Questions for the wives from a beginner QOS

[qosamber]

Hi all. My husband and I are just getting started. I haven’t been with a BBC yet but want to. Any tips on making it to that first time? I’m so nervous. And how often do you generally do it? And is it with different men? Or repeatedly with one? I get the feeling that it is whatever each relationship/encounter wants it to be but I’m interested to hear how others approach it.

 

[helloshorty]

I sent u a sample pic.

 

[Jockjester]

This outta be interesting...

 

[Irishwife]

My first time I was super nervous. We talked about 3sums for over a decade but then BBC threesomes started getting us hornyier more. First one I was so nervous and very *******. I did enjoy it but not as much as I'd liked to because of the nerves. Second one was better. His cock was huge. Both them whereabout an hours talking and play. The 3trd one Whaoooooo! This is when I really came out of my shell. I fucked him better than I fucked my hubby. We fucked for 3 hours while my hubby only joined in for 20mins in thst time for a blow job while I was getting it from behind then a DP where my hubby came. Cleaned up and the bbc fucked me more. I have been chatting to him again about another meet and am hugely excited now rather than super nervous. Get your first one out of the way and proceed from there. The first one is always the most difficult but from then on, you will love it.

 

[AnnieS]

Irish wife gives you good advice. My advice is that nerves are part of it. Talk a lot prior to get some familiarity. Keep your husband involved so that you are all on the same page. Think about anything that would make him or you uncomfortable and relay that your 3rd. I find on a first time thing that maybe dinner before hand. That way its not just drinks. Nerves tend to make you ******* too much. When you have dinner then you can talk get a feel for each other and maybe a ******* or two. Dress for the occasion with sex in mind after. Dont get *******. What's the fun in that. Then take your time. Let them both seduce you and strip you. If your husband wants to be more of a voyeur keep eye contact with him occasionally. Take your time! Lots of foreplay and work up. Then enjoy. If your husband is involved there are all kinds of opportunity, you suck him, he fucks you while you suck, caressing your breasts and kissing you while you get eaten. It is an amazing experience to me the center of attention and just get serviced for a really long time. Enjoy yourself. If you have chemistry then stay with the same guy a few times until you have a good idea then you can venture out.

 

[qosamber]

Irish wife gives you good advice. My advice is that nerves are part of it. Talk a lot prior to get some familiarity. Keep your husband involved so that you are all on the same page. Think about anything that would make him or you uncomfortable and relay that your 3rd. I find on a first time thing that maybe dinner before hand. That way its not just drinks. Nerves tend to make you ******* too much. When you have dinner then you can talk get a feel for each other and maybe a ******* or two. Dress for the occasion with sex in mind after. Dont get *******. What's the fun in that. Then take your time. Let them both seduce you and strip you. If your husband wants to be more of a voyeur keep eye contact with him occasionally. Take your time! Lots of foreplay and work up. Then enjoy. If your husband is involved there are all kinds of opportunity, you suck him, he fucks you while you suck, caressing your breasts and kissing you while you get eaten. It is an amazing experience to me the center of attention and just get serviced for a really long time. Enjoy yourself. If you have chemistry then stay with the same guy a few times until you have a good idea then you can venture out.

Thank you for the honest and detailed reply. I appreciate the info.

 

[taco2310]

Great questions and appreciate the advice also. Your not alone, we are stuck on second base.

 

[Irishwife]

Thank you for the info. We have talked about it for years too. It helps to know others were nervous too.

Nervous is good. It's part of the fun. Our only problem now is getting the time to meet. Unfortunately not many bbcs where we are

 

[WifeinSTL]

Different men for a while, first. All vetted by hubby. It's like attending job interviews. Once you get the hang of it you can ditch the cuck and go on your own.

 

[tomtomjim]

often at first you will go through a lot of different men just learning what you like. There is a good reason to keep you husband involved and to even push hom to participate since the more he is invested the easier it is for you and the bulls. It pays to have a few bulls in your stable because scheduling is often difficult and besides competition makes the bulls perform better. always remember bulls are just cucks without privileges

 

[malizia2000]

It’s rare first time is great. Too many things to get through, especially if both of you have normal sexual life. The thing I could suggest is to try many times, when you’ll be comfortable you’ll understand what do u like and how. Before lifestyle, we were swinger and I tried bbc before marriage, so I was ready to have fun . So take your time, hubby will help u and u for sure will have fun…

 

[dickhurtz472]

My first time I was super nervous. We talked about 3sums for over a decade but then BBC threesomes started getting us hornyier more. First one I was so nervous and very *******. I did enjoy it but not as much as I'd liked to because of the nerves. Second one was better. His cock was huge. Both them whereabout an hours talking and play. The 3trd one Whaoooooo! This is when I really came out of my shell. I fucked him better than I fucked my hubby. We fucked for 3 hours while my hubby only joined in for 20mins in thst time for a blow job while I was getting it from behind then a DP where my hubby came. Cleaned up and the bbc fucked me more. I have been chatting to him again about another meet and am hugely excited now rather than super nervous. Get your first one out of the way and proceed from there. The first one is always the most difficult but from then on, you will love it.

 

[Silvaa]

Hi all. My husband and I are just getting started. I haven’t been with a BBC yet but want to. Any tips on making it to that first time? I’m so nervous. And how often do you generally do it? And is it with different men? Or repeatedly with one? I get the feeling that it is whatever each relationship/encounter wants it to be but I’m interested to hear how others approach it.

