I agree totally! My wife has been a hotwife on a very selective basis over several years and had 1 "BBC", he was her last fwb. He was athletic and attractive she thought and has a huge cock - my wife was hooked on him! This guy was a real gentleman (I'll explain in a minute) and fucked her very well in the backseat of our vehicle.
She has always wanted one man to see other than me. We finally made it a reality and she loved it! Having a small penis is not an advantage and even though my wife never complained it was obvious she needed more that what I had both in terms of stamina, hardness, length and girth. Things started off great when we began to share her, but after a few years and several guys they wouldn't commit to seeing just her and she felt she was just a sex object, even though she loved the sex she was getting by several of these guys seeing her regularly!
She said to me one day to my surprise that she had always had an attraction to handsome black men but never acted on it and wondered if they would be any different than white men in terms of wanting to be dedicated to one white wife. She said she also wondered if the myth was true about the size of a black man's cock being larger on average than a white man's cock. She decided now was the time to find out to see if a black man in this lifestyle would find her attractive and interesting enough to actually want just her and no other. We discussed that if so she would very possibly fall in love and told me to expect it and to handle it. We also discussed that me having sex with her would become very minimal, which I was okay with as long as she was happy. The day came when we found him on this site of all places! (I'll continue later).