One night stands or long term?

[paolacpl]

Exactly! Also like to find a nice married couple long term that I am compatible with as well rather than looking all the time.
Also safer with no condoms necessary.

I love the image in your avatar, right attitude!

 

[cheshire wimp]

My wife says LTR is the only way this works

 

[Yargetnoved]

If you are able to make sure it goes long term, it’s much more fufulling and rewarding. I’ve had the husband bring the wife to the hotel, and leave her for the night.

 

[JJSMITHY54321]

For us long term is important. I'm currently seeing my bbc boyfriend for about 3 years now. If I decide to stay the night, hubby feels comfortable and knows I'm having more fun!

 

[TucsonWife4Men]

long term is better but one night often happen while searching for men or just by accident. When my wife worked in Atlanta she met seven different men in order to find two regulars for the year she worked at Home Depot. This can have unexpected consequences, we were at home and had not had anyone around for a while when three men asked to visit , so she had a morning afternoon and evening but then the same thing happened the next day. Men will come and go and due to circumstance are not able to visit routinely. When she first started she went fishing at the locsl club and had a few one nighters before finding regulars. Try to enjoy whatever happens

This is true. I don’t see men 1x on purpose but it has happened many times for mutual good reasons.

Yes, sometimes at parties, traveling for work, etc you may selectively hook up because the NEED and initial attraction is so hot plus the opportunity is there (drinking alone at hotel bars and already having a room).

I agree with this post as it has usually taken “kissing” (fucking) a few frogs to find the right 1 long-term Bull. The reward has always been worth it, and 90% fun along the way.

 

[WifeShare69]

Both are good in their own ways. I try to always have a few long term guys. I do like one nighters when traveling. Also, I have mentioned elsewhere, I absolutely love being a guy’s first white pussy.

 

[KingDomino]

I’m with you here. I prefer long term. One for the connection and second because of risk. When I find a couple collects bulls with a lot of one night stands I walk away.

Preach can't put my dick in a blender

 

[KingDomino]

Both are good in their own ways. I try to always have a few long term guys. I do like one nighters when traveling. Also, I have mentioned elsewhere, I absolutely love being a guy’s first white pussy.

Taking their white girl virginity, you bad girl

 

[KingDomino]

One night stands with couples that are new are ok or with couples that want to try someone new... but when couples have over 50 plus guys validating them... yeaaaa you know that number is beyond that. I just dont want to take the risk with a couple that plays with just anyone and doesnt do a due diligence in their search. There are some guys that will stick their dick in about anything and couples that want their holes filled with about anything... I dont want to get punished for other peoples actions by catching something or getting into drama.

But to be honest, you cant really trust what anyone tells you until you build a relationship with them and they dont want to jeopardize the relationship

As guys that have been doing this longer than 10 years, I feel we should keep the younger guys informed of stuff like this. It's ok to want to have fun but be smart and protect not only yourself but whatever partners you may have! Building something safe may take a little extra effort but it's so worth it

 

[curious28]

If you are able to make sure it goes long term, it’s much more fufulling and rewarding. I’ve had the husband bring the wife to the hotel, and leave her for the night.

Lucky girl!

 

[sherrylust]

I have done both, I do have several long term

 

[Redwood]

Long term especially if there's chemistry or a chance of developing chemistry.

 

[geoffrya]

Luckily we have both some have been 17 yrs others 5 yrs and still one offs

 

[Hotwifewhisper]

For me a longer term play mate is what I was seeking and have now found.

Some women prefer more casual hook ups to avoid any connection issues that may arise. This is more prominent in couples first starting or younger play mates who enjoy the thrill of converting the married women to BBC .

Longer term advantages are trust , respect , sexual understanding and boundary setting with someone who has come to understand how you like sex and what your sexual preferences are.

 

[Drewdewu]

Both of the wives I see started as casual one night stands that turned into long term relationships and it was the best thing for us to be honest

 

[Bigcalidick]

Both

 

[AnnieS]

I’ve had one and done and a longer term situation that I prefer. More comfortable.

 

[10pt5applhed]

I’ve had one and done and a longer term situation that I prefer. More comfortable.

 

[Joetana712]

I’ve had one and done and a longer term situation that I prefer. More comfortable. Bet you could find a one nighter in Hawaii.

 

[Jdingo619]

Even my one nighters are long, because I stay in that pussy until it's time to leave!

I gotta checkout with the front desk, I be in that pussy so long!