Is My Best Friend Throwing Hints??

Bigfishneo

Bigfishneo

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One of my best friends is white and I've known him my whole life, since 5 or 6. (grew up in a small town).
He's been married for about 3 years but has been making these slick references to his sex life on occasion 👀👀. One day idk how we got on the topic but he responded with "Man this pencil dick, I can't do crap with it" to which I said "That's all you packing? I got a whole horse over here!" We laughed it off and changed the topic. (My thought process is hey, if you are making hints, I'm gonna let you know what's up.)
Another time we talk and I ask if he and his wife plan on having ******* soon and he replies "Well 60 secs is all I'm good for anyway, so that should get the job done right?" Again, I responded "That's all it'll take? You gotta do better than that bruh..."

His wife is sexy, nice petite frame with brunette hair. She's never been the type to come on to me but something tells me if that he gave a green light, she'd let me get it (she has a nice ass too)
For the white men...does this sound like something you would do to kind of gauge to see if your black friend would want to fuck your wife? 🤔 Ever been in that scenario?
 
Bigfishneo said:
One of my best friends is white and I've known him my whole life, since 5 or 6. (grew up in a small town).
He's been married for about 3 years but has been making these slick references to his sex life on occasion 👀👀. One day idk how we got on the topic but he responded with "Man this pencil dick, I can't do crap with it" to which I said "That's all you packing? I got a whole horse over here!" We laughed it off and changed the topic. (My thought process is hey, if you are making hints, I'm gonna let you know what's up.)
Another time we talk and I ask if he and his wife plan on having ******* soon and he replies "Well 60 secs is all I'm good for anyway, so that should get the job done right?" Again, I responded "That's all it'll take? You gotta do better than that bruh..."

His wife is sexy, nice petite frame with brunette hair. She's never been the type to come on to me but something tells me if that he gave a green light, she'd let me get it (she has a nice ass too)
For the white men...does this sound like something you would do to kind of gauge to see if your black friend would want to fuck your wife? 🤔 Ever been in that scenario?
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I would say there's definitely something on his mind but like someone else also said you should broach the subject with him not his wife cuz it may only be his fantasy at this point. Certainly worth pursuing I would think
 
Bigfishneo said:
One of my best friends is white and I've known him my whole life, since 5 or 6. (grew up in a small town).
He's been married for about 3 years but has been making these slick references to his sex life on occasion 👀👀. One day idk how we got on the topic but he responded with "Man this pencil dick, I can't do crap with it" to which I said "That's all you packing? I got a whole horse over here!" We laughed it off and changed the topic. (My thought process is hey, if you are making hints, I'm gonna let you know what's up.)
Another time we talk and I ask if he and his wife plan on having ******* soon and he replies "Well 60 secs is all I'm good for anyway, so that should get the job done right?" Again, I responded "That's all it'll take? You gotta do better than that bruh..."

His wife is sexy, nice petite frame with brunette hair. She's never been the type to come on to me but something tells me if that he gave a green light, she'd let me get it (she has a nice ass too)
For the white men...does this sound like something you would do to kind of gauge to see if your black friend would want to fuck your wife? 🤔 Ever been in that scenario?
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Good comments here. I'd say he is definitely thinking about it,but the unknown is whether it's just him, or him and his wife. Since he is a long time friend, tread lightly. Don't move him too fast on it.

Honestly, even then, I'd be careful, even if both are on board. If something happens, and it goes sour, you could lose your friendship with him. I know everyone varies on what they want, but if I was going to find someone for my significant other, I'd want a stranger. Others may want a trusted friend, but I keep thinking about what happens if they want you, you agree, things happen, and someone changes their mind.
 
CuckToBeInWV said:
Good comments here. I'd say he is definitely thinking about it,but the unknown is whether it's just him, or him and his wife. Since he is a long time friend, tread lightly. Don't move him too fast on it.

Honestly, even then, I'd be careful, even if both are on board. If something happens, and it goes sour, you could lose your friendship with him. I know everyone varies on what they want, but if I was going to find someone for my significant other, I'd want a stranger. Others may want a trusted friend, but I keep thinking about what happens if they want you, you agree, things happen, and someone changes their mind.
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Exactly! My fear is that if i put this dick on her too good and she catches feelings or sumn (which is a real possibility, especially if she's only getting 60 secs of action) that it could mess them up/ our friendship up too. Reality is that I think he's comfortable with me because he trust me and if there was ever to be a black cock to stretch his wives pussy, he'd want it to be mine
 
