jamesriske
Male
In the early stages of trying to open up my white wife of over 10 yrs. to the idea of spreading her legs and fucking a another Man for a first time since we are together datibg and married, that man being a Black man, without coming out and saying it to her. Me playfully hinting here and there and trying to push her fantasies without pushing has finally paid off.. 2 nights ago after pushing her a bit to show me on her phone what turns her in if she had to get off and we weren't together, she out of nowhere shows me a blk man fucking a white woman, i was floored, then it goes to 2 blk men on a wht woman, I said would you ever with a blk man(she never did before)she said she thought about it, if we weren't married she would, she said look at how big blk men are, I left it at that.. sorry for long post but this where I am at and want to follow up thru this window but need advise and help please.. My next step without messing this up? If you read my about page I detailed us without this latest event. Also thinking about getting her on here like we found this site together , could use all thoughts please.
Just tell her that it turns you on too. Simple. Why complicate it. ?
Tell her that you were thinking about the pictures on her cell phone and it turned you on too.
Next time you're having sex, do some dirty talk about interracial sex.
Then, a couple nights later, watch the movie ******* Instincts with David Carradine (get the first one, the one with David Carradine) with her. It's about a man who gets off watching his wife have sex with other men but it's mainstream enough to not be porno and it brings up the subject perfectly. As you're watching, tell her that it's making you horny and see how she reacts. If she likes it too then agree to find a black guy and let her jack him off and massage him while you watch. Do something small at first, just a hand job, see how you both like it. Take small steps so no one if overly nervous about it all. If it goes well, have her do more the next time, like a blow job. Then more the next time, etc. Soon as you know it, she'll be fucking black guys while you watch. That worked for my wife and I and we've been doing it for years now.
It's not complicated. Don't make it so.