Problems cumming without BBC
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Pretty much the only way I'm able to get off while having sex.
Imagining her telling me how much bigger he is..
Imagining her telling me how much bigger he is..
I love that too… except when I’m picturing her not even able to talk because he’s stuffing that giant cock meat into her mouth and shes making love to it with her lips while looking into his eyes!
Your fantatsy life has overtaken your reality and you need to step away- Just my .02
Our biggest sex organ is between our ears. If that makes you cum, then so what. Do you let her know what you're thinking of?
I don't see a problem if you're still able to cum. I haven't been able to cum for 7 yrs now because of my medical issue and the medications I'm on for it.
Consider yourself lucky.
I don't see a problem if you're still able to cum. I haven't been able to cum for 7 yrs now because of my medical issue and the medications I'm on for it.
Consider yourself lucky.
Thanks! I agree, I’m not worried about it at all. It feels great and we have a great sex life. I just like talking to other white guys if they have similar thoughts. Sorry about your situation, that’s very unfortunate. I do feel lucky.
It took me a while to learn this. I lasted maybe 30-45 seconds with my ex during sex. She’s now in a relationship with her BBC bull …
Thought I was on my own
You are not! I just did it a few hours ago when I had sex with my girlfriend. Was thinking about her stripping for a muscular black guy, then kissing him passionately while he felt her breasts and she was stroking his thick foot long penis. Then she dropped to her knees and he fed that monster slowly to her mouth. That fantasy made me fun pretty fast!Thought I was on my own
So I had the same issue. I'm going to tell you what I wish someone told me and didn't egg on the behaviors because it benefited them. It might not apply to you, but I'm talking to everyone plagued by being in your head during sex:
I didn't think it was an issue when I was a young married kid to "fuck in my head," but I have cum to realize that being in your head is a huge turn off because wives can sense the lack of presence and they know they should be -at least during sex- the center of attention: not your thoughts.
You can talk out loud I guess, but how distracting and disrespectful if you're just cramming the same soundbites in her ear to soothe your need for dopamine from thoughts? Open your eyes if youre closing them to think and start focusing your attention on her pleasure.
You might discover you're more than enough to please your woman and that you can just enjoy the lifestyle for the sake of hedonism and not JUST for the sake of interracial desires and kinks. Nothing wrong with desires and kinks and communicating when appropriate, but when it becomes incessant and the only focus is Interracial Porn scenes in your head, I'd say it's time to wake up, put down the porn, read books about human nature and hobbies you like and focus on being a grade A bad ass inside and outside the bedroom with your family
I think the result will be more of what you want anyways because you are not forsaking your dignity over kinks and that is attractive on anyone
my opinion.
short answer:
good luck and yes i could relate, not anymore
I didn't think it was an issue when I was a young married kid to "fuck in my head," but I have cum to realize that being in your head is a huge turn off because wives can sense the lack of presence and they know they should be -at least during sex- the center of attention: not your thoughts.
You can talk out loud I guess, but how distracting and disrespectful if you're just cramming the same soundbites in her ear to soothe your need for dopamine from thoughts? Open your eyes if youre closing them to think and start focusing your attention on her pleasure.
You might discover you're more than enough to please your woman and that you can just enjoy the lifestyle for the sake of hedonism and not JUST for the sake of interracial desires and kinks. Nothing wrong with desires and kinks and communicating when appropriate, but when it becomes incessant and the only focus is Interracial Porn scenes in your head, I'd say it's time to wake up, put down the porn, read books about human nature and hobbies you like and focus on being a grade A bad ass inside and outside the bedroom with your family
I think the result will be more of what you want anyways because you are not forsaking your dignity over kinks and that is attractive on anyone
my opinion.
short answer:
good luck and yes i could relate, not anymore
Yes but i don’t always tell her so.
You’re not! DM me if you want to talk about itThought I was on my own
I never tell her, I’m too scared. But it makes sex so incredible
moebunz1994
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Damn your sexy
A valuable .02 as she is correct.
Porn has a way of doing this. It happened to me. I became bored with my gf (I'm bi) like 10 yrs ago. I was constantly fantasizing about this and that with her. Yet, she did not do anything like that. The fantasy just kept expanding to the "unobtainable" phase. She soon asked why I had become so crazy with ideas on "things for us to do" (sexually)
So, lay off the porn, all of it. Just connect with her again. Think about previous times you were with her that you loved.
Hopefully, this will be the last message you read on here for a while.