Bigfishneo said:
Exactly! My fear is that if i put this dick on her too good and she catches feelings or sumn (which is a real possibility, especially if she's only getting 60 secs of action) that it could mess them up/ our friendship up too. Reality is that I think he's comfortable with me because he trust me and if there was ever to be a black cock to stretch his wives pussy, he'd want it to be mine
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I think it could work fine especially not your good friends so maybe more openness and honesty between good friends certainly doesn't mean she has to fall in love with you
 
firedogg81 said:
I think it could work fine especially not your good friends so maybe more openness and honesty between good friends certainly doesn't mean she has to fall in love with you
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Good point. If it ever got to that point, it'd take a few convos and convincing from all parties. Honesty would be needed. Id be hesitant, but if she interrupted our convo and walked in the room in some lingerie or something, imma just say "Fuck it...come suck this dick" 🤷🏾‍♂️
 
V4BBC said:
He's definitely throwing hints sir!
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That's what you'll get on a forum like this. :p

@Bigfishneo: You say you know each other for a long time but you don't say how close your friendship is. i assume not too close otherwise you probably wouldn't have to ask strangers about your friend's intentions. But iDK. As a stranger that i am also, i can only guess...

Maybe he wants you to fuck his wife silly, but maybe he just needs someone to talk. Either way it takes a lot to open up about one's "shortcummings" to someone. That he has started to do so twice to you already shows a high level of either trust or desperation on his part. Best way to find out what he is about is to lend him your ear. ;)

If you have never talked with each other about serious personal problems, that may be a reason for him to rather laugh it off and change the topic. Noone wants to be vulnerable. But why does he even bring it up then? Maybe he has noone else to talk to about such matters?

i really think the only way to find out is to ask. Of course he must make the first step and he will. (Has already tried to do so twice, so...) When he comes up with it again next time, what if you say "Friend, I can recall you dropped that before, so it must be something on your mind. If you need a friend to talk to, I will lend you both my ears for sure." instead of laughing it off? - He will ultimately tell you. Either way.
 
Bigfishneo said:
Exactly! My fear is that if i put this dick on her too good and she catches feelings or sumn (which is a real possibility, especially if she's only getting 60 secs of action) that it could mess them up/ our friendship up too. Reality is that I think he's comfortable with me because he trust me and if there was ever to be a black cock to stretch his wives pussy, he'd want it to be mine
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He could be joking... usually the guys who are open enough to joke about sucking in bed and being small are the ones comfortable enough to crack jokes about it. I did want to touch on that. Definitely tread lightly.

Only advice I can give you to talk to him, next time he brings up the sex subject with/about his wife. Ask him politely if he wants to talk about something. Sometimes people need politeness over “I’m gonna f**k your wife.” They could be looking to spice up the marriage, or they are just interested in you. Lol... but polite and try to be frank.
 
Sxycple8385 said:
He could be joking... usually the guys who are open enough to joke about sucking in bed and being small are the ones comfortable enough to crack jokes about it. I did want to touch on that. Definitely tread lightly.

Only advice I can give you to talk to him, next time he brings up the sex subject with/about his wife. Ask him politely if he wants to talk about something. Sometimes people need politeness over “I’m gonna f**k your wife.” They could be looking to spice up the marriage, or they are just interested in you. Lol... but polite and try to be frank.
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Good approach! Yeah he's more than likely making light of it all but next time I might just probe a lil more to see what's up. I have too much respect for him to say "I'm gonna fuck your wife" though lol
 
Bigfishneo said:
One of my best friends is white and I've known him my whole life, since 5 or 6. (grew up in a small town).
He's been married for about 3 years but has been making these slick references to his sex life on occasion 👀👀. One day idk how we got on the topic but he responded with "Man this pencil dick, I can't do crap with it" to which I said "That's all you packing? I got a whole horse over here!" We laughed it off and changed the topic. (My thought process is hey, if you are making hints, I'm gonna let you know what's up.)
Another time we talk and I ask if he and his wife plan on having ******* soon and he replies "Well 60 secs is all I'm good for anyway, so that should get the job done right?" Again, I responded "That's all it'll take? You gotta do better than that bruh..."

His wife is sexy, nice petite frame with brunette hair. She's never been the type to come on to me but something tells me if that he gave a green light, she'd let me get it (she has a nice ass too)
For the white men...does this sound like something you would do to kind of gauge to see if your black friend would want to fuck your wife? 🤔 Ever been in that scenario?
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Yes, it does seem like he is giving you hints. Have you 2 ever watch porn together as friends? Not sure how close you 2 are but maybe somehow invite him over to watch a football game and then afterwards watch some porn as this might open up a conversation. My guess he would like to see you fuck his wife or who knows he might want to just suck your cock himself.
 
Like others have said tread lightly. He is reaching out and there is a reason he is. You just need to figure out what he is wanting. being there for him and letting him know you will listen to him and not think bad of him will help him more than just laughing it off. He may be interested in you doing his wife and he could be feeling around about how he might feel about you doing his wife. Either way a good friendship isn't worth throwing away by jumping the gun so to speak. Hang in there and be his friend and take your lead from him.
 
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