it's pretty ironic you call him thin skinned when you come in this thread just to bitch and attack someone for wanting to be treated like a human being.
I AM NOT A BBC - I HAVE A BBC
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it's pretty ironic you call him thin skinned when you come in this thread just to bitch and attack someone for wanting to be treated like a human being.
Looks to me like he got “disrespectful” because the man tried to tell him how he should feel. He doesn’t have the right to tell him how he should although he can disagree. Just because he’s ok with being small dick whatever or women are ok with being called whatever doesn’t mean dude has to be ok with being called a bull. Doesn’t matter what his peers decide to do that’s his opinion on the matter. Respect it and move on...
That sounds right. Each of us has a right to be called and identified the way we see it. It can be rather dehumanizing to reduce someone to a “bull” a “breeding bull” (especially), or a cuck or a slut or a whore. But, some of us see ourselves those ways, so just let folks tell each other who they are and what they are.
Some people like or need to put people into a chategory/stereotype. We know those people, I'm friends with 'em because of _______ or _______.
I couldn't agree more. As long as people know that the Bull and Buck term derived from slaves in the U.S. of A that got to keep their genitals intact past the age of 14 for breeding purposes then knock yourself out. There are plenty of Black guys on here with Stockholm Syndrome.
Come visit for beer and barbecue. You are always welcome!We are all so much more than that. Some of us are more talented in some areas and not great in others. I can make a great dinner, not particularly great in bed lol.Some people like or need to put people into a chategory/stereotype. We know those people, I'm friends with 'em because of _______ or _______.
I agree
I think everyone should be called what they want to be called. Keep it respectful and mutual. Although making yourself available to these cuck couples, you are treating your own selves as a piece of meat. Think about it. Most couples only want the meat not the person. You’re just a dildo made of real flesh(to some couples) making yourself available for use. If you’re not comfortable then get out of the lifestyle or at least put the cards on the table up front.
Glad this was brought up. As much I enjoy BBC (all nice cocks really), etc I always know that the person I am meeting with is not some object.
I think the issue is that this "lifestyle" (cuckold/hotwife; stag/vixen) is overly fetishized. I don't think that is wrong to fetishize. Also, I think since most of us have to be private about our promiscuity, it's a lot easier to fetishize what you have to hide. Many create these worlds in their mind where they can get it "just right" and then they realize that in reality it's not as easy to get it "just right." So you apply the labels that others have conjured up -probably from over fetishizing- without thinking about the other person/s involved and their feelings. Before you know it you're posting all the lingo.
I completely understand and we did the same thing when we first started at like 21. We had no idea what we liked or wanted specifically. We had no idea there was a community out here that was in-line with our fantasies. We joined the communities and quickly became aware that there was lingo used by the other couples "in-the-know." For porn reasons, it's nice to know the lingo for it's easier to search/identify content that is consistent with your fantasies. When you try to apply it to real life (for us it was CL) you realize it's harder than believed. It's hard to find someone we like, that understands me and my husband, that allows us to set up to record, etc. Before we knew it, we were fetishizing and coming off strong to others (never upset anyone that I know of).
Then we realized that we had to stop being so specific oriented and just be a normal human being. This is when the lifestyle became fun. No more cliche/silly talk and that's when the fucking got good.
We started fantasizing about it in 2014. I had a one night encounter in 2015 and it was a sucky time. As soon as we stopped over fetishizing in 2017, the fucking has been consistent, enjoyable and just fucking amazing.
I think the issue is that this "lifestyle" (cuckold/hotwife; stag/vixen) is overly fetishized. I don't think that is wrong to fetishize. Also, I think since most of us have to be private about our promiscuity, it's a lot easier to fetishize what you have to hide. Many create these worlds in their mind where they can get it "just right" and then they realize that in reality it's not as easy to get it "just right." So you apply the labels that others have conjured up -probably from over fetishizing- without thinking about the other person/s involved and their feelings. Before you know it you're posting all the lingo.
I completely understand and we did the same thing when we first started at like 21. We had no idea what we liked or wanted specifically. We had no idea there was a community out here that was in-line with our fantasies. We joined the communities and quickly became aware that there was lingo used by the other couples "in-the-know." For porn reasons, it's nice to know the lingo for it's easier to search/identify content that is consistent with your fantasies. When you try to apply it to real life (for us it was CL) you realize it's harder than believed. It's hard to find someone we like, that understands me and my husband, that allows us to set up to record, etc. Before we knew it, we were fetishizing and coming off strong to others (never upset anyone that I know of).
Then we realized that we had to stop being so specific oriented and just be a normal human being. This is when the lifestyle became fun. No more cliche/silly talk and that's when the fucking got good.
We started fantasizing about it in 2014. I had a one night encounter in 2015 and it was a sucky time. As soon as we stopped over fetishizing in 2017, the fucking has been consistent, enjoyable and just fucking amazing.
Kinda missed the point of the comment...which was doing to others what you don't like them doing to you. There is way too much "disrespect" going around... and adding to it while complaining about it makes NO sense. And there is no reason to call anyone...man or woman...anything that is demeaning, disrespectful or unkind...even if they are OK with it (or, as in the case here, might have been a bit strong with their opinion). At least not in public, like here in this forum.
No I got the point. He talked to him in that manner because the guy basically told him to shut up and be ok with being labeled something he doesn’t want to be labeled. I can’t fathom how you missed that but that’s a personal problem.
OK, one more time....doing to anyone....even someone who maybe doesn't get it.... what you are complaining about is NOT cool.
That’s your opinion he’s grown he handled it accordingly next..,
Lmfaoooo
I raised this is my first couple of weeks of being here. Some people, brothers included don't seem to get it. Had some lady chime in with "well I get called a hotwife..." Good for you. Hot-wife isn't likened to some kind of object or crazed *******.
I don't respond to the term "BBC." People need to understand referring to a black man as "BBC" is rude, and frankly you've got to be lacking a certain level of intelligence to not understand what's wrong with it. Saying you want my BBC is different to outright calling me one.
I don't respond to the term "BBC." People need to understand referring to a black man as "BBC" is rude, and frankly you've got to be lacking a certain level of intelligence to not understand what's wrong with it. Saying you want my BBC is different to outright calling me one.
Amen, brother!
The term BULL has NOTHING to do with race. It's a term used to describe a man who has sex with another man's wife.
It's been around as long as the lifestyle has.
Ummm... that's NOT where bull came from.I couldn't agree more. As long as people know that the Bull and Buck term derived from slaves in the U.S. of A that got to keep their genitals intact past the age of 14 for breeding purposes then knock yourself out. There are plenty of Black guys on here with Stockholm Syndrome.
If only people would use this site's search function before they posted.
Like clockwork we just see the same things over and over and over...
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