversation that got us over, we are now so far that I tell her what I want her wear and few days ago she bought some lingerie. She's accepted that I am going to fuck her in her car and my car. She's accepted that when we meet, I don't want an easing-into period. I am going to get in her car, and finger her as I drive. We will return for my car, and she will drive it to a discreet parking ramp downtown and I will fuck her in my car. But, she must earn the fuck. She's so eager now.

Someone advise you to involve your hubby. That is save and wise. But I will say, it is a lot more fun if you cheat in this case. Make sure it's a save situation. But let them fuck you while you guys are still strangers.
Good add!
 
Most peoples on here just wanna jump into the sex part, unlike most men, I love talking to an intelligent woman, without that for me, no hookup is possible, if I can't feel u on intellectual level I can't feel u on a sexual 1, some men's not just dogs trying to hit everything that comes by
 
Most peoples on here just wanna jump into the sex part, unlike most men, I love talking to an intelligent woman, without that for me, no hookup is possible, if I can't feel u on intellectual level I can't feel u on a sexual 1, some men's not just dogs trying to hit everything that comes by
I don't smoke so the best thing to do between bouts of sex is to talk. An intelligent woman with a good sense of humor is imperative.
 
If you are seeking sex outside your marriage your spouse needs to be either all in or all out. If you are fucking outside of your marriage without your husbands consent or knowledge you have to be discreet as do your partners. I never discuss or even mention the name of anyone in the group to anyone that isn't in the group. It is better if your extracurricular activities are done with your husbands knowledge but if they are not the upmost discretion is a must. You must also remember that alcohol and other ******* are not conducive to being discrete
Very wise advice for women and couples thinking about joining this lifestyle. Seems to be more couples now but like her many women too wanting this. Many women now already have this and most remain very discrete. Be wary of pictures and videos as they show up on websites now
 
Who cares his opinion? Those holes are hers and I can only say that I admire and envy at the same time those stallions who will drill her.

The holes are her's but if she is living a very comfortable lifestyle due to the marriage and if her husband is not cool with this whole thing then she may want to rethink what she really wants. Legitimate swingers are way hotter than a cowardly cheater.
 
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