I need help talking to my wife

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cuckold747

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Hey everyone,

My wife has shown interest in my fantasy of her sleeping with another guy, but I haven't been able to really talk to her much about it. I shared with her some fantasies of mine, and at one point she did tell me she thought about BBC. This is weird but because it's awkward, we really only talk about it through text / messenger, never really in person, which is cool I don't mind. I asked her to tell me a scenario that would be hot or ideal for her, but she hasn't replied and I've asked a few times on different occasions. I asked her if she would be open to making a profile online of herself and she said no. I would really like to find some way to talk to her and have her open up. My wish is for her to explore and experience another guy, preferably a BBC. Ideally I would like her to have a regular long term lover. I understand maybe it's hard for her because we have small *******.

Any advice would be appreciated.

She is 39 and Asian background.
 
cuckold747 said:
Hey everyone,

My wife has shown interest in my fantasy of her sleeping with another guy, but I haven't been able to really talk to her much about it. I shared with her some fantasies of mine, and at one point she did tell me she thought about BBC. This is weird but because it's awkward, we really only talk about it through text / messenger, never really in person, which is cool I don't mind. I asked her to tell me a scenario that would be hot or ideal for her, but she hasn't replied and I've asked a few times on different occasions. I asked her if she would be open to making a profile online of herself and she said no. I would really like to find some way to talk to her and have her open up. My wish is for her to explore and experience another guy, preferably a BBC. Ideally I would like her to have a regular long term lover. I understand maybe it's hard for her because we have small *******.

Any advice would be appreciated.

She is 39 and Asian background.
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A lot of women want to be certain that their partner can handle it and not let it ruin their relationship. Take her out clubbing or even to bars, and let guys hit on her. Show her you are aroused by it. Let that lead to the pillow talk and foreplay.
 
cuckold747 said:
Hey everyone,

My wife has shown interest in my fantasy of her sleeping with another guy, but I haven't been able to really talk to her much about it. I shared with her some fantasies of mine, and at one point she did tell me she thought about BBC. This is weird but because it's awkward, we really only talk about it through text / messenger, never really in person, which is cool I don't mind. I asked her to tell me a scenario that would be hot or ideal for her, but she hasn't replied and I've asked a few times on different occasions. I asked her if she would be open to making a profile online of herself and she said no. I would really like to find some way to talk to her and have her open up. My wish is for her to explore and experience another guy, preferably a BBC. Ideally I would like her to have a regular long term lover. I understand maybe it's hard for her because we have small *******.

Any advice would be appreciated.

She is 39 and Asian background.
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I understand maybe it's hard for her because we have small *******., that's what husband are for pram ******* it it, walking in the park for hours !!!
 
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cuckold747 said:
Hey everyone,

My wife has shown interest in my fantasy of her sleeping with another guy, but I haven't been able to really talk to her much about it. I shared with her some fantasies of mine, and at one point she did tell me she thought about BBC. This is weird but because it's awkward, we really only talk about it through text / messenger, never really in person, which is cool I don't mind. I asked her to tell me a scenario that would be hot or ideal for her, but she hasn't replied and I've asked a few times on different occasions. I asked her if she would be open to making a profile online of herself and she said no. I would really like to find some way to talk to her and have her open up. My wish is for her to explore and experience another guy, preferably a BBC. Ideally I would like her to have a regular long term lover. I understand maybe it's hard for her because we have small *******.

Any advice would be appreciated.

She is 39 and Asian background.
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Take her out to a swinger club and observe the activities. This is angle I’m working mine with. It’s working. Buy black dildo and slip it in on the foreplay, she might say it’s too big or it doesn’t feel right, but when she has that first explosive orgasm, you know you are on the right path….
 
cuckold747 said:
Still here. Hit a road block though. She said while she is able to hear my fantasies etc, she won't sleep with another guy...
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Still here? huh?
You posted on Dec 29, its Jan 22. That's a long time to be "still here." LOL

But yes, you hit the same hurdle so many hubbies run into that I train. The next step is really up to you - most husbands are unwilling to take the next step because they NEVER really wanted to do this in the first place. They are happy their wife gave them a convenient "out" and now they can blame their wife online for why they spend all their time fantasizing about this.

If you are serious, let me know. But you need to be willing to take action, not just words.
 
hungteacher said:
Still here? huh?
You posted on Dec 29, its Jan 22. That's a long time to be "still here." LOL

But yes, you hit the same hurdle so many hubbies run into that I train. The next step is really up to you - most husbands are unwilling to take the next step because they NEVER really wanted to do this in the first place. They are happy their wife gave them a convenient "out" and now they can blame their wife online for why they spend all their time fantasizing about this.

If you are serious, let me know. But you need to be willing to take action, not just words.
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So what is the next step?
 
cuckold747 said:
Still here. Hit a road block though. She said while she is able to hear my fantasies etc, she won't sleep with another guy...
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These things take time . It's not something that will happen in 6 months or even a year It takes time to build up . My wife wasnt even interested in black cocks at all . The dildo thing was OK but didn't change her mind on it . The thing that changed her mind was the porn and dirty talk . We are at a stage where we agreed now we do want to make this a reality one day but not right now as we have young children . We are only 33 and 28 so we have lots of time still . The main thing is we both want to do it . It's just a matter of when . I will wait until she's 100% ready . She loves the thought of a black guy taking control of her though. It's all baby steps and Introducing things slowly
 
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