I’m a cuckold in training and I need to know how to deal with the jealousy And insecurity

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chuck_cole

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For many years now I have watched cuckold porn. It was always so hot, but something I thought I would never try. About 7 years ago, I met my girlfriend. We got together and it has been great. About 3-4 years ago we felt like our sex life was a little vanilla, so I told her what I was into. She would start to tell stories of her having sex with other guys, and how I need to clean up. It was role playing but it was hot. We did this like almost everytime we had sex. Last year, when I got horny, I would try and get her to send nudes of herself to her exes or other men. She always said that she was not comfortable, that is until a month ago. She started messaging this guy on Facebook, and later in the night she would send him nudes and videos of how she wants his cock while I was going down on her. Again, it was super hot. One of her exes, also started receiving nudes too. (We discussed it beforehand, and I trust her). We discussed it, and we thought the next step would be to meet a guy and make out with him. She would send me videos of her doing it so I can see it. We agreed that her ex would be the best one because he lives closer, and again I trust her. So she reached out and made plans to meet with him tomorrow to only make out. When she first told me the plans were finalized, I got so horny. I ended up jerking off. When I came, I got extremely jealous. For 7 years, we have been loyal to each other and I realized that will change. She will be eventually fucking other men. And as much as the thought turns me on, I am starting to feel jealous and insecure. How do you deal with this. I am super turned on with the thought, but how do you overcome the negative emotions. If I’m feeling this way about just making out, how will I feel when she eventually fucks him? Can anyone help or give me advice?
 
chuck_cole said:
For many years now I have watched cuckold porn. It was always so hot, but something I thought I would never try. About 7 years ago, I met my girlfriend. We got together and it has been great. About 3-4 years ago we felt like our sex life was a little vanilla, so I told her what I was into. She would start to tell stories of her having sex with other guys, and how I need to clean up. It was role playing but it was hot. We did this like almost everytime we had sex. Last year, when I got horny, I would try and get her to send nudes of herself to her exes or other men. She always said that she was not comfortable, that is until a month ago. She started messaging this guy on Facebook, and later in the night she would send him nudes and videos of how she wants his cock while I was going down on her. Again, it was super hot. One of her exes, also started receiving nudes too. (We discussed it beforehand, and I trust her). We discussed it, and we thought the next step would be to meet a guy and make out with him. She would send me videos of her doing it so I can see it. We agreed that her ex would be the best one because he lives closer, and again I trust her. So she reached out and made plans to meet with him tomorrow to only make out. When she first told me the plans were finalized, I got so horny. I ended up jerking off. When I came, I got extremely jealous. For 7 years, we have been loyal to each other and I realized that will change. She will be eventually fucking other men. And as much as the thought turns me on, I am starting to feel jealous and insecure. How do you deal with this. I am super turned on with the thought, but how do you overcome the negative emotions. If I’m feeling this way about just making out, how will I feel when she eventually fucks him? Can anyone help or give me advice?
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This is relatable for a lot of newly cucked husbands (y)
 
chuck_cole said:
For many years now I have watched cuckold porn. It was always so hot, but something I thought I would never try. About 7 years ago, I met my girlfriend. We got together and it has been great. About 3-4 years ago we felt like our sex life was a little vanilla, so I told her what I was into. She would start to tell stories of her having sex with other guys, and how I need to clean up. It was role playing but it was hot. We did this like almost everytime we had sex. Last year, when I got horny, I would try and get her to send nudes of herself to her exes or other men. She always said that she was not comfortable, that is until a month ago. She started messaging this guy on Facebook, and later in the night she would send him nudes and videos of how she wants his cock while I was going down on her. Again, it was super hot. One of her exes, also started receiving nudes too. (We discussed it beforehand, and I trust her). We discussed it, and we thought the next step would be to meet a guy and make out with him. She would send me videos of her doing it so I can see it. We agreed that her ex would be the best one because he lives closer, and again I trust her. So she reached out and made plans to meet with him tomorrow to only make out. When she first told me the plans were finalized, I got so horny. I ended up jerking off. When I came, I got extremely jealous. For 7 years, we have been loyal to each other and I realized that will change. She will be eventually fucking other men. And as much as the thought turns me on, I am starting to feel jealous and insecure. How do you deal with this. I am super turned on with the thought, but how do you overcome the negative emotions. If I’m feeling this way about just making out, how will I feel when she eventually fucks him? Can anyone help or give me advice?
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Accept that your woman's pussy is for BBC only...
 
