We live about 30 minutes from the Paradise Lakes and Caliente Resort. What Sextravert said was very interesting. Garynjan had a great comment as well. I am wondering if either place has a better chance of BBC, as we have not visited in years, but used to go very often to both, and love both. Yes, they are different, but from what Sextravert said, it does make us wonder if Caliente is more cliquish. (I think that is the right word) We both love to play, and have been in the swinger lifestyle for decades, but I love to see my wife with BBC. 9thus the 4 Splash Mocha events we have attended) Any thoughts would be greatly appreciated.