I don't know bruh sounds like you should have made a deal to be able to enjoy all the pleasure you had going on before you said "I do"!
At this point I would like many of these cucks figure out how to steer your wife in the direction of the lifestyle if its possible or figure out how to live without that pleasure! I've been in the lifestyle for 13 years as a single guy so it's not really about morality but I do believe what goes around comes around and just like you dippin one day she's going to do the same except she may be smart enough to catch you without getting caught up herself and have all of the legal leverage on her side!
Yeah I would get her involved and let her have her fun too or I would leave it alone before I got caught and it costs you!
Just my opinion bruh!