Thats how i see it too. Everything else is just extra labeling. Some people think cuck = beta due to media and memes so they just came up with stag to distance themselves.
Sorry, we can define ourselves the way we want. We explicitly do not identify with cuckoldry for us personally. She is not unfaithful to me ('engaging in sexual relations with a person other than one's regular partner in contravention of a previous promise or understanding'). We do not think of black men as her lovers, she doesn't kiss others, does not go on dates alone, and our specific promise and understanding explicitly has always been that we allow others to join us, because we see it as giving each other something extra for the other's pleasure and experience that we cannot give alone and adds to our healthy relationship we have. Our specific promise is to simply never do anything alone or in secret and that our romantic relationship is ours and not something we give or receive from others. That, to us, counts as unfaithfulness. The mainstream has its version of cuckoldry that it promotes, you have yours, but we define our relationship as we want and we do. For us personally (not saying this is right) a cuckold comes with a hotwife who adhere to a lifestyle. My wife is not in a lifestyle and we feel that cuckoldry in contemporary usage (not your use of the more historical and narrow definition) is more a fetish with aspects to it that we simply do not identify with at all. We respect hotwives, QoS, and cuckolds, but that is not for us.
you are are more right than what you realize. the whole interracial thing is winding down.
then you should definitely stay away from those guys. You are more into swinging and MFM with your husband. This puts you in the hot wife category.
I wouldn’t call it exactly swinging, as my husband doesn’t see other women (I’m too jealous!!), but that doesn’t mean he is into guys just because he is confident enough to share me with other lovers.
Ok! Fun with no labels makes everyone comfortable and of course have a lot of fun
it means he thinks his wife is so beautiful, that other men should get to enjoy you as well!
Sure , but now let me ask you this,
I think you missed the point of my original post. If my husband was bisexual that would be one thing, but lots of potential bulls not only assume, but flat out tell me I’m wrong when I let them know what we’re into. It’s been nearly a decade since he started sharing me, so I have a pretty good idea of our preferences. It’s not about being anti-gay sex, it’s about not fitting the mold of your labels. We like what we like, and if you don’t like it, find someone else to play with.
That's the whole point of this, or any other lifestyle choice. You should "...like what (you) like, and if you don't like it, find someone else..."
Very well said
Seems very very high.
i was thinking the exact same thing. But perhaps the question was about fantasies that would pop up every now and then and not about readiness to do it for real?
TBH i think 87% is a rather low percentage actually because it means that the other 13% have never in their lives even had such a fantasy. Heck, when i think of my own sexual fantasies i am pretty sure i have gone through each and every ethnic you can imagine. Those include Women i know in real life, Women on TV screens, porn stars, fantasy creatioins, a.s.o. But back to the topic...
