my wife of 20 yrs and given this information , she's ok with and gets turned on by IR porn that I pull up. She wears zebra striped and cheetah print thongs, has a bopped hair cut and wears medium sized hoop earrings( was told this is the look by someone that screams she's ok with hooking up with black men?..) she also occasionally listens to rap, loves basketball....am I stereotyping to much or am I completely off base here?... Did I push her towards thinking about black guys or was she pushing me?... She says she thinks it's a turn on but wouldn't consider it because it could damage our relationship. Any thoughts???
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Fashion? Stereotyping. Yet the QoS tattoo is still missing. 
And what about the hotwife anklet? Toe rings? ...
i wouldn`t change my taste of music because of some sexual fantasy or lifestyle.
Could it damage your relationship? Do you think yes, or no? Why does she think it could?
And what about the hotwife anklet? Toe rings? ...i wouldn`t change my taste of music because of some sexual fantasy or lifestyle.
Could it damage your relationship? Do you think yes, or no? Why does she think it could?
She has a lower back tattoo, she probably doesn't know what a qos tatt or toe ring would mean. She is the quiet soccer mom type.
A life style like that can most deff. Hurt a relationship, it's playing with fire, I'm sure to some that's part of the excitement. As far as myself?? The thought of her being a slut for some bbc and getting totally turned on....turns me on very much. But.... I also don't want to lose her.
A life style like that can most deff. Hurt a relationship, it's playing with fire, I'm sure to some that's part of the excitement. As far as myself?? The thought of her being a slut for some bbc and getting totally turned on....turns me on very much. But.... I also don't want to lose her.
...one part of my questions is answered. T.Y. But what about this one?...
An important question to be answered by her.
Some women fear their partner`s jealousy or decreasing respect for them even if it was initially brought up by their partner. Others fear that they may not be able to handle a "sex without love" situation and maybe fall in love with the other man, or lose respect for their partners for letting them play on the side.
Don`t enter the lifestyle, if you are not already convinced that both of you will be able to handle it. And if you decide to start it, agree upon some ground rules first, for example that either of you can quit it at any point (in effect for both), and do respect each others limits, likes and dislikes.
Keep in mind that it is a couple`s lifestyle and it`s for the fun of it. Good luck.
Very good points and advice.
Like i said I'm not sure how we got herre?? I guess it started with us buying a large dildo that showed up the wrong color. .. it was huge! And she said she wouldn't try it. She admitted she rode it a week later while I worked nights. This led to me getting turned on checking out ir porn yada ...yada...
But now.... I'm thinking the right black guy could possibly seduce her..... gonna keep it at the fantasy stage for now
( on my end). She is getting off hard with the fantasy for now.
Like i said I'm not sure how we got herre?? I guess it started with us buying a large dildo that showed up the wrong color. .. it was huge! And she said she wouldn't try it. She admitted she rode it a week later while I worked nights. This led to me getting turned on checking out ir porn yada ...yada...
But now.... I'm thinking the right black guy could possibly seduce her..... gonna keep it at the fantasy stage for now
( on my end). She is getting off hard with the fantasy for now.
Just make sure she is OK being seduced, talking about it and doing it are very different things. There is also a significant difference physically and psychologically between your wife's pussy getting filled by a piece of plastic versus a real live hard cock
The choice for her first IR is very important especially if the bull is large. I have had women that just can't handle what I had to offer. I have had more than a few OMG's. However I have no problem putting the woman on top and letting her decide how much she can handle. Most novices that are over 35 or 40 can handle a good deal more cock than they realize, they just need the opportunity to discover that.
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