I need your advice on how to make my husband fulfill my fantasies

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Valentine94

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I would need your advice. For a while I am fucking with my boss. He's not black but he's big enough and I really like to satisfy him and regulate with him. My husband has seen us fuck a few times but does not want to do anything. Just look at us and often leaves the room. It does not seem to be in this cuckold thing anymore.
I have some fantasies that I would like him to do and I want this very much, but he does not want this:
I wish he licked and sucked my lover balls and I want him to lick my pussy after my boyfriend ends up inside me. I asked him several times to do this and he refused. And once my lover filled my mouth with his sperm, I headed to my husband after and tried to kiss him. My husband turned his cheek, but I kissed him anyway, but on the cheek.
He did not say anything and did not make any gesture. He stayed there waiting for me to finish and then I swallowed up the sperm and went back to my boyfriend.
I would need your advice on how to make it happen. Maybe if you know some movies with such scenes to make it look at them. He's often looking at porn movies with white women who fuck black men and I've seen in one such a scene and since then I really want this a lot.
I would like to know the girls to how many of you husband do such things and if you feel fulfilled when he does it for you and your sexual pleasure?
 
At the end of the day, most the men who are willing to do these kinds of things fall somewhere in the middle on the straight-gay spectrum.

If you're husband's not into it now, chances are extremely high he never will be.

You can't coax/brainwash someone into willingly sucking another dudes balls/dick similar to how you can't put a gay person through therapy to make them straight.

People are what they are. Talk to him about it, let him know it turns you on and you want him to do it. But if he's not willing to entertain the thought then leave it alone and enjoy what you already have together.

These things can't be ******.
 
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NWHotwife said:
At the end of the day, most the men who are willing to do these kinds of things fall somewhere in the middle on the straight-gay spectrum.

If you're husbands not into it now, chances are extremely high he never will be.

You can't coax/brainwash someone into willingly sucking another dudes balls/dick similar to how you can't put a gay person through therapy to make them straight.

People are what they are. Talk to him about it, let him know it turns you on and you want him to do it. But if he's not willing to entertain the thought then leave it alone and enjoy what you already have together.

These things can't be ******.
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AGREE 100% I am a cuck, love the idea of it, love white women fucking BBC, the whole 9. You might even get panties on me, but you will never get a dick in my mouth. I am straight, its all about the woman to me (and how watching makes me feel). There are a LOT of gay men on here. Its not a problem, but just be honest, dont hide behind cuck, just say I am BI or GAY, maybe cuck too. Fine. Why lie, its 2019.
 
Valentine94 said:
I would need your advice on how to make it happen.
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You don't say what you would do for HIM ... only what you want him to do for you. Reciprocation IS expected! For a long time I've given men, who wish to have their wives have sex with black men and/or cuckold them, the same advice I believe you need to hear ... if you WANT something, what is the trade off? Find out what his deepest sexual fantasies are and help FULFILL them for HIM ... he'll be much more likely to do the same for YOU.
Suppose your husband wished to have a couple young girls (possibly half your age) spend the weekend with HIM ... doing whatever he wished to do with them. Would you be ok with your husband occasionally having females sleep with him in the marital bed while YOU slept on the couch or in a guest room ... listening to them having sex? Very few women will agree to do this especially if feel the females are prettier and or younger than they are. Married women simply don't like sharing their men with other women. One reason why women are hesitant about cuckolding their husbands requests to cuckold them IS that they think their husbands will expect reciprocation.
Think about it!
 
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I don’t think he will do any of what you want. Some guys are curious about and do it. Some guys are submissive and will do it to please the woman or bull. I’m not sure if maybe your boss could be more dominant with him? But he sounds like he is just a voyeur and not a cuckold. You won’t be able to change that. Do you know what kind of porn he’s watching?
 
A heterosexual cuckold will naturally be averse to homosexual activity so I would presume this explains his reticence. There is some crossover there for sure, but the reality is that cuckoldry by no means implies bisexuality. If he ain't gay then it ain't happening - that is, unless he is so bereft of self-respect that he will do anything for validation.

I'd also question why exactly you want him to engage in such an act - is this truly something you want strictly in the pursuit of sexual pleasure? Or is it ultimately just a means of reinforcing your dominance over him and to exercise power for the sake of it?
 
