My wife of twenty-four years surprised me last month when she told me she either wanted more freedom or a separation. When I asked what kind of freedom, she implied that she wanted to date outside our marriage. I had no desire to lose my wife (she is very attractive), so I reluctantly agreed to give her more freedom. She has dated a couple of black guys the past few weeks and, although I don't like it, she seems much happier. I now watch while she gets ready for her dates .