Wifesharing LTR
Terms used in This Article
For simplicity "wife" in this context may refer to both a married or an unmarried Woman in a romantic/heterosexual/emotional/spiritual long term relationship with a strong bond between her and her husband or boyfriend. Likewise the term "husband" may refer to a married or unmarried man in such a relationship.
Also "Wifesharing" refers to a lifestyle in which both such wives and girlfriends are being shared by their partners.
In addition the symbolic terms "Stag" and "Vixen" may be used to denote the roles of a husband and a wife in that specific type of a sharing lifestyle which will be explained later on. The (also symbolic) term "Stallion" will be introduced to refer to the role of a wife's (regular) partner "on the side".
Scope of This Discussion
This article is about consensual Wifesharing with a regular third playmate as an Adult Sexual Lifestyle and not about polyamorous relationships. Even though the latter also have a place within the group of sharing lifestyles and relationship models, those are not being discussed here. Also, to be more specific, the focus is on heterosexual sharing of a man's wife or girlfriend with another male partner.
All statements herein reflect my own personal views on the subject matter that have formed from direct and indirect experiences as well as reasoning based on sources, both scientific and profane.
Why Wifesharing in a Long Term Relationship (LTR)? - PART I
Before I go deeper into that, let's take a more general look at Wifesharing...
First off we can distinguish two very different scenarios. One being consensual, the other being non-consensual. The latter would describe a cheating wife with an either unaware or conniving husband who does not consent to her cheating. In a consensual scenario the husband not only lets happen the wife having relations with one or more other partner(s) "on the side" but also proactively consents to and often encourages and supports her having those. This article is about consensual Wifesharing.
Diagram 1. Consensual versus non-consensual Wifesharing (with examples)
Furthermore we can distinguish whom the wife is shared with based on the aspect of sexuality. A bisexual wife may find pleasure in being shared with one or more Woman/Women "on the side" to also fulfill her desire for sex or relationships with female partners which her husband cannot provide her with in person. Also both heterosexual and bisexual wives may be shared with other men which can be referred to as heterosexual Wifesharing. Bisexual sharing of a husband is not being discussed here because that would be a different lifestyle with a greatly different dynamic too. This article is about heterosexual Wifesharing.
Diagram 2. Heterosexual versus bisexual Wifesharing (with examples)
Before I go on, let us take a closer look at diagrams 1 and 2...
The first diagram is not fully correct as the examples of both a polyamorous and a swinging wife need not necessarily be based on the husband's consensus. To be more precise we have to add the information that in those examples the husband knows about his wife's swinging or having relationships with another person and consents to that.
What we see in diagram 2 is that the aspects consensus and sexuality are orthogonal (meaning they don't depend on each other) which means there can be scenarios or situations with those aspects in either combination.
An example of consensual heterosexual Wifesharing would be a "wife shared in a GB" (as long as the husband is consenting to that, of course).
An example of non-consensual heterosexual Wifesharing would be a "wife (who) cheats with another man".
An example of consensual bisexual Wifesharing would be a "wife shared in (a) FFM" threesome with the husband being the male participant.
An example of non-consensual bisexual Wifesharing would be a "wife (who) has sex with a M/F couple" behind her husband's back.
Another observation (from diagram 1) is that a polyamorous wife, a swinging wife and a Vixen are being distinguished. But what's the difference between those? - I will look closer into that in the follow-up article "Why Wifesharing in a long term relationship (LTR)? - PART II", if appreciated by you, my fellow B2w "kinksters".
Terms used in This Article
For simplicity "wife" in this context may refer to both a married or an unmarried Woman in a romantic/heterosexual/emotional/spiritual long term relationship with a strong bond between her and her husband or boyfriend. Likewise the term "husband" may refer to a married or unmarried man in such a relationship.
Also "Wifesharing" refers to a lifestyle in which both such wives and girlfriends are being shared by their partners.
In addition the symbolic terms "Stag" and "Vixen" may be used to denote the roles of a husband and a wife in that specific type of a sharing lifestyle which will be explained later on. The (also symbolic) term "Stallion" will be introduced to refer to the role of a wife's (regular) partner "on the side".
Scope of This Discussion
This article is about consensual Wifesharing with a regular third playmate as an Adult Sexual Lifestyle and not about polyamorous relationships. Even though the latter also have a place within the group of sharing lifestyles and relationship models, those are not being discussed here. Also, to be more specific, the focus is on heterosexual sharing of a man's wife or girlfriend with another male partner.
All statements herein reflect my own personal views on the subject matter that have formed from direct and indirect experiences as well as reasoning based on sources, both scientific and profane.
Why Wifesharing in a Long Term Relationship (LTR)? - PART I
Before I go deeper into that, let's take a more general look at Wifesharing...
First off we can distinguish two very different scenarios. One being consensual, the other being non-consensual. The latter would describe a cheating wife with an either unaware or conniving husband who does not consent to her cheating. In a consensual scenario the husband not only lets happen the wife having relations with one or more other partner(s) "on the side" but also proactively consents to and often encourages and supports her having those. This article is about consensual Wifesharing.
Diagram 1. Consensual versus non-consensual Wifesharing (with examples)
Furthermore we can distinguish whom the wife is shared with based on the aspect of sexuality. A bisexual wife may find pleasure in being shared with one or more Woman/Women "on the side" to also fulfill her desire for sex or relationships with female partners which her husband cannot provide her with in person. Also both heterosexual and bisexual wives may be shared with other men which can be referred to as heterosexual Wifesharing. Bisexual sharing of a husband is not being discussed here because that would be a different lifestyle with a greatly different dynamic too. This article is about heterosexual Wifesharing.
Diagram 2. Heterosexual versus bisexual Wifesharing (with examples)
Before I go on, let us take a closer look at diagrams 1 and 2...
The first diagram is not fully correct as the examples of both a polyamorous and a swinging wife need not necessarily be based on the husband's consensus. To be more precise we have to add the information that in those examples the husband knows about his wife's swinging or having relationships with another person and consents to that.
What we see in diagram 2 is that the aspects consensus and sexuality are orthogonal (meaning they don't depend on each other) which means there can be scenarios or situations with those aspects in either combination.
An example of consensual heterosexual Wifesharing would be a "wife shared in a GB" (as long as the husband is consenting to that, of course).
An example of non-consensual heterosexual Wifesharing would be a "wife (who) cheats with another man".
An example of consensual bisexual Wifesharing would be a "wife shared in (a) FFM" threesome with the husband being the male participant.
An example of non-consensual bisexual Wifesharing would be a "wife (who) has sex with a M/F couple" behind her husband's back.
Another observation (from diagram 1) is that a polyamorous wife, a swinging wife and a Vixen are being distinguished. But what's the difference between those? - I will look closer into that in the follow-up article "Why Wifesharing in a long term relationship (LTR)? - PART II", if appreciated by you, my fellow B2w "kinksters".