Valentine94 said:
I would need your advice. For a while I am fucking with my boss. He's not black but he's big enough and I really like to satisfy him and regulate with him. My husband has seen us fuck a few times but does not want to do anything. Just look at us and often leaves the room. It does not seem to be in this cuckold thing anymore.
I have some fantasies that I would like him to do and I want this very much, but he does not want this:
I wish he licked and sucked my lover balls and I want him to lick my pussy after my boyfriend ends up inside me. I asked him several times to do this and he refused. And once my lover filled my mouth with his sperm, I headed to my husband after and tried to kiss him. My husband turned his cheek, but I kissed him anyway, but on the cheek.
He did not say anything and did not make any gesture. He stayed there waiting for me to finish and then I swallowed up the sperm and went back to my boyfriend.
I would need your advice on how to make it happen. Maybe if you know some movies with such scenes to make it look at them. He's often looking at porn movies with white women who fuck black men and I've seen in one such a scene and since then I really want this a lot.
I would like to know the girls to how many of you husband do such things and if you feel fulfilled when he does it for you and your sexual pleasure?
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You can't ******* him to do it.
 
I'd say the best way to get what you want is to forget any and all labels and judgments around your desire: drop all notions of 'straight', 'gay', cuckold, submissive, gross, mean, disgusting, rude, disrespectful, demeaning, degrading, humiliating, and all the rest of the labels that may sound negative out of context...but somehow address the underlying emotional lives we struggle to connect with. When you're too close to someone, trust can be the most difficult of all. Blind faith. Intrinsic self-worth. Pride, ego, power...these are the other, brighter sides of those negative emotions...yet are just as insidious.
My advice is to examine your reasons for your desires (are they to 'win', to 'share', to 'connect', or something else?), remember his exact reaction to your advance in that moment you tried to kiss him (did he flee, freeze, fight, or do some other action that might lend you knowledge of his internal state?) and use that along with whatever else you know about his character to speak with him in a neutral place, without your desire staring him in the face, and without his potential reactive emotions inciting your desire. That tends to happen subconsciously with those we have relationships with, regardless of which side you're on (desire or reactive emotion) like the Yin and Yen.
 
It's not about being gay, but it's about feminizing him. I need him to become a woman to give me support when I fuck my lover. I need to feel that he is supporting me in this. I need him to feel how another man's dick satisfies me and he pulses inside of me, his sperm.
Often my husband wondered how it feels when another man gets his dick in me. He wants to know the sensation in my pussy in detail. I feel like my husband, being so close to my genital organs and my lover's, he can feel the flow of my lover's cock pumps the sperm powerfully inside me.
Every time I lick my boyfriend's testicles, he ejaculates up close to the ceiling. He likes it sow much to suck his balls when he's ready to ejaculate, and he's also verry fond of ejaculating in my mouth while I sucking him, that his dick is pressed in my throat when he cums and when his dick is inside my mouth when he ejaculates and my lips are stuck on his shaft. So he fills my mouth with his sperm, and I like the taste of his sperm enormously and I swallow it with lust. I want my husband to know the taste of my lover's sperm and the pleasure another man is giving me.
My husband swallowed his own sperm more than once. When I started to cheat my husband and I started to fuck my boss, I asked my husband to wear a condom and every time after intercourse ended I gave him to eat his own sperm from inside the condom.
My husband, I've feminized him many times. He already wears women's panties all the time, even to work. Every time I buy my self panties, I buy him the same. I threw all the men's boxers out of the house. Later I fucked him with my 21-cm vibrator in his ass several times and I made him suck it.
Many times at work I suck my boss's cock just when I leave and come home and when I go in the door I kiss my husband and then whisper to his ear that I just sucked the bull's dick and he knows that every time I suck it, I get him to end in my mouth and my husband says noting but now he wount do it any more.
One time I came home after ceampie and he eate my pussy. I thik he figured it out I was just fucked and cumed in my pussy.
We had a discution 2 mounts ago and he asked me to stop fucking other man but I tolled him that I wont do that because I like it to much and it makes me fell like a real woman. He now accepts it but he doesn't want to do the thing that I ask him during my sexual incounters with my lover. This made me cut him off from sex of any kind for some mounts now.
I think that he will come to it eventualy he just needs some persuation. If someone can help me with some sugestion maybe so I can ease this period. Maybe some good porn where the husband licks the bull's balls and kisses the wife after she takes the bull's cum in her mouth. I cought him a few times watching porn like this, but I can't find a good one to show him and watch together and tell him that I realy like for him to do this thing to me. I don't want for my husband to suck his cock and get fucked by the bull, but just to lick my lover balls because is very arrousing for me and my bull and to kiss me where the bull has cumed to show that he is accepting that I'm fucking other man and that I like it more than fucking him.
 
