I have tried several times to buy dildos for my wife, both large black dildos and smaller than my own size. but she simply doesn't mind them. she doesn't feel comfortable with a dildo up in her. she likes things that can vibrate on the clitoris. but also no more. she says it's too fake and gives her no pleasure. I wish we could have a little more sex life, where she takes some realistic black dildos with an okay size, not too big or too small. But I just don't know what to do... Are there other men, women, couples who have had the same problem??