It’s addictive.
I hate my addiction, advice?
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Outlander1970
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I hope the op has realized by now that asking here for advice on how to overcome his addiction is like going to a bar and asking the patrons for advice on how to stop drinking. Predictably, most people who cared to reply suggested the equivalent of "have another *******". Not cool guys, not cool at all.
If ever there was a clear case of addiction on this website, yours would be it. I've posted a lot of material & advice on "addictions". Those who mentioned or recommended seeking out professional advice/help gave you sound advice.
Pornography/deviated sexual desires are no different than alcoholism, ******* addiction, etc ... when it comes to addiction. As an addiction, it obsorbs your entire life ... job, marriage, hobbies, etc.
The "withdrawal" from your addiction will not be easy; it never is, AND unfortunately you won't be freed from your addiction for quite some time, as you will need to attend support groups, periodic doctor visits, etc to keep yourself "clean" during your detox.
So, here's my advice ... seek out professional advice, maybe even a high quality psychiatrist (not to be confused with psychologist) who will guide you through the processes necessary to rid yourself of this demon in your head.
As mentioned already, resisting your desires of being HERE will be one of your very first chances to prove to yourself that you're serious. Then let your doctor direct you to support groups where everyone in the room will have an addiction to rid themselves of ...and NOTE 1st time attempts have a very high "failure rate" .... your doctor will explain that and WHY that is so. This is a challenge of perseverance and redirecting your life by finding your passions in life and pursuing them.
Best wishes,
Mac
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Sounds like you need some professional help. Porn interracial or the many other types out there have been around from the beginning of time. drawings found in caves and the oldest existing man made structures have drawings of very erotic natures. Only you can determine if your addicted to thoughts or images . Your words read as if you believe you are. Like so many other things a little is often normal or even healthy. Too much can destroy the trick is to understand where your line of balance is and not to cross it. Of course that becomes very complicated in a relationship as both may have very different opinions on what is or is not normal. If as you say you feel it is wrong, get help. Professional if possible .
There is so much that has been said here. For what its worth here is how I look at it. You say its like a ******* that is destroying your life. Possibly, but we all have that *******. We have a preference for a certain style of sex and it often overpowers us. Its like a straight person saying they cannot get hard or cum having gay sex. This is often referred to as sexual deviance and I call BS on that. Its not deviance, its just that humans are not all made the same. We don't all like the same food do we?
Now I am not arguing that its ok to let your passion take control of your life. But maybe you need to take a step back and ask the question of "is this who you are?" If so then embrace it as many have said. But there is also the question of "Has porn launched you into a fantasy life that you no longer can escape from?" If so you need to seek help.
Also, this fetish, it seems you have not lived it out. You simply imagine it. Am I right? Have you considered living it out and see if the "reality" is as much fun? Often reality sucks and it may jolt you out of your addiction. On the other hand if you enjoy the reality of the lifestyle, well then there is nothing to be worried about. You would be living your dream. This is a safe fetish to try out. You aren't trying to ******* or ******* someone or do weird other stuff.
WhiteCuck1222
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I’ve got a similar story. I was 21 or so when I started watching interracial porn but I was only 13 when I started watching trans women, and it was usually them getting fucked by men while I imagined that I was the one getting fucked. I haven’t watched porn without a black man’s cock in over a decade, and I haven’t had sex with a woman in that long either. I used to date, but I stopped after realizing that I had to imagine the girl was with a black man instead of me, it was the only way I could stay hard.
so my advice as someone with a similar background? Learn to love it. Hang out here with other folks like you, and maybe you’ll meet that blonde slut who fucks black men and lets you watch. I used to hate it too, but now I actually accept it and have even recommended some videos to a few close male friends and told a few girls that I would only want a relationship with a girl that has sex with black men and not me.
you’ll be fine, just know you’re not alone, more and more of us guys who aren’t black are learning how much better this life is than a life of hiding and pretending.
Sounds like your putting WAY to much pressure on yourself. Why do you hate it? I find it hard to believe that porn is the thing making your life unmanageable. It is probably more psychological than you think. And if you find the root of your anger about it you can figure it out on your own rather than spend ALOT of money and getting addicted to a "professional"
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Hey bud i hope you get the help you need. The elites are trying to get rid of whites which is why they are premoting this kind of filth.
In all honesty black people arent superior and never have been. (Just for the record I am not saying they are inferior either)
I mean just go intk any store and youll see how bombarded we are with this kind of propaganda. For instance diaper packages 99 times out if 100 will either have a black baby or a biracial baby. Most cloths store will have black men and white women billboards to premote there products i mean its no wonder why people here are so brainwashed into thinking blacks men are superior i mean you can't go 2 seconds without seeing a black man on any popular media.
