I need advices, I'm going to buy a dildo but then?

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Paulinanthov

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Hi I really want to get my wife blacked but I'm not sure I will manage to...
First I'm not a very good fucker. I cum in 5 seconds when I'm in her, so we develop an alternative : I eat her pussy until she gets her orgasm and then I fuck her to finish me. But I'm not very comfortable with that.
During I play with her clit and pussy with my tongue, she loves when I also use my fingers to play with her anus. And sometime I don't need to ask for her to suck my cock at the same time. Even for a deepthroat. She can be very horny and I love that to.
Since 3-4 months she asked me to buy a dildo to facilitate our games. I think she wants a vibro, it could release my tongue or my fingers.
I think it's a very good news, because it's a big step to cuckolding.
However, it's not possible for her to think about watching porn. She's very uncomfortable with this idea. I don't know if she's disgusted, or if she's afraid about what she could feel.
I've never told her about my fantasy to see her being finally well fucked by a bbc because I feel it could hurt her a lot. On the other hand, I feel that our sex habits reveal that there is something inside her...
What do you think? Please don't hesitate to discuss and give some advices.
Thanks a lot!
 
I was thinking on a solution: if she isn't ok to watch (IR) porn, do you think I could find good movies where we could watch hot sex scene with black males? I mean no rough sex, but something more erotic and sensual. I think if we begin to play with a black realistic dildo (bigger than my cock) after that, it might help in developping the fantasy.
What do you think? Have you any movie recommendation?
 
Paulinanthov said:
Thank you for the advice! Actually I didn't think about that. Interesing.. I will see if she's open. Did you ever use it? What were the results?
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You can also by a black cock sleeve, or many in different sizes. Then you wear them and fuck her, slowly sizing up till she is a true BBC slut.
 
Black4YourWife said:
You can also by a black cock sleeve, or many in different sizes. Then you wear them and fuck her, slowly sizing up till she is a true BBC slut.
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Yes I see the idea ! But I feel she also needs to think about having sex with another man. As I said it could help if she begin to fantasm on being fucked by a viril male who is strong inside her. I don't want to find the best artifice because I'm afraid if I continue to fuck her and she likes it thanks to the cock sleeve, then she doesn't want more..
That's why I think it's important also she watchs suggestive IR porn or erotic materials from movies. To develop the willing to be that girl.
Am I wrong?
 
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Ok i've just received our potential new toy! So I followed your advice..
It's a black penis strap 17x4,5cm (I'm 15x3,5cm). I really hope she will be open to the idea.. i'm really excited to use it!
it's also vibrating.
 
For my wife I found that less firmness is better. Flexibility and squishy was the key. After about 20 different one I found the right mix. Don’t give up and keep writing the checks to the dildo company lol. Now she takes 9” balls deep every time. Make sure to throughly warm that pussy up. It’s key every time. After that a slow insertion and gentle glide's for a bit, then it’s game time a you can pound that pussy all night with that big thick black dick!
 
Yes I will keep you inform. I really hope this new step will be a success, and it will bring her on the path of the real thing... I really hope she develops the fantasy to be fucked by a real bbc!

Does someone have any recommandation on a good movie where we can see IR sex scene (i mean not a porn movie)? I really think she could redo the scene in his head when I'll be fucking her with the black strap...?
 
Update!
I announced her that I bought a vibro penis strap this weekend! As I supposed, she was immediatly curious and wanted to test it.
We had a very hot time together, and I didn't have any problem to insert it in her pussy while I licked her clit.
She was very horny and wanted to suck my cock at same time.
However, I had issues when I inserted my cock inside the strap and begun to fuck her. It was a bit strange and I had not so much pleasure.
Finally she had her orgasm with this big black penis inside her pussy and my tongue on her clit!
She loved it! and we had no problem to discuss about it.
My biggest surprise was yesterday night when she said me she wanted to fuck again (usually we have to wait about 1 week...), and she tested the toy alone during the day.
I think we're passing the next step!!

What do you think I have to do now?
 
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