old school player, you hit the nail on the head. as a blackman, this ******* can be frustrating. they start off flirting, i respond, great convo for some minutes, then when i ask for a number, it's " oh i can't, i'm sorry, etc. " all the while giggling and all that. i just walk off cause i feel i got played. i rather do that than curse or get emotional, i just keep it stoic. it's funny how many white women come out into the open and fuck brothers in porn as long as they're gettin bread for it. as far as whitewomen wanting to know how they can get blackmen, i mean come on, we're guys, who the hell doesn't want women approaching them. you approach, i'ma listen. maybe i'm missing something. i'm an east coast dude, so maybe some of you women are from other states which may be more segregated or whatever, but NY, NJ you approach me i'ma listen and if i ain't into you, whatever. but why would it be difficult to approach a blackman when everyone knows it's the women who say yay or nay, don't respond or even look, etc. unless you look like roseanne bar, a sara jay, coco, flower tucci, trina michaels, kayla quinn, mellanie monroe, bobbi starr, annabelle sciorria would be 150-0, 150 ko's approaching blackmen in NY, NJ.