Question for Dominant Black Men

If you knew a white woman/wife was a closet submissive, and were pretty sure she hadn’t acted on those desires (I’m guessing a very common phenomenon with married white women especially if their husbands are not natural or practicing/role playing that role with them, which is why it would be a secret unfulfilled fantasy in the first place), and you had an opportunity to flirt/hit on her, would your approach differ at all from approaching a white woman/wife who you had no idea if she had that secret kink/desire?

I’m curious because I’m 99.9% sure my wife has this fantasy but is too repressed, ashamed, whatever to come out and admit it. Just wondering if it would change your approach, if you have experienced this very thing, and if you do change your approach what would you say or do to stir that inside her and increase your chances of getting with her? I would imagine that most women especially wives, even if they have these secret desires require some casual warm up, getting comfortable, especially when meeting a stranger for the first time, before he’s able to strum those chords within her. But I also have to imagine that if the husband has shared his kink very openly and often of getting tremendously turned on by the idea of watching her get pleasured by a well ung black man, it makes the approach easier.

Or maybe you’re just a dom who channels their inner Popeye “I am’s what’s I am…” and you just approach women the same way. Your success rate may suffer but it’s all about volume, take enough swings you’ll hit one out?
 
Yes, my coworker is an Asian woman with an accent that started working at the office very shy and conservative, her husband probably has no idea she works around a lot of Black people. She hung with the Hispanics until her friend was sent to a new team and works remote. Then she warmed up to us, guess she realized we wont bite her. I was tasked with training her to do one of my old duties and I caught her looking. I remember overhearing her at lunch saying where she comes from it's unladylike to eat a banana. Anyway, after she got comfortable with us, with me protecting her from doctor's bs pressure and I keep it hood.

Black women were rubbing off on her and suddenly she started wearing short dresses with her legs showing. I got caught looking, foot kink guy that I am, I saw bare legs and feet and judged. She wears it most of the time now, legs showing and I stopped trying not to get caught. I don't ogle, but I know she wants to be seen, I indulge her. Suddenly I came in the office one day and she moved to the cubicle directly behind me. She is yearning, she's hit the age where the ******* are gone, that's why she got the job and she's losing her inhibition. I'm keeping it professional, but I can see it in her eyes. This past week she mocked me because sometimes I talk to myself when I'm mentally processing a difficult task. I laughed, I didn't take offense. Since moving near me she enjoys my perks a bit, eats at her desk and comes back from lunch 15 minutes late and nobody is clocking her. She also seems to listen to me code switching, it's common in America, but to a foreign Asian woman probably not so much. I fascinate her because unlike the Jamaican guy, I don't timidly kiss her ass and I'm not a religious guy like the Black guy Brandon who is on her team. I'm the dominant Black man stereotype she's been fed. I think I'm superior and my title and pay grade confirms it, she wants to submit, but I'm not sexual harassment sam so she's got to show me she wants me to see what's under her dress. I will not be gentle, I'm not her husband, I will treat her like the whore she wants to be. The holidays are coming up and we have events away from the office so when she sits next to me at Pappasitos during the Christmas luncheon, I'm gonna ask her about the legs showing, why she dresses different, why she moved to be close to me. What is she looking for? I know the answer, I want her to say it so I can have consent then demand she goes to the bathroom and take her panties off and hand them to me under the table. She's getting her fantasy fulfilled for Christmas.
 
Yes, my coworker is an Asian woman with an accent that started working at the office very shy and conservative, her husband probably has no idea she works around a lot of Black people. She hung with the Hispanics until her friend was sent to a new team and works remote. Then she warmed up to us, guess she realized we wont bite her. I was tasked with training her to do one of my old duties and I caught her looking. I remember overhearing her at lunch saying where she comes from it's unladylike to eat a banana. Anyway, after she got comfortable with us, with me protecting her from doctor's bs pressure and I keep it hood.

