Don't think I would eat any cream pie but might dip in for sloppy seconds.
I need help talking to my wife
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take time? yes, but not this much time.
There is a huge communication gap between them and thats the issue. this has nothing to do with sex.
the next step is to analyze your relationship.
what are your communication issues?
what about trust and respect?
Can you handle your wife talking to another man? And if so, what are the expectations you have?
you havent really thought about this PRACTICALLY! which is the #1 mistake I see too many hubbies make. This is still porn life for you
Stop. Your wife is not an actor. She is your wife. Treat her with the respect she deserves.
Its great you want to see her have fun, but then you need to explain to her, FULLY - why you have these desires.
I spend typically a month, talking to hubbies every single day, asking them the same question until they can wrap their minds around the fact that they are SCARED little boys who don't want to tell MOMMY the bad dream they had because they are embarrassed that mom will judge them and tell them they are a bad boy and go sit in the corner.
You married a woman you say you are in love with - well, time to show her the respect she deserves.
Yeah that's true I guess
Great advice thank you
Communication. Texting with her was a good start. And the comments about taking her out and letting her see you are aroused by it was too. But behind closed doors talking after a few drinks on a day where things aren't crazy around the house with ******* or life. Maybe in the evening when she more likely to be in the mood. Expressing that you want her to enjoy herself and that shes more then a mom and a wife she's a beautiful woman first.
She has a lot of responsibility to stress over being a mom and a wife and also a working woman. Consider that she puts her life on the back burner for your needs and others. When you speak make sure understand s that you realize that too. If she interested but hasn't brought it up. If may be a fantasy but she holds back not wanting to ruin what she has. Let her know you appreciate her and want to give her more. That youd enjoy seeing her enjoying herself or knowing that she is. Beyond the turn on she has to believe that you are more then ok with her doing that too. Have the talk in person watch the vids that get her excited n let her know how turned on you are at the thought of it. But how you'd love to for her to enjoy a situation like that. Toys can be a starter. But before you go crazy looking for her find out what she'd like. Make sure your confidence for your relationship and your self esteem is in tact.
If you want her to open up n talk about her fantasies she has to believe she safe to express them with out judgement. But that Convo has to get started face to face so she can read you. And understand your interested in her enjoying herself .
She has a lot of responsibility to stress over being a mom and a wife and also a working woman. Consider that she puts her life on the back burner for your needs and others. When you speak make sure understand s that you realize that too. If she interested but hasn't brought it up. If may be a fantasy but she holds back not wanting to ruin what she has. Let her know you appreciate her and want to give her more. That youd enjoy seeing her enjoying herself or knowing that she is. Beyond the turn on she has to believe that you are more then ok with her doing that too. Have the talk in person watch the vids that get her excited n let her know how turned on you are at the thought of it. But how you'd love to for her to enjoy a situation like that. Toys can be a starter. But before you go crazy looking for her find out what she'd like. Make sure your confidence for your relationship and your self esteem is in tact.
If you want her to open up n talk about her fantasies she has to believe she safe to express them with out judgement. But that Convo has to get started face to face so she can read you. And understand your interested in her enjoying herself .
I think you have to prove to her that your the kind of alpha male that can separate pleasure from love. And that it's about her relaxing and enjoying herself with out repercussion. And that your all on board for her to enjoy something different.
Both comments above . Great advice you should take
Pri ate message me I want.to.k ow what you have to say the next step is. I have been in a similar boat with my wife for a while now.
You are not ready for the next step.
I don't think you are hearing me. And I get it. Right now you are stuck in fantasy mode. You have to come out of fantasy mode.
If you want to go further, you need to learn your role
The fact that you made a request without asking permission tells me what you're not ready
You should NEVER talk to a real bull this way.
Ask permission first, and then see where that gets you.
don't make demands.
Let's see her
Well I'm no sissy so I guess you're not my Bull!
I'm no sissy. I'm an Alfa that is curious is all. I want my wife of 25 years to receive pleasure from a respectful Bull. Not one that is racist or wants to talk down to a husband that is secure in his marriage and willing to share a sexual moment in time with his partner.
What on earth are you talking about??
Dude,
you are a really toxic person. Take your arrogance somewhere else. Seriously dude...Like no one needs you attitude.
You can be a sissy or an alpha - I don't care. But what you aren't is a good communicator. Maybe you should have your wife help you type out these messages because you are incapable of expressing a clear thought. I have no idea what you are talking about. You are speaking to me like we know each other.
WHAT?? 25 years of marriage? Ok? what does that have to do with me...
You gave me a command "private message me, I want to know..."
This was my response.
NO THANK YOU!!
I don't jump when people give me commands. Im not a dog. You are on the other are a complete rude person.
Go find someone else to bother.
You did private message me. Your a joke Bro.
No my roll! I'm not a good communicator. No you need to know your would be nothing but a stunt cock so know your roll...
