Just for the pleasure???

[Anthony0542]

I know this might be a dumb question especially on this website but if this thing is all about pleasure and fantasy - why not just use big motherfucking dildos and marvel at that. Why a person?

Especially when we know the bond and attachment that wives can gain for other men during sex and the fact that you’ve just killed your sex life???
And you have to play a bitch role to get sexual enjoyment as another man just takes whatever he wants??? Why risk that when you can watch your wife please herself with all sorts of dildos and much bigger than any man.

A lot of dudes claiming BBC aren’t even close as big as the BBC dildos.....why not enjoy your wife fuck those behemoth BBC dildos and continue to have sex with her.

I respect y’alls hustle but damn it seems fucked up that you get more pleasure trying to set up BBCs for her to fuck than trying to have sex with her.

Some of these dildos I’ve seem on media much bigger than the dudes.....

 

[Rovag66]

Maybe i’m not the right person to answer this but me and my husband are swingers and our lifestyle really gives an extra spice to our sexlife.

 

[Anthony0542]

Thanks for that Rova..that makes sense. Both people are getting some physical pleasure and using it explicitly for pleasure....but it doesn’t impact your sex life with each other.

I could imagine the wife of a BBC might wanna go average just to change it up. It’s harder to get mentally into a BBC when it’s right there every night.

The hotwives have days and weeks to get wet for the event....the wife of BBC has got minutes plus the mental anguish that he’s spraying his BBC seed all over the world....

Better to be Hotwife than wife of BBC.....I’m thinking

 

[RandC]

A very naive thread

 

[Anthony0542]

Why is this thread naive? I’m reading men talking about not having sex with their wife anymore as a result of this lifestyle. Having to navigate through jealousy and negative emotion. Women posting about needing help not falling in love with bull, and having bulls inpregnate them and having their husband be the substitute daddy.

Naive????

I think it’s very thoughtful. People are willing to risk all of that just to see wife on BBC...all I’m saying is use a BBC dildo.

 

[RandC]

You can't compare a dildo to a living god of a human being knowing your body and exactly where and how to fuck you to reach orgasms that you now know exist in you. A Dildo has never equalled the worst of the black men I have had the pleasure to know. Drama, babies and the L word are never so much as a fleeting thought...I do love and respect them and they respect my 35 year marriage.
I am only speaking for myself and those who live in this LS, I am sure there are outliers where things do happen as you suggest, but there are accidents and they can be happy for the people involved.

 

[Anthony0542]

R and C, I respect your opinion. You are definitely correct that a dildo can’t compare to a living god of a human being knowing your body and exactly where and how to fuck you to reach orgasms that you now know exist in you.

I didn’t know BBCs where now the modern day Zeus and Apollo. Damn.

This is a website catering to this lifestyle so I guess all the men here have already accepted their place in society as submissive men who have decided that sex with their wife is not worth it because they can’t please their wife like a man born with a big dick can.

I just hope we are not raising young boys to think, “dude you ain’t got a big dick so you will be worthless in the one thing that is the most pleasurable thing you can have”. “But don’t worry about it, your reward for not having a big dick is having your wife cut you off from sex, fuck BBC whenever she wants, while you make money, take care of the *******, and deal with her emotions, crankiness, and moodiness - BBC doesn’t have to deal with that ******* - he just gets to fuck (good deal).

I’m a football coach and this has given me new resolve to help teach my players how they should act as men and be treated.

I know people are going to say, “that I don’t get it, it’s just a man wanting their wife to get as much pleasure as possible and that the husband gets more pleasure watching his wife give the BBC her heart and soul to a random man than him getting anything from his wife”

I can’t raise my ******* to be that kind of man or my football players. They need to be respectful and love their wives but they also need to receive some respect from their wife or just let her walk and deal with BBC in a relationship. I’m sure he’ll be very happy to respect and love her.

Husbands, if this is your deal...and you like it. That’s good but don’t let people disrespect you. You are the reason this is happening and your wife and bull should be giving you credit all the time for not leaving your wife and having to have her to deal with no security and being another woman the bull fucks. (I get the fantasy - but I hope in real life men can’t getying bitched around....that hurts my heart)

I know I’m going to get some hell for this post but I think this is a rationale post.