Black women were rubbing off on her and suddenly she started wearing short dresses with her legs showing. I got caught looking, foot kink guy that I am, I saw bare legs and feet and judged. She wears it most of the time now, legs showing and I stopped trying not to get caught. I don't ogle, but I know she wants to be seen, I indulge her. Suddenly I came in the office one day and she moved to the cubicle directly behind me. She is yearning, she's hit the age where the ******* are gone, that's why she got the job and she's losing her inhibition. I'm keeping it professional, but I can see it in her eyes. This past week she mocked me because sometimes I talk to myself when I'm mentally processing a difficult task. I laughed, I didn't take offense. Since moving near me she enjoys my perks a bit, eats at her desk and comes back from lunch 15 minutes late and nobody is clocking her. She also seems to listen to me code switching, it's common in America, but to a foreign Asian woman probably not so much. I fascinate her because unlike the Jamaican guy, I don't timidly kiss her ass and I'm not a religious guy like the Black guy Brandon who is on her team. I'm the dominant Black man stereotype she's been fed. I think I'm superior and my title and pay grade confirms it, she wants to submit, but I'm not sexual harassment sam so she's got to show me she wants me to see what's under her dress. I will not be gentle, I'm not her husband, I will treat her like the whore she wants to be. The holidays are coming up and we have events away from the office so when she sits next to me at Pappasitos during the Christmas luncheon, I'm gonna ask her about the legs showing, why she dresses different, why she moved to be close to me. What is she looking for? I know the answer, I want her to say it so I can have consent then demand she goes to the bathroom and take her panties off and hand them to me under the table. She's getting her fantasy fulfilled for Christmas.
Best of luck, sound like she has the hots and if giving the signals, maybe her husband is encouraging her and they are getting off together over How promiscuous she is behaving.
Personally I'd ask herehetime is right. As humans we go through life getting so close to what we want but can't make the final connection. If you can sense snd feel it, is most likely legit.
Find s way to aske her. Maybe just invite her for a ******* and see.. if she says yes you hsve chance to ask more. If she decline she is either to shy or you misread the signals lol. Good lick keep us informed lol
 
Yes, my coworker is an Asian woman with an accent that started working at the office very shy and conservative, her husband probably has no idea she works around a lot of Black people. She hung with the Hispanics until her friend was sent to a new team and works remote. Then she warmed up to us, guess she realized we wont bite her. I was tasked with training her to do one of my old duties and I caught her looking. I remember overhearing her at lunch saying where she comes from it's unladylike to eat a banana. Anyway, after she got comfortable with us, with me protecting her from doctor's bs pressure and I keep it hood.

Black women were rubbing off on her and suddenly she started wearing short dresses with her legs showing. I got caught looking, foot kink guy that I am, I saw bare legs and feet and judged. She wears it most of the time now, legs showing and I stopped trying not to get caught. I don't ogle, but I know she wants to be seen, I indulge her. Suddenly I came in the office one day and she moved to the cubicle directly behind me. She is yearning, she's hit the age where the ******* are gone, that's why she got the job and she's losing her inhibition. I'm keeping it professional, but I can see it in her eyes. This past week she mocked me because sometimes I talk to myself when I'm mentally processing a difficult task. I laughed, I didn't take offense. Since moving near me she enjoys my perks a bit, eats at her desk and comes back from lunch 15 minutes late and nobody is clocking her. She also seems to listen to me code switching, it's common in America, but to a foreign Asian woman probably not so much. I fascinate her because unlike the Jamaican guy, I don't timidly kiss her ass and I'm not a religious guy like the Black guy Brandon who is on her team. I'm the dominant Black man stereotype she's been fed. I think I'm superior and my title and pay grade confirms it, she wants to submit, but I'm not sexual harassment sam so she's got to show me she wants me to see what's under her dress. I will not be gentle, I'm not her husband, I will treat her like the whore she wants to be. The holidays are coming up and we have events away from the office so when she sits next to me at Pappasitos during the Christmas luncheon, I'm gonna ask her about the legs showing, why she dresses different, why she moved to be close to me. What is she looking for? I know the answer, I want her to say it so I can have consent then demand she goes to the bathroom and take her panties off and hand them to me under the table. She's getting her fantasy fulfilled for Christmas.
i hope we get the whole story.
 
