It was my husbands idea. He wanted me to try Hotwife thing for years, I was VERY reluctant and really did not want to go there. About six or seven years ago I finally relented and gave in to his desire to have me date other men. My first three boyfriends were white, the last one lasting for over two years. Last April (2017) I had my first BBC, by May I had a black boyfriend that I see at least once a week. I hate to say it but my Husband was right, I LOVE BBC, it IS different and better. I wish I had started in this lifestyle 20 years ago!