Hi...I need help deciding with whom should I have my first bbc!! Hubby says I've got 2 options. Either one of hid best friends or a total stranger.. I'm kind of confused...can anyone help me.. cause on one hand it would be kind of weird to do it with his friend knowing that I will always see him and don't kno how my hubbub will feel after ward..but in the other hand. Doin it with s complete stranger kind of scares me cause I don't kno anything about him...and and what is better. To b in a room alone with the guy or hav my hubbub watch...can u guys giv me sum ideas.?