 

[StevieGirl]

A lot of reasons actually why a dildo simply will not do. Even huge realistic dildos have zero swag... and they can't remember all those special places you like to be touched. They don't have those sexy hips that gyrate round and round, side to side... or that pound like a jackhammer. Or skin that's luscious thick. And they don't take pleasure in listening to you whine and scream, or watching your body shudder in *******. So there.

 

[Anthony0542]

I feel you guys.....Dildo sex is not better than real dick but I’m just saying isn’t it better than fucking another man and ending sexual pleasure with your husband forever and having him deal with the negative emotions and jealously.

Is this not happening or are the posts I’m reading all lies?

I guess men are cool with getting married to a women they love and then having BBC shut off they’re physically intimacy with their wife forever.

Bulls get yours man, in another part of my life I would have been you......Wives get yours (you have a devoted man, they will never leave you, they worship the ground you walk on no matter what you do or what you look like - and as a reward you get great sex. Why aren’t women pushing this more...marry a submissive husband - tell him he doesn’t satisfy you - and then go fuck BBC who are lined up to fuck a married woman)......

Husband - you might not get respect from anyone but I respect you. You are the man for allowing this to happen because you just love your wife. More power to you.

 

[slinky1]

Our friend who has been fucking my wife for 4 years, is 55yo, white and a 7" cock, so not huge, but not small. He has the most alpha male qualities i've ever known in a male. My wife drips like a tap when we catch up, her heart races, she giggles like a teenager around him... he just pushes all of her buttons. He makes her feel amazing, she loves dressing up and wearing outfits for him, loves the process on the day hair done, nails painted, pussy waxed, she loves lettting her inner slut out for him, and sometimes to my amasement, does and says some very dirty things, that she'd never do in the light of day. I have posed pics on here with her favourite black dildoes, and some are as thick as your arm... they do make her cum, but they don't realise the endorphins, butterfly's in the tummy, like passionate sex with someone your very attracted to does.

 

[Anthony0542]

Slink1, my man....I think I’ve come off very frustrsted in this thread. I just hate when a husband knows he’s sharing first place in his wife’s heart with someone who hasn’t put in 99% of the work to make her smile.

Slink1, I know you don’t care but to see my wife get all giddy for a dude that just comes over to fuck her would upset me.

Guys, I get it.....it’s unrealistic to think you and only you could complete your wife’s desire but it’s nice to think that.

The thing is it seems like every man on this thread thinks their wife is great and completes him.

I’m hating on the double standard.....I guess men have been living the double standard for years. It’s time for women to have their cake and eat it too.

My woman is gonna have to choose the cake or to eat it.....(I hate that cliche, hahahahaha) just is what it is. She has to trade greatest husband of all time for greatest sex of all time.

 

[Jay hung]

I’m with Anthony on this. Most of the men on here come off as pathetic and somehow get pleasure out of belittling themselves and calling themselves inferior and don’t deserve to fuck their own wife. It’s so fuckin stupid, I’ll never understand it

 

[slinky1]

Slink1, my man....I think I’ve come off very frustrsted in this thread. I just hate when a husband knows he’s sharing first place in his wife’s heart with someone who hasn’t put in 99% of the work to make her smile.

Slink1, I know you don’t care but to see my wife get all giddy for a dude that just comes over to fuck her would upset me.

Guys, I get it.....it’s unrealistic to think you and only you could complete your wife’s desire but it’s nice to think that.

The thing is it seems like every man on this thread thinks their wife is great and completes him.

I’m hating on the double standard.....I guess men have been living the double standard for years. It’s time for women to have their cake and eat it too.

My woman is gonna have to choose the cake or to eat it.....(I hate that cliche, hahahahaha) just is what it is. She has to trade greatest husband of all time for greatest sex of all time.

