I've never tried to hookup with anyone on this site...
However, your 'question' has been posed/asked a number of times on this site, and the general consensus is:
1. This is a fun site, fantasy site, 'interesting convos' site, great pix site.
2. Most of the 'real females' have NO intention of getting a BBC, b/c they aren't ACTUALLY looking for a BBC. Sex is very easy to GET, for even the most basic looking White, Black, Asian, Latina female in the street, bar, club, lounge, health club, church, workplace.
3. Many of the 'profile females' are gay or bisexual White Males.
4. Many of the 'couples looking for BBC' are gay or bisexual White Males.
5. Many of the BBC's truly have not caught on to the reality of #1 thru #4. LOL!!!!