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I’m surprised he hasn’t left you from what it sounds. Did this go from swinging and threesomes to you just doing what ever you want? This sounds like something that happened with my ex excluding the whole feminization and cum eating dick sucking stuff. I felt excluded and she was spending more time with other guys then me. We lost respect for each other and then that was the end of that. I wouldn’t surprise me if he leaves you. At least it sounds like he should. Good luck but you need to back off because something changed with him in the last 2-3 months.
 
Valentine94 said:
I would need your advice. For a while I am fucking with my boss. He's not black but he's big enough and I really like to satisfy him and regulate with him. My husband has seen us fuck a few times but does not want to do anything. Just look at us and often leaves the room. It does not seem to be in this cuckold thing anymore.
I have some fantasies that I would like him to do and I want this very much, but he does not want this:
I wish he licked and sucked my lover balls and I want him to lick my pussy after my boyfriend ends up inside me. I asked him several times to do this and he refused. And once my lover filled my mouth with his sperm, I headed to my husband after and tried to kiss him. My husband turned his cheek, but I kissed him anyway, but on the cheek.
He did not say anything and did not make any gesture. He stayed there waiting for me to finish and then I swallowed up the sperm and went back to my boyfriend.
I would need your advice on how to make it happen. Maybe if you know some movies with such scenes to make it look at them. He's often looking at porn movies with white women who fuck black men and I've seen in one such a scene and since then I really want this a lot.
I would like to know the girls to how many of you husband do such things and if you feel fulfilled when he does it for you and your sexual pleasure?
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Bring home a handsome huge BBC, maybe that will flip his switch, if not have fun away from home, don't worry about him. He's just a stick in the mud
 
Nymedic81 said:
I’m surprised he hasn’t left you from what it sounds. Did this go from swinging and threesomes to you just doing what ever you want? This sounds like something that happened with my ex excluding the whole feminization and cum eating dick sucking stuff. I felt excluded and she was spending more time with other guys then me. We lost respect for each other and then that was the end of that. I wouldn’t surprise me if he leaves you. At least it sounds like he should. Good luck but you need to back off because something changed with him in the last 2-3 months.
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I don't mind if he leaves me if he does not suppot me in this. what is the need of a white small dick man in a woman's life? Let's be real we only need cucks for suppor and ecouragement
we are not sexually attracted to you but love you if we feel you are emotionally supportive and comforting. You have to understand that you are like close friends with whom we share certain things, but our lovers have the pleasure of having what they want. Women submit only to the most potent man.
you must accept this and enjoy the fact that your women share with you their sexual experiences even though they do not see you as sexual
for this reason your girlfriend left you because you could not give her the pleasure she needed and you did not understand she would take this pleasure from other men and you have to support her
very sexually active women only adhere to men who excite them and feel attracted to them, and with other men they only share life experiences. And we also fell safer to share tis experience with women that why we ned to feminize you and make you, in a way, accomplice to our sexual adventures and we don't fell safe to share this with men.
 
Yeah well I wasn’t a cuckold and I don’t need to defend myself but I was better 9/10 times then the other guys she was with. But on a side not I was working three jobs to put her ass through grad school so that’s where we lost each other. Plus I’m bigger then most guys on this site as a white guy so the whole big dick thing is a joke. My current gf is a size girl and says she wouldn’t be with me if I was small! But making somebody something for your gain is not right! You guys aren’t in a sadomasochist relationship, you’re not his mistress even though you claim to be his cuckoldress. I’m just thinking something changed with him 2-3 months ago and he’s doubting something!
 
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