chuck_cole said:
For many years now I have watched cuckold porn. It was always so hot, but something I thought I would never try. About 7 years ago, I met my girlfriend. We got together and it has been great. About 3-4 years ago we felt like our sex life was a little vanilla, so I told her what I was into. She would start to tell stories of her having sex with other guys, and how I need to clean up. It was role playing but it was hot. We did this like almost everytime we had sex. Last year, when I got horny, I would try and get her to send nudes of herself to her exes or other men. She always said that she was not comfortable, that is until a month ago. She started messaging this guy on Facebook, and later in the night she would send him nudes and videos of how she wants his cock while I was going down on her. Again, it was super hot. One of her exes, also started receiving nudes too. (We discussed it beforehand, and I trust her). We discussed it, and we thought the next step would be to meet a guy and make out with him. She would send me videos of her doing it so I can see it. We agreed that her ex would be the best one because he lives closer, and again I trust her. So she reached out and made plans to meet with him tomorrow to only make out. When she first told me the plans were finalized, I got so horny. I ended up jerking off. When I came, I got extremely jealous. For 7 years, we have been loyal to each other and I realized that will change. She will be eventually fucking other men. And as much as the thought turns me on, I am starting to feel jealous and insecure. How do you deal with this. I am super turned on with the thought, but how do you overcome the negative emotions. If I’m feeling this way about just making out, how will I feel when she eventually fucks him? Can anyone help or give me advice?
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No one can realiy help you. You just have to go through it. Once you see that she comes back to you and that she is still committed to you, you will begin to settle down. But it’s a process. Personally, I would find it difficult to have this type of relationship with just a girlfriend. Married couples have compkex intertwined lives that let’s face it, provide more reasons to persevere. A girlfriend or boyfriend can just call it a wrap much easier. But to each his own. Good luck. Sounds like a bumpy ride ahead. And your expectations seem a little bit unrealistic.
 
As long as you experience a kind of competition with your wife's lover you will be jealous and also eventually experience angst. This competition goes away once you accept the real function/role of being a cuck. The difference between a cuckoldrelationship and a wife that is cheating in the standard way we perceive this in our society is that with cheating the wife does something we do not agree with, and is a betrayig her daily partner. In a cuckold relationship you agree and accept and also eventually encourage the wife to see other men. In truly accepting to be a cuck and not being in competition gets done by not having activities with your wife that she has with her lover and is even better if you are not able to do the same thing because you have ED, less satmina, premature ejaculation and/or a small penis. Wearing a chastity cage and not having PIV sex with your wife anymore is a good base for this. Ths can be compensated for example that she makes you cum each time before she goes to her lover. My girlfriend makes does this with me. Impotant is to have the impression that it is still a honest and balanced deal for example that your wife tolerates things from you in exchange that she is aloud to fuck other man. She tolerates the fact that I wear most of the time diapers and alouds me to see other men. Also being or beleaving yourself that you are not able anymore physically to satisfy your girlfrriend/wife makes it emotionally and psychologically much more acceptable for yourself that she fucks other men.
 
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chuck_cole said:
For many years now I have watched cuckold porn. It was always so hot, but something I thought I would never try. About 7 years ago, I met my girlfriend. We got together and it has been great. About 3-4 years ago we felt like our sex life was a little vanilla, so I told her what I was into. She would start to tell stories of her having sex with other guys, and how I need to clean up. It was role playing but it was hot. We did this like almost everytime we had sex. Last year, when I got horny, I would try and get her to send nudes of herself to her exes or other men. She always said that she was not comfortable, that is until a month ago. She started messaging this guy on Facebook, and later in the night she would send him nudes and videos of how she wants his cock while I was going down on her. Again, it was super hot. One of her exes, also started receiving nudes too. (We discussed it beforehand, and I trust her). We discussed it, and we thought the next step would be to meet a guy and make out with him. She would send me videos of her doing it so I can see it. We agreed that her ex would be the best one because he lives closer, and again I trust her. So she reached out and made plans to meet with him tomorrow to only make out. When she first told me the plans were finalized, I got so horny. I ended up jerking off. When I came, I got extremely jealous. For 7 years, we have been loyal to each other and I realized that will change. She will be eventually fucking other men. And as much as the thought turns me on, I am starting to feel jealous and insecure. How do you deal with this. I am super turned on with the thought, but how do you overcome the negative emotions. If I’m feeling this way about just making out, how will I feel when she eventually fucks him? Can anyone help or give me advice?
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Adults meeting to make out???Lol. It's starts that way before the sucking and fucking. You'll get used to it, it already is turning you on. Relax, let it happen, support it, encourage your wife to fuck BBCs. It's your fantasy, have fun, it's only sex. You'll be fine
 
