It's a start!

Discussion in 'General Discussion' started by cfanatsy, May 16, 2016.

  1. cfanatsy

    cfanatsy Member

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    First of all, I'm new to the lifestyle and have been having fantasies about it for a little while. I have yet to come forward to my wife about it because I'm a little scared about it changing our Relationship. But here is a little story about last saturday night, I think it might be positive, let me know what you think about it...

    So this weekend we went out to eat. She was wearing tight black pants, black high heels and a nice cleavage shirt, classy but sexy. With the pair she has it's hard to hide them.

    I noticed a black barman stare at her while we were coming in to get seated at a table... I asked her if she wanted to go to the bar instead and she didn't mind. So we sat down and I ordered a tall glass of wine for her, beer for me. The barman was more than happy to stare down her blouse trying not to get noticed but as we talked I catched him doing it and I gave him a big smile so I think he knew right away I didn't mind... We ate and drank some more and I knew she was getting a little drunk and the black stud behind the bar started to flirt a little with her, she felt uncomfortable at first with him but she understood it wasn't bothering me that much and I knew she liked it! I think every woman loves to get hit on a little right?

    Dwayne (barman's name) kept talking with us and he was leaning in the bar in front of us. At that moment I decided to go to the bathroom to leave them some space making sure I gave him a big smile before leaving... I took my time in there. I came back to Watch them from a distance, I notice she had lower her blouse a little so her cleavage would pop out better, she was laughing and him was bent on the bar right in front of her. I knew she felt hot about him right when I saw her just switching from side to side on the bar stool looking at him with her legs crossed. So I came back and the flirting continued and then it was time to leave, i saw her staring at him while I was paying the check... She started to the door before me walking for him to stare at her ass, I told him while she was away that he gave us great service and asked him when he was working again which is next saturday.

    On the way back we talked about what a great night it was and how I thought Dwayne wanted to do her, she laughed about it and said maybe, but don't worry I only want you... But home... oh my god was she hot, we fucked and she sucked my dick so hard, fuck some more and asked me to wear the "big dick" (a penis extension) which she never does... I think I might be on to something with her. great kinda first experience
     
  2. cscouple64

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  3. jdflacpl

    jdflacpl Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    you should have told her while fucking her with the "extension" that it was a big black dick and how much you would love to see that happen and yes it can be an issue if either one of you are not sure you want it
     
  4. Wiesbaden8790

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    I love when my wife talks about needing BBC while fucking! Good luck with Dwayne!
     
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  5. cfanatsy

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    I will make sure to mention next it... we are already planning for another diner this saturday :)
     
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  6. Lv2cleanup

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    Can't wait to hear what happens next!!
     
  7. helpgetherthere

    helpgetherthere Active Member

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    Nice!! Even if it doesn't pan out, the bbc fantasy play can add a nice dynamic to your sex life.
     
  8. cfanatsy

    cfanatsy Member

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    Yes I don't want to pressure her into it... if it happens it happens
     
  9. helpgetherthere

    helpgetherthere Active Member

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    Nothing wrong with a little nudging or creating opportunities. Like you said, y'all going back. Lol
     
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  10. krusty

    krusty Active Member

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    Please let us know about your next visit at this bar....
     
  11. MacNfries

    MacNfries Well-Known Member Sweet & Cordial Gold Member

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    If your visit goes as well the next time as it did this time, its time to share "sexual fantasy" talk. Especially if she's had a few drinks to lower her defenses. The first big step of a any strong relationship is the ability to "talk" about anything. It shows your relationship has trust & strength.
     
  12. cfanatsy

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    So a little update from last night for those who wishes to know. We went shopping this week and she decided on buying a nice pair of tight black pants and a nice purple shirt with a low cleavage. She also, to my surprise, decided on buying a sexy black set of g-string and bra and new high heels.

    I was laying low on saturday just watching how she was acting during the day to try to have a feeling of how she truly felt. I noticed that she prepared longer than usual before going out, long shower (most of the time meaning she has shaved) and her hair and make-up were well done. She wore everything she bought when we went shopping. She looked stunning and I made sure she knew it.

    We got there and while waiting to be sitted I saw Dwayne going about behind the bar so I offered once again to go sit there since we had so much fun last week and she agreed with a smile! When the waitress came to get us I told her I had to go to the bathroom and that I would meet her there (I wanted her to arrive at the bar alone and see Dwayne's reaction) So she walk to the bar and I kind of looked from afar how they would great each other, Right away Dwayne recognized her and they started to talk as she was settling down, I knew he complimented her because I saw her noding like when you say thank you to a compliment... I felt so excited! So I took my time in the washroom and when I came back she already had a glass of wine and they were chatting, he kind of took a step back when he saw me but greated me warmly and I made sure he felt I didn't mind the way he was acting with my wife.

    We ate and the wine was flowing, they flirted a lot, sex related topics came often and we all laughed. She went to the bathroom after Dwayne left to get something in the kitchen and I saw them cross each other in the hall from afar, they talked alone for a couple minutes and I knew she liked him by the way she was acting (also a couple of wine glasses in), she glanced at him over her left shoulder as she was getting in the bathroom and he followed her gaze. I made sure to look elsewhere when he turned over because I didn't want him to feel uneasy about me watching them. We talked a little after before she came back and he complimented me on how nice and beautiful my wife is. I thanked him and told him I was happy he liked her. She came back with her make up all freshned up. She looked sexy and tipsy...

    I pretented to have to call one of my friends to leave them alone some more, took my time outside the restaurant, gave them a good 20 minutes. I came back to see her leaning on the bar with her elbows basically inviting him in her cleavage. Obviously she loved the attention he was giving her and it was such a turn on for me... Shortly after we left but I definitly saw the connection as they were looking at each other when I was paying the bill, left a very good tip.

    On the way home I talked about how he was great and fun again tonight and that I loved how he looked at her. She seemed surprise that I didn't mind. I asked her if she wanted him, flat out. She said a big NO! I want YOU! I knew she was lying... lots of wine in her! At home we had such a hard fuck, she was so wet and horny... For the first time I implied role paying asking her if she wanted that barman's cock and how hot she was at the bar... she didn't say anything to me but the way she acted after that did all the talking I was looking for. I think I might open up to her a little bit more about the fantasy this week.... Once again great night of fun and such a turn on to see her like this!
     
  13. Lv2cleanup

    Lv2cleanup Member

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    Love it can't wait to hear the continued adventures
     
  14. Sunshine girl

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    Wait. They make a dick extension? (Crawls back under the rock I apparently live under :bounce:)
     
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  15. cfanatsy

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  16. helpgetherthere

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    Great night!! You know a lot of this is you and your wife enjoying each other's company. I can tell my wife how beautiful she is until I'm blue in the face, it doesn't mean a whole lot because they think we're supposed to think they're beautiful. But when another man shows interest, they buy in to it a little more because he has no obligation to think that way. It makes them feel womanly, desired and sexy!!
     
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  17. Lv2cleanup

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  18. cscouple64

    cscouple64 Well-Known Member

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    Keep working on it. Eventually she will tell you what she really wants..mine did..although it took over 30 years..lol
     
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  19. Jose

    Jose New Member

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    Keep us posted. She maybe ready to go further this weekend
     
  20. Jose

    Jose New Member

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    Tease her about Dwayne a little. She is going to be more excited to see him again on the weekend. Your wife looks gorgeous by way!
     
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