If you knew a white woman/wife was a closet submissive, and were pretty sure she hadn’t acted on those desires (I’m guessing a very common phenomenon with married white women especially if their husbands are not natural or practicing/role playing that role with them, which is why it would be a secret unfulfilled fantasy in the first place), and you had an opportunity to flirt/hit on her, would your approach differ at all from approaching a white woman/wife who you had no idea if she had that secret kink/desire?
I’m curious because I’m 99.9% sure my wife has this fantasy but is too repressed, ashamed, whatever to come out and admit it. Just wondering if it would change your approach, if you have experienced this very thing, and if you do change your approach what would you say or do to stir that inside her and increase your chances of getting with her? I would imagine that most women especially wives, even if they have these secret desires require some casual warm up, getting comfortable, especially when meeting a stranger for the first time, before he’s able to strum those chords within her. But I also have to imagine that if the husband has shared his kink very openly and often of getting tremendously turned on by the idea of watching her get pleasured by a well ung black man, it makes the approach easier.
Or maybe you’re just a dom who channels their inner Popeye “I am’s what’s I am…” and you just approach women the same way. Your success rate may suffer but it’s all about volume, take enough swings you’ll hit one out?
I’m curious because I’m 99.9% sure my wife has this fantasy but is too repressed, ashamed, whatever to come out and admit it. Just wondering if it would change your approach, if you have experienced this very thing, and if you do change your approach what would you say or do to stir that inside her and increase your chances of getting with her? I would imagine that most women especially wives, even if they have these secret desires require some casual warm up, getting comfortable, especially when meeting a stranger for the first time, before he’s able to strum those chords within her. But I also have to imagine that if the husband has shared his kink very openly and often of getting tremendously turned on by the idea of watching her get pleasured by a well ung black man, it makes the approach easier.
Or maybe you’re just a dom who channels their inner Popeye “I am’s what’s I am…” and you just approach women the same way. Your success rate may suffer but it’s all about volume, take enough swings you’ll hit one out?