chuck_cole said:
For many years now I have watched cuckold porn. It was always so hot, but something I thought I would never try. About 7 years ago, I met my girlfriend. We got together and it has been great. About 3-4 years ago we felt like our sex life was a little vanilla, so I told her what I was into. She would start to tell stories of her having sex with other guys, and how I need to clean up. It was role playing but it was hot. We did this like almost everytime we had sex. Last year, when I got horny, I would try and get her to send nudes of herself to her exes or other men. She always said that she was not comfortable, that is until a month ago. She started messaging this guy on Facebook, and later in the night she would send him nudes and videos of how she wants his cock while I was going down on her. Again, it was super hot. One of her exes, also started receiving nudes too. (We discussed it beforehand, and I trust her). We discussed it, and we thought the next step would be to meet a guy and make out with him. She would send me videos of her doing it so I can see it. We agreed that her ex would be the best one because he lives closer, and again I trust her. So she reached out and made plans to meet with him tomorrow to only make out. When she first told me the plans were finalized, I got so horny. I ended up jerking off. When I came, I got extremely jealous. For 7 years, we have been loyal to each other and I realized that will change. She will be eventually fucking other men. And as much as the thought turns me on, I am starting to feel jealous and insecure. How do you deal with this. I am super turned on with the thought, but how do you overcome the negative emotions. If I’m feeling this way about just making out, how will I feel when she eventually fucks him? Can anyone help or give me advice?
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Emotions are just a part of the process. If you didn’t have them you wouldn’t be human and if you didn’t feel some jealousy as a man you’re probably in a relationship which isn’t worth being in. It’s normal and you’re better off working through it whether you as a couple follow through, back out, or feel it’s not right for you.

I’ll start with your first statement which referenced your inclination to cuckold porn. I’d suggest giving that a rest while you decide what will work for you and yours. A guilty pleasure yes, but don’t fool yourself, it will cloud your decision making.

As for the path I see no issues. Seems like you guys are both on the same page as far as common desires go. Slow may not appease the masses here but it’s a way to feel things out.

As for the jealousy. What kind of cuck do you suppose you are? Are you doing it for the pleasure of her? The pleasure of you? Or is it a combination of both? Speaking for myself mine evolved from predominately seeing her pleasured to a healthy mix. I caught my wife having an affair with a black man due to me being out of town half the month for work. I was jealous and turned on at first, that’s completely natural especially when, and this will be quite blunt, but your beautiful white wife is turning to black men for her sexual needs. Eventually and very quickly I realized the turn on was greater than the jealousy.

Above it all you have to communicate, even your jealousies, prior to and during your walk. Learn to respect and understand your other half. My wife unbeknownst to me till after, admitted I was only the second white guy she’d ever been with, was watching interracial porn daily, and over the past year had physical affairs with three black men. After all that I became far less jealous as that’s her preference at least as far as sex goes. Sex that I wasn’t giving to her due to work. What’s her desire? It matters and it will affect the dynamic.

As for the change of feeling after the cumming. Completely normal too. For months I watched my wife have her affair on camera. 100% into it before and about 75% distraught after I jerked off. Slowly that starts to reverse and eventually can become a kink either by being caged or other means. Relatively early on my wife zip tied me in a chair and jerked me off until I came as her bull fingered her and she stroked him during foreplay. I came and had no choice but to watch and I quickly realized the wave of emotions always comes back around and turns positive.

I hope things work out for you guys either way. There’s not too many things better that watching your wife get pleased by a black man or even better black men. Good luck and hope this helps.
 
Serveaqueen said:
I was lucky I guess I never got jealous of her fucking her first BBC I was super horny waiting on her to come home, probably because we had talked and role played for almost a year before it happened
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That is lucky. So when you got to see her in action, was she fully immersed in the BBC and ignored you? Or was she attentive to you while she was fucking him? Curious if it makes a difference from the jealousy standpoint 🤔
 
This is not for everybody thats think that they can cuckold you need a lot of self control and trust of your mate
Thing will get heated up in that room the bull will take over and at a point you will feel you wont be able to keep up with his stamina
You must have self control or your marriage might just end there because you opened a door that she might not be able to control but remember it was you who wanted to live it
 
latino said:
This is not for everybody thats think that they can cuckold you need a lot of self control and trust of your mate
Thing will get heated up in that room the bull will take over and at a point you will feel you wont be able to keep up with his stamina
You must have self control or your marriage might just end there because you opened a door that she might not be able to control but remember it was you who wanted to live it
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