Sounds like a new chapter in your life has just begun!I have flirted with this lifestyle for years. Before I married my husband we experimented with lifestyle but Eventually a bad experience with a guy made me end the arrangement and got married with the understanding I didn’t want to be a hot wife. Fast forward years later my dog gets loose and I chase my dog to my neighbors yard. My neighbor was outside and I instantly recognized him. When I was 18 and my bf went to college I Was at my friends house and this black guy started hitting on me and tho I’m not proud of it I cheated on my boyfriend with him. Let’s call him Jim. Eventually I broke up with my bf at the time, but jim kept dominated me for months and I let him, until our lives went separate ways. So here I am standing in front of Jim who I haven’t seen in years. We chat, he offers me a free tattoo and without thinking I invited him home to do the tattoo. While my husband is working he gives me a tattoo. And after the tattoo he bent me over in the bathroom knowing my husband was on his way home from work. I don’t regret what happened and I have confessed to my husband and he seems fine. I just worry because I didn’t plan any of this and he is our neighbor that things may go to far. Has anyone else had someone from their past become their regular bull? I want to see where this goes im just unsure of what boundaries to set as well as my ability to not cross them. Thanks for reading.