Understanding this is the first way to beat the addiction. The elite that are running these ads kniw what they're doing. It reminds me of Nascar when a car was going to victory lane they would always put products on the top of the cars and do you want to know why? Easy because its a lot easier to manipulate people subliminally.
White women seeing these advertisements become manipulated into being more attracted to black men while at the same time white men start to feel inferior.
Just remember though we are not inferior. There is a reason why the elites in particular want us gone and thats because of how much if a threat white people actually are to their bottem line.
Your not inferior you come from a proud heritage and I know it might seem dark and bleak right now but hold your head up and have pride thats how we get through this.
Another thing thats important to fight this addiction is the elimination of pornography. Limit your time on this site and stoo watching porn.
I would personally reccomend visiting sites like nofap or even the semen retention subreddit.
Remember staying on this site as a white man will always make you feel inferior. I mean look at the content on here. Every thread basically bashes white men you'll never have confidence reading stuff on here.
I wish you luck man remember you can do it just believe in yourself.
Porn can cause huge phycological problems.
Porn warps opinions on sex and love in general.
I mean c'mon its blatantly obvious do you think men from the 1800s got off by having other men fuck their wives? Of course not all of these sexual fetishes and fantasies where brought about by porn.
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Pffft!!! Theyre trying to get rid of us by ads being of black ppl. Just recently they started this. But for the past 50 years its been all white ppl. Imagine being black and watching tv in the 70s 80s 90s. Theres like handful of shows that were black. Majority of movies were always about slavery lol.The War on Whites in Advertising: A Follow-Up | Counter-Currents
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Hey bud i hope you get the help you need. The elites are trying to get rid of whites which is why they are premoting this kind of filth.
In all honesty black people arent superior and never have been. (Just for the record I am not saying they are inferior either)
I mean just go intk any store and youll see how bombarded we are with this kind of propaganda. For instance diaper packages 99 times out if 100 will either have a black baby or a biracial baby. Most cloths store will have black men and white women billboards to premote there products i mean its no wonder why people here are so brainwashed into thinking blacks men are superior i mean you can't go 2 seconds without seeing a black man on any popular media.
Understanding this is the first way to beat the addiction. The elite that are running these ads kniw what they're doing. It reminds me of Nascar when a car was going to victory lane they would always put products on the top of the cars and do you want to know why? Easy because its a lot easier to manipulate people subliminally.
White women seeing these advertisements become manipulated into being more attracted to black men while at the same time white men start to feel inferior.
Just remember though we are not inferior. There is a reason why the elites in particular want us gone and thats because of how much if a threat white people actually are to their bottem line.
Your not inferior you come from a proud heritage and I know it might seem dark and bleak right now but hold your head up and have pride thats how we get through this.
Another thing thats important to fight this addiction is the elimination of pornography. Limit your time on this site and stoo watching porn.
I would personally reccomend visiting sites like nofap or even the semen retention subreddit.
Remember staying on this site as a white man will always make you feel inferior. I mean look at the content on here. Every thread basically bashes white men you'll never have confidence reading stuff on here.
I wish you luck man remember you can do it just believe in yourself.
jakovazor2
Male
ty everyone for all the answers !
i try to fight my sin/vice...It's very hard for me. But i swear i will do all i can to remove this ******* out of my brain....
No offense guys but when i read some guys are ok to let their wifes gettin fucked, they are pussy free (wtf?!) since many years, they can suck the black bull...W-h-a-t t-h-e F-u-c-k is wrong with us....?
It's a shame that this kind of story make me hard, i've to admit....But i don't want to be this kind of man, a slave for a black master? Who can come in MY house and fuck MY wife? and tell me to put a chastity cage or something? Comon, we are really brain dead here...Our ancesters shall be ashame of us...
So for now i try to fight my sins...i try to stop looking at interracial porn...It's very hard, VERY VERY HARD, and i failed many times, but i will make it. I must remove this ******* of my brain.
PS : no offense for black people neither, i respect you guys, but comon, you must understand my position, it's not a respectfull way of life to kneel on you. I'm not superior, but i'm not inferior. So i've to remove this CANCER from my brain.
i try to fight my sin/vice...It's very hard for me. But i swear i will do all i can to remove this ******* out of my brain....
No offense guys but when i read some guys are ok to let their wifes gettin fucked, they are pussy free (wtf?!) since many years, they can suck the black bull...W-h-a-t t-h-e F-u-c-k is wrong with us....?
