Is my wife made for BBC and wifesharing?

[hotwifexcouple]

Hi guys,
so ive been having the wifesharing fantasy for a while now. Me and my wife(we‘re both mid 20s and white) have been trying out a few new things. I convinced her buying a dildo telling her i wanna gangbang her with it. It made her so horny and she even chose one herself. And that even though she has been EXTREMELY conservative and didnt have another guy in her entire life other than me.
It has gotten to the point where we only use the dildo and she just fucks herself with it for hours. As the next step i brought up watching porn together(She also never watched porn or even saw another mans dick ever). First she refused but next time the dildo play made her so horny that she said lets try it out. My heart was racing so fast this was a dream becoming real. Anyways i started with vixen cause i didnt wanna shock her. She loved it and even commented the dicks with how big or sexy they are. Then she asked me what porn i watched before her and that she wants to see it. I told her it was with black guys and she said lets watch it. So we watched a few blacked movies. She likes both vixen and blacked. I then took the shot and told her i wanna go on vacation and do a threesome with a random guy. She immediately refused, not disgusted but told me lets not talk about it but while saying that she was so horny and sex crazy which was an odd sign despite her refusal. Let me tell you my motivations for this. She is really sexy. Like her body is 9.5/10 and face 10/10. It would be my ultimate dream to see another guys dick in her while shes moaning.

My problem is that i dont know if she‘s seriously uninterested or just ashamed because its an extreme escalation. I obviously dont wanna ask her everyday and make a fool out of myself and in the worst case destroy my relationship if she will never do it. What i wanna know is your honest opinion. Realistically
If she fucks herself with an 9inch dildo. Watches porn with me even bbc porn and comments the guys dicks. Could it really be that she does that all but doesnt like a threesome? Or is it like 99% certain that shes ashamed and i have to keep pushing?
Would love to hear answers and advice from veterans and likeminded who understand the psychological part of it. Peace

 

[Cuckparati]

Seems that she's definitely getting excited then willing to try new things.

If you're saying that before she was extremely conservative, you'll have to understand that it's a mentality that you'll have to re-train ergo, put some time into it.
You can't ******* it, or you'll just push her mindset away.
Of course she'll feel weird about it. It's not the "norm" of what relationships are "supposed" to be. So her desires might scare her.
Slow and steady wins the race. On most couples I believe. Being that yall are young and her conservative ways, reassurance from your part will be a key factor.

Now I'm no expert, you can choose what to take from this, I haven't had 100% success, but as another person trying to get the wife to do extra new things, I've definitely found the custom mix to move forward with my wife( they're all different obviously) so the speed and consistency of introducing...has to matter I believe. Find what works, use it and keep patient, eventually you'll find what works to keep that train going forward!

 

[CoupleNewToIt]

That was a very wise and sensible comment. In our case, it took a bit over a year to go from my idea to her (finally!) meeting another man for sex. During pillow talk we had slowly progressed from talking about it to her actually meeting someone.

SHE chose her first “Other Man”, which is as it should be. He was not the man that I would have guessed, but then I was not aware of the flirting that he had been doing for a long time. He was our dentist! When they became ‘good friends’ he confessed that he had always spent more time looking down her blouse than he did examining her teeth. HA! Later, after we had been doing this for over a year, she started to “wonder” about black men. A short time later she met a black co-worker at a motel.
He was the man she had ‘wondered’ about to me, but not the first black man who had been of interest to her. She did confess that in college she had ‘made out’ with a black man, but had not had sex with him.

This whole process took several years, but it was time well spent.

 

[Cuckparati]

Well good to hear that she talks about it

 

[CoupleNewToIt]

Open and honest is vital when a couple has this kind of fun. Secrets cause distrust, distrust causes disaster.

 

[Cuckparati]

Open and honest is vital when a couple has this kind of fun. Secrets cause distrust, distrust causes disaster.

Agreed!

 

[Tone22]

You’ve introduced it so just let it rest. At the moment she is happy to read the menu but not to eat the meal. Wait until she becomes hungry reading the menu - may take months - without pushing and she’ll probably bring it up herself next time.