I wrote an erotic IR story for my wife to read and I wanted her feedback. She offered some good input that helped me refine it, but we had an impasse over one topic. In the story the white wife said she lost count of her orgasms after about 16. My wife called BS and said that’s fantasyland and it’s not physically possible for women to have that many orgasms. I assured her it was and she said “you can’t believe all the tall tales you read on the internet.” And she didn’t want to discuss it further.
I looked at published research and confirmed it is very possible. Talked to her again and assured her this fact doesn’t mean she is “defective” or lesser than the women who can but it’s more of a commentary on us trying some different things and if anything it’s likely more of a failing on my part. There are articles out there how to get your partner to be multi orgasmic but wanted to pose some questions for the wives here.
Have you had the experience of going from one orgasm per session for years then to multiple, if so what was the key? Did that change in frequency have something, anything or everything to do with having sex with well hung black men or was it just something or someone else that made that possible?
When I met my wife, I was 33, she was 34, and despite having three sexual partners before me (and being married for 7 years to one of them), she had never had an orgasm before. I give her an orgasm 90% of the time we play (it’s my #1 goal although she knows I won’t be offended or hurt if she doesn’t so she is always honest when it doesn’t happen) and on maybe two or three occasions over the years she has had a second orgasm during sex.
I am huge on compersion so more pleasure for her turns me on and satisfies me like nothing else (which is a big reason my cuckold fantasy is my #1 by a mile), so clearly I am motivated to try whatever I can to increase her pleasure/orgasms. Very interested in your thoughts.
Thanks in advance for your help.
I looked at published research and confirmed it is very possible. Talked to her again and assured her this fact doesn’t mean she is “defective” or lesser than the women who can but it’s more of a commentary on us trying some different things and if anything it’s likely more of a failing on my part. There are articles out there how to get your partner to be multi orgasmic but wanted to pose some questions for the wives here.
Have you had the experience of going from one orgasm per session for years then to multiple, if so what was the key? Did that change in frequency have something, anything or everything to do with having sex with well hung black men or was it just something or someone else that made that possible?
When I met my wife, I was 33, she was 34, and despite having three sexual partners before me (and being married for 7 years to one of them), she had never had an orgasm before. I give her an orgasm 90% of the time we play (it’s my #1 goal although she knows I won’t be offended or hurt if she doesn’t so she is always honest when it doesn’t happen) and on maybe two or three occasions over the years she has had a second orgasm during sex.
I am huge on compersion so more pleasure for her turns me on and satisfies me like nothing else (which is a big reason my cuckold fantasy is my #1 by a mile), so clearly I am motivated to try whatever I can to increase her pleasure/orgasms. Very interested in your thoughts.
Thanks in advance for your help.