Lo won't play without me there. She says it's too much like cheating.
That's how we feel too.That’s exactly how my wife feels.
Nice to hear that from someone else.
Jo’s hubby.
I do like to be watched but when I first started in the lifestyle I could really open up with the bull with my husband watching so I started going solo and my husband gets a thrill from being at home waiting for me
Maybe it’s because we’re just starting out, but Jo says she’s not doing it, if I’m not there.
For her, my moral support means her moral sex.
However, we respect others who feel differently.
When I first talked to my wife I said I wanted to be there. I told her of other couples where the wife goes out and then comes back home but there was no way I could do that. After contemplating it awhile and finding myself a tad conflicted about that arrangement I revised my thoughts and told her that I would understand if she felt differently about this and she wanted/needed to be alone every once in a while I would "get it."
She did not commit herself to anything but was glad I did not try to restrict her from things she might enjoy in this. I guess I would just be nervous about what she is saying or doing with him even though she would be home after all is said and done.