The first time is going to be the trickiest and most odd feeling one. Nerves will be up there and chances are you'll be second guessing everything done and said. Best advice is to relax and have fun with it. Don't focus on being a porn star. Go in there and enjoy the moment as you all want to. You do not even have to make the very first time about sex. Go out and hang out together and make sure you all click and clearly know what you're looking for.

How often you are with a black man is going to be up to you. Some men are going to want it more and some just an occasional here and there. A lot of people here are looking for occasional hookups or fun with different people but upon occasion you will find someone you connect with and want to see more of or just enjoy being around. Consider it like a college party. You're going to have a good time and maybe get some action. If you have sex with someone it can be just a one night thing or hey maybe we'll get together another time.

 

[iltsbbd]

Definitely make sure it is what you both want to do. Our first time together was at a club. I was new to it but my husband had some experience. we started with a couple quickies with some guys at the club first. Once I was comfortable being fucked in front of my husband we met guys at local hotels. Never at home though.

Also make sure you establish ground rules, like about condoms, kissing, and respect. Good communication is the key.

 

[austingirl]

Does it matter that it is going to be with my boyfriend? I ask this because we don’t have the years together, the many romantic dinners, etc. to fall back on if we have any problems with me being with a bull. We do have complete honesty with each other and fabulous conversation skills?

 

[AnnieS]

The first time is going to be the trickiest and most odd feeling one. Nerves will be up there and chances are you'll be second guessing everything done and said. Best advice is to relax and have fun with it. Don't focus on being a porn star. Go in there and enjoy the moment as you all want to. You do not even have to make the very first time about sex. Go out and hang out together and make sure you all click and clearly know what you're looking for.

How often you are with a black man is going to be up to you. Some men are going to want it more and some just an occasional here and there. A lot of people here are looking for occasional hookups or fun with different people but upon occasion you will find someone you connect with and want to see more of or just enjoy being around. Consider it like a college party. You're going to have a good time and maybe get some action. If you have sex with someone it can be just a one night thing or hey maybe we'll get together another time.

Great advice.

 

[OCRAW]

Hi all. My husband and I are just getting started. I haven’t been with a BBC yet but want to. Any tips on making it to that first time? I’m so nervous. And how often do you generally do it? And is it with different men? Or repeatedly with one? I get the feeling that it is whatever each relationship/encounter wants it to be but I’m interested to hear how others approach it.

It's a lifestyle and individual choices

 

[qoseeker777]

Irish wife gives you good advice. My advice is that nerves are part of it. Talk a lot prior to get some familiarity. Keep your husband involved so that you are all on the same page. Think about anything that would make him or you uncomfortable and relay that your 3rd. I find on a first time thing that maybe dinner before hand. That way its not just drinks. Nerves tend to make you ******* too much. When you have dinner then you can talk get a feel for each other and maybe a ******* or two. Dress for the occasion with sex in mind after. Dont get *******. What's the fun in that. Then take your time. Let them both seduce you and strip you. If your husband wants to be more of a voyeur keep eye contact with him occasionally. Take your time! Lots of foreplay and work up. Then enjoy. If your husband is involved there are all kinds of opportunity, you suck him, he fucks you while you suck, caressing your breasts and kissing you while you get eaten. It is an amazing experience to me the center of attention and just get serviced for a really long time. Enjoy yourself. If you have chemistry then stay with the same guy a few times until you have a good idea then you can venture out.

Love your wisdom so much Mrs. Annie and I cannot imagine a better woman to help young and mature white woman who love and want BBC

 

[AnnieS]

Does it matter that it is going to be with my boyfriend? I ask this because we don’t have the years together, the many romantic dinners, etc. to fall back on if we have any problems with me being with a bull. We do have complete honesty with each other and fabulous conversation skills?

Does what matter? How you approach it? I don't think so as long as you're both honest and don't hide things. Be up front and he should too so there is no later regret that something wasnt said.. its ok too if it doesnt go well. There is no pressure to say ok i tried thst and it wasnt for me, my husband is active participant and I personally love the MMF situation. But he is also pretty clear with his feelings. For us it's a dual decision and even more so a dual decision to do it again if the chemistry is right.

 

[hotwifejasmine]

Hi all. My husband and I are just getting started. I haven’t been with a BBC yet but want to. Any tips on making it to that first time? I’m so nervous. And how often do you generally do it? And is it with different men? Or repeatedly with one? I get the feeling that it is whatever each relationship/encounter wants it to be but I’m interested to hear how others approach it.

First make sure that you and your hubby discuss where any lines are. As in lines either of you are not going to cross. Such as anal, rimming, hubby sucking cock or cleaning bulls, or even being involved at all. Have an agreed "safe word", that means "I want to stop get me out of this". All the detail should be worked out between you both before the bull is involved. Secondly decide what you would like to experience, young bulls, old bulls, white, black, brown, DP's, creampies, more than one bull, domination, subservience, etc. Then decide where you would like to meet, hotel, his place, your place, other? Get your outfits lined up to please the bulls, short dresses, heels, collars etc. and a camera if you want to record any of it? Then start looking for your bulls, either on-line as it is here, or at clubs bars etc. We find them everywhere, even in supermarket stores etc. Nerves will be there for the first one or two, but thereafter you should be well into it. Lay back, spread and enjoy. Finally let us know how it all goes?

HWJ and Pops