Are people moving away? I'm noticing a shift in ads, profiles and websites that I browse. No one is really looking for a cuckold thing anymore. I got enthralled with the cuckold fantasy and I would love to meet a couple that was for it. But Cuckolds couples are hard to find. Couples, single females are easier but as far as cuckold itself, it seems to be more niche than it was say 5 years ago. Why is that? I'm seeing this stag/vixen thing being mentioned a lot more when I read websites. I didn't even know that was a thing?
Moving away from cuckold into "stag/vixen?"
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It is my opinion that cuckold is the fantasy of a certain type of white male. I don't think many women/wives are into it.
More common are couples where the woman has sex with other men with the consent of the husband. They do it for fun without the husband being humiliated. The husband does not have an attraction to other men as many cuckold men do have (even when they will not admit it). It's just fun without the pseudo-bisexuality and humiliation of the husband.
More common are couples where the woman has sex with other men with the consent of the husband. They do it for fun without the husband being humiliated. The husband does not have an attraction to other men as many cuckold men do have (even when they will not admit it). It's just fun without the pseudo-bisexuality and humiliation of the husband.
Not at all! The biggest problem is that there are no well-defined terms (anymore). Things that used to mean a particular thing five years ago have shifted to mean something (completely) different today.
i assume that for many people what was once the cuckold/hotwife lifestyle has now become stag/vixen. Mostly, only the words have changed. 
A true cuckold will be either a beta male, or smaller in stature, or bi-tendency
A stag with be either/or both an alpha male or larger stature, unlikely to exhibit bi-tendencies.
It is not just sissies, or punished beta males that want humiliated by their wives. Some men, might be heavy weight cage fighters or something that just want to watch their wife be blacked or slutted out.
A stag with be either/or both an alpha male or larger stature, unlikely to exhibit bi-tendencies.
It is not just sissies, or punished beta males that want humiliated by their wives. Some men, might be heavy weight cage fighters or something that just want to watch their wife be blacked or slutted out.
i`m almost giving up on definitions; everyone seems to have their own. :\
US men into wifesharing ... 58% (a mojority!)
US women into wifesharing ... 33%
...study finds. Nothing said about cuckold, hotwife, stag, vixen, bull, ...
US women into wifesharing ... 33%
...study finds. Nothing said about cuckold, hotwife, stag, vixen, bull, ...
I'm there myself. I wonder if I should move away from the definition and see if that would land me to meet some compatible couples. I'm not really into the men dictating the fun in the bedroom so to speak. Men that want to play steven spielberg. I don't knock that type of play. People enjoy it but just not what I'm into.
That`s why i always stress the importance of filling ones profile with meaningful info about oneself.
It doesn`t help to simply provide a lifestyle role such as "bull" or "cuckold" as description because most of the people reading it would have a different understandig of what it is in their opinion.
Some rules of thumb...
* If you say you want to have real meetings but don`t have any location info on your profile, you do not really want to meet in the first place.
* If you post images that identify the person(s) depicted but do not also verify on the site you are not the one you claim to be because the process of verification is just as simple as uploading any content to the site.
Most important information include who/what you are seeking, your DOs and, most importantly, your DONTs! Everyone has a reason why they are here - it`s useless to crave one thing and not let others know what it is but instead hope for it to happen "accidentally". Likewise everyone has their limits - to state them is even more important!
Other things one might be interested in and that are necessary to mention include if you are a woman, a man or a couple, your approximate age, "ethnicity", and if you are heterosexual and/or homosexual. The latter needs to be stated separately for man and woman on a couple`s profile. Also for those seeking BDSM encounters... are you a dom, sub or a switch?!
Excuses like "I don't have mentioned I am dominant because I already said I am a 'bull'" are useless, stupid and won't help you find those you are looking for.
At least in some swingers circles in Florida, "stag/vixen" is just another term for hotwife/open marriage dynamics and not cuckold. But cuckold couples are becoming less and less common in Florida as poly relationships become more "socially normal."
Just from my observances...
Just from my observances...
It will depend on the personality type of the woman. Like my wife, once doors are closed, she wants ZERO control. And she doesn’t do women, so..... guess that leaves the man, or one of the men to play the steven spielberg? Guess it narrows the options down to one or the other. ... not sure how many casual men have been gang banged by their wives and her sexy friends from the PTA meetings?
The Stag/Vixen started when Alpha males wanted their own "title" to distance themselves from the "Cucks". Completely different lifestyles.
A stag/vixen is essentially Swingers.
Both parties are present for play.
A stag/vixen is essentially Swingers.
Both parties are present for play.
Same car in a different color. A wife who sleeps with other men is cuckolding her husband. There are no two ways about it.
We can thank mainstream porn for tainting the "cuckold" name, by merging bisexuality, cross-dressing, Dom/sub, etc. into the act of cuckolding.
We can thank mainstream porn for tainting the "cuckold" name, by merging bisexuality, cross-dressing, Dom/sub, etc. into the act of cuckolding.
The cuckold/hotwife/bull triangle seems to be a fantasy of some white males. It demands a dominant woman who enjoys humiliating her husband, but very few females fit with this profile. The vast majority of bulls are straight and don't want to interact with other man in such terms neither. There is a strong contradiction in many cuckolds mindset, very difficult to overcome. They want to be dominated and humiliated, but they want two persons to play as mere actors for their own gratification. The analogy with Spielberg is very accurate.
The stag/vixen dynamics are more natural and accommodate the desires and limits of all the parties involved. Fact is - in an open relationship women will always have more chances to have sex than men, so an open marriage will easily evolve into a stag/vixen relationship.
The stag/vixen dynamics are more natural and accommodate the desires and limits of all the parties involved. Fact is - in an open relationship women will always have more chances to have sex than men, so an open marriage will easily evolve into a stag/vixen relationship.
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Spot on as usual @MonicaV calls it as it is in my view insightful and enlightening contributions
Nastycpl3
Couple
Fucking great observation!
rocknrobin007
Couple
Thank you so much for clarifying the true meaning of cuckold...yes simply the husband of a a wife who fucks other men....nothing more..nothing less. I myself am a proud cuckold and find it quite disturbing when I read alot of the posts on here where the term is used so out of context...where guys have to be bi or gay....they have to clean thier wife....suck her bulls cock...be humiliated by the wife or her bull...even be fucked by the bull .and so many other things that dont represent the true meaning of being cucked. I guess alot of guys just add thier own fantasys to the term to make thier won porn movie in their mind and then share it on here. Of course all of the things I mentioned to happen in open sexual relationships...but none are required for a husband to be a cuckold. Im sure there are many straight men out there that are cucks.
This is why I hate labels, everyone seems to have such strict definitions. I’ve even had guys get mad and tell me I’m wrong when I say my husband doesn’t want to be humiliated or have gay sex with other guys. Can’t I just enjoy having sex with other guys, and turn on my husband at the same time without having to label it?
