If a am with a single woman I have pre arranged playlists on my mp3 player system that I bring as part of my hotel kit!
It has: jazz, oldies, hip hop, R&B, hip hop and R&b, reggae, pop, hardcore gangster rap for those who like that thug love!
If I am with a couple I usually allow them to play their music! I have beat pussy up to alternative rock, and metal before so even though it's not my particular choice of music I will still blow your back out with it playing in the room!