If you knew a white woman/wife was a closet submissive, and were pretty sure she hadn’t acted on those desires (I’m guessing a very common phenomenon with married white women especially if their husbands are not natural or practicing/role playing that role with them, which is why it would be a secret unfulfilled fantasy in the first place), and you had an opportunity to flirt/hit on her, would your approach differ at all from approaching a white woman/wife who you had no idea if she had that secret kink/desire?

I’m curious because I’m 99.9% sure my wife has this fantasy but is too repressed, ashamed, whatever to come out and admit it. Just wondering if it would change your approach, if you have experienced this very thing, and if you do change your approach what would you say or do to stir that inside her and increase your chances of getting with her? I would imagine that most women especially wives, even if they have these secret desires require some casual warm up, getting comfortable, especially when meeting a stranger for the first time, before he’s able to strum those chords within her. But I also have to imagine that if the husband has shared his kink very openly and often of getting tremendously turned on by the idea of watching her get pleasured by a well ung black man, it makes the approach easier.

Or maybe you’re just a dom who channels their inner Popeye “I am’s what’s I am…” and you just approach women the same way. Your success rate may suffer but it’s all about volume, take enough swings you’ll hit one out?
mine did, but she also talks in her sl33p & will even respond to what you say or do if you present it right. read "alyssa's children" to better understand how i handled it.
 
i hope we get the whole story.
I’ve been working offsite, but came back to the office this week. She came looking for me and now she works later in the evening. This past Friday, she called my name from across the office in a sexy sing song voice and asked how long I was working late and not to leave her there alone.

Not sure who is testing me, but they’re doing a good job. Daylights savings coming soon and the lights having a tendency to go off from the lack of motion after 5 is just… How much more can a man’s self-control take?
 
If you knew a white woman/wife was a closet submissive, and were pretty sure she hadn’t acted on those desires (I’m guessing a very common phenomenon with married white women especially if their husbands are not natural or practicing/role playing that role with them, which is why it would be a secret unfulfilled fantasy in the first place), and you had an opportunity to flirt/hit on her, would your approach differ at all from approaching a white woman/wife who you had no idea if she had that secret kink/desire?

I’m curious because I’m 99.9% sure my wife has this fantasy but is too repressed, ashamed, whatever to come out and admit it. Just wondering if it would change your approach, if you have experienced this very thing, and if you do change your approach what would you say or do to stir that inside her and increase your chances of getting with her? I would imagine that most women especially wives, even if they have these secret desires require some casual warm up, getting comfortable, especially when meeting a stranger for the first time, before he’s able to strum those chords within her. But I also have to imagine that if the husband has shared his kink very openly and often of getting tremendously turned on by the idea of watching her get pleasured by a well ung black man, it makes the approach easier.

Or maybe you’re just a dom who channels their inner Popeye “I am’s what’s I am…” and you just approach women the same way. Your success rate may suffer but it’s all about volume, take enough swings you’ll hit one out?
You described my wife and one of her former coworkers who was this well built black guy. Had I brought up my fantasies of watching her in bed with a hung black man earlier before he quit he could have flirted with her. Well they had already done that but that is a whole other story.
 
If you knew a white woman/wife was a closet submissive, and were pretty sure she hadn’t acted on those desires (I’m guessing a very common phenomenon with married white women especially if their husbands are not natural or practicing/role playing that role with them, which is why it would be a secret unfulfilled fantasy in the first place), and you had an opportunity to flirt/hit on her, would your approach differ at all from approaching a white woman/wife who you had no idea if she had that secret kink/desire?

I’m curious because I’m 99.9% sure my wife has this fantasy but is too repressed, ashamed, whatever to come out and admit it. Just wondering if it would change your approach, if you have experienced this very thing, and if you do change your approach what would you say or do to stir that inside her and increase your chances of getting with her? I would imagine that most women especially wives, even if they have these secret desires require some casual warm up, getting comfortable, especially when meeting a stranger for the first time, before he’s able to strum those chords within her. But I also have to imagine that if the husband has shared his kink very openly and often of getting tremendously turned on by the idea of watching her get pleasured by a well ung black man, it makes the approach easier.

Or maybe you’re just a dom who channels their inner Popeye “I am’s what’s I am…” and you just approach women the same way. Your success rate may suffer but it’s all about volume, take enough swings you’ll hit one out?
Do you watch interacial porn with her?
 
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