How to Introduce the Wife to the Lifestyle

[AnonymousRob]

My wife and I have been married for 13 years. Our sex life is pretty decent, but I feel like she could use a nice bbc to really open her up to the possibilities of hotwifing.

I have introduced a dildo, not huge, but nice sized that she loves and i am relatively sure she wants something bigger. When sober she says she isn’t interested in anything like this, but *******, she is all about the two cocks, especially the bigger dildo.

How do I go about leading her toward a bbc?! I want to see her filled and stretched, but I also know that she would love it if she was given the chance.

 

[TylerDurdannnn]

My wife and I have been married for 13 years. Our sex life is pretty decent, but I feel like she could use a nice bbc to really open her up to the possibilities of hotwifing.

I have introduced a dildo, not huge, but nice