It's a shame that this kind of story make me hard, i've to admit....But i don't want to be this kind of man, a slave for a black master? Who can come in MY house and fuck MY wife? and tell me to put a chastity cage or something? Comon, we are really brain dead here...Our ancesters shall be ashame of us...
So for now i try to fight my sins...i try to stop looking at interracial porn...It's very hard, VERY VERY HARD, and i failed many times, but i will make it. I must remove this ******* of my brain.
PS : no offense for black people neither, i respect you guys, but comon, you must understand my position, it's not a respectfull way of life to kneel on you. I'm not superior, but i'm not inferior. So i've to remove this CANCER from my brain.
Of course the upside to all this is that your addiction is at least "legal". So it really is a matter of you against your addiction which, if you are serious about resolving, can be resolved.
Imagine having an addiction that was also "illegal" ... then, its complicated by the fact that its an addiction with more than a W-L result ... you have the legal aspects of your addiction tossed into the fray. And sometimes the legal side of the addiction doesn't really care that it is an addiction, and you lose everything fighting the legal issues along with the addiction, itself.
Still, with porn, it does de-sensitize your interest in having normal relationships, and can often destroy the normal relationships many have.
The first step in fighting an addiction is to admit you have one, as a few have admitted. And if your attempts to fight it alone (not recommended) haven't worked, its time to get serious with a detox (withdrawal) which means seeking out professional help, being away from those you love for weeks if not months, and always having that inner thirst to return to your addiction following you around for the rest of your life.
So, yes, this is very serious business.
Best wishes & prayers to those who make the attempts. Remember success doesn't always occur on the first or even 2nd, 3rd attempts.
Imagine having an addiction that was also "illegal" ... then, its complicated by the fact that its an addiction with more than a W-L result ... you have the legal aspects of your addiction tossed into the fray. And sometimes the legal side of the addiction doesn't really care that it is an addiction, and you lose everything fighting the legal issues along with the addiction, itself.
Still, with porn, it does de-sensitize your interest in having normal relationships, and can often destroy the normal relationships many have.
The first step in fighting an addiction is to admit you have one, as a few have admitted. And if your attempts to fight it alone (not recommended) haven't worked, its time to get serious with a detox (withdrawal) which means seeking out professional help, being away from those you love for weeks if not months, and always having that inner thirst to return to your addiction following you around for the rest of your life.
So, yes, this is very serious business.
Best wishes & prayers to those who make the attempts. Remember success doesn't always occur on the first or even 2nd, 3rd attempts.
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It was to try and make whites feel guilty over something not many of them had any doing in. Thats why the show documentaries usually showed the most gruesome stuff slave owners did.
But thats the thing they select what they want you to see they never make shows about the railroad and how poorer and middle class whites actually risked thier lives to smuggle Africans to the North so theh could live free. Instead the try tk vilify all whites for the actions of a few even though whites weren't the only ones to have slaves and whites have also been slaves all throughout their history as well.
Everyone has been slaves so I don't feel bad for something I jad no part in but the slave trade is still used today to guilt trip whites and attack them.
I agree with you that women are falling for black men more often now but look ay the advertisement and commercials in todays age. I could waych 1000 commercials and not see one with a white man and women couple. In matter of fact white men seem to be left out of commercials all together unless they bring him on to make him look like an idoit.
It's sickening really and its very obvious what the elites are trying to accomplish here.
I find women always chase popular culture and with mosy media owned by 6 people they can push the trends to whatever they want.
I mean look at the music now a days its absolute crap but people are eating it up it amazes hiw many people like Drake O mean the guy doesn't even have a singing voice for christs sake.
But since the media puts him on a pedestal most people listen to him. Thats only one example they are doing this in every popular media sports is a big one.
They try to claim blacks are better athletes even though that could be highly debatable.
Soccer for instance they always try to sah blacks are just betyer thays why there is a lot more blacks coming in then whites but yet i remember seeing a documentary where France was actually bringing in Africans and putting then up in academies where all they did was practice soccer.
Whites don't usually get that opportunity sonit begs to question are they actaully better or is their a political agenda conspired by the elite to push white men out of sports.
I don't think so there is a lot of anti white crap on here especially against white men.
Not too mention most of the ******* on here is false. White men are awesome thats why its best for him to stay off here so he can start to see that.
I don't agree with the the whole atleast its legal debate.
I mean if ******* was legal would you sau the same thing?
He can fight it on his own as well fighting addictions is about replacing them with good habits instead of continuing bad ones.
Thanks for your advice though and good luck.
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