Thats cool, my wife and I have a great marriage and we love each other to death, the only bit that lacks in our relationship, is the sex. It always has, it did with my ex's as well. I've been a '******* fuck' as my ex wife always told me all my life, and mostly I had to agree, a small cock attached to a submissive male that cums instantly for the last 30 years, isn't going to itch anyones scratch, but we just look beyond that. Its partly to fill a gap in our marriage, but its also to add some spice, hedonistic fun outside of domestic life. To be honest, i've seen my wife fuck randoms at parties and seen her probably 50 times with our long term friend, and I always love seeing her in his arms, her orgasming with her legs wrapped around him... it brings her so much pleasure/ joy that society just would never accept. She gets to live out her slutty side with him and her loving side with me.

I think its only something a true cuckold can understand, the joy it bring to their marriage.

 

[slinky1]

I’m with Anthony on this. Most of the men on here come off as pathetic and somehow get pleasure out of belittling themselves and calling themselves inferior and don’t deserve to fuck their own wife. It’s so fuckin stupid, I’ll never understand it

My wife doesn't see me as pathetic, she just doesn't desire me sexually, never really has, and both of us knew that from the beginning 13 years ago. We thought we'd just be friends instead, yet 13 years on, plus children... here we are. Its not that I don't 'deserve' to fuck my wife, its whether she feels like doing that for me, mostly, she doesn't.. and i'm ok with that.

 

[Anthony0542]

The only reason I brought up the dildo thing was to find a way to save the sexual interaction between husband and wife because I think it’s important. Matter of fact, I think sex is what separates being a friend/roomate/business partner and being in a romantic relationship.

I know people are trying different things to rekindle their romance and I’m good with that but to choose a lifestyle that ends the one thing that differentiates you as a husband baffles me and then treat the dude like he’s a god because of what he was born with baffles me.

Call me old fashion but I think sex between a husband and wife still means something, when you can look each other in the eyes and know you are there for each other but 21st Century is something different.

It’s about getting FUCKED

 

[slinky1]

Well, I agree, but sex isn't always the glue that holds a marriage together.. there are a lot of men that are impotent, and just have to accept they'll never fuck their wife to an orgasm ever again. /but they survive. I do use dildoes and cock sleeves as well to try and give my wife something larger... for her though, she likes sex with alpha males and myself wearing a cock sleeve, attempting to fuck her like they do, just ends in disappointment and she loses desire as well... so for us, it is what it is.

 

[Anthony0542]

My wife doesn't see me as pathetic, she just doesn't desire me sexually, never really has, and both of us knew that from the beginning 13 years ago. We thought we'd just be friends instead, yet 13 years on, plus children... here we are. Its not that I don't 'deserve' to fuck my wife, its whether she feels like doing that for me, mostly, she doesn't.. and i'm ok with that.

Slink1, we’ve talked about this before. As long as your wife knows who the real MVP is - it’s you. I’m good with that.

Wives respect your cuckold husbands, they can fuck your whole world up by just leaving you.

Remember this works only because you have a husband at home that loves you and is creating stability for you and taking care of your needs. Without him, your world is Fucked. Stop calling him worthless because he can’t give you earth shattering orgasm like the BBC can although the BBC knows nothing about you and really doesn’t want to take the time to get to know you.

Make him feel like A MAN, please. Give a little less praise to the BBC. He’s awesome only because he was born that way.

Shaquille O’Neal and Wilt Chamberlain will never get the praise they probably deserve because they were born better than everyone else. We do give a lot of praise to the players that give you their all and made sure you were satisfied, although they couldn’t bring the rim down.....

Give our husbands some love.

 

[RandC]

My husband gets plenty of love...he isn't belitted or replaced just because of some recreational sexplay! Anyone who feels denigrated or jealous should never enter into these relationships. I think you are trying to paint the LS with a big cucky brush that doesn't adhere to all couples.

 

[Anthony0542]

R and C, I agree with you. Im glad you are giving your husband love, attention and the respect he deserves. I might be painting the LS a little unfairly.

You just read a lot of men who say they don’t have sex with their wife anymore because they can’t please them. And that is sad....

Sex is such a huge connector of people, it’s not just a recreational activity like playing basketball (that’s biology speaking) and to see men just give up on it and allow other men to connect in those ways is tough to see.

This is just something we’ve never seen...men cheated before but they still had sex with their wives and enjoyed it......now we have men saying I’d rather watch porn and watch my wife fuck other people than have sex with her...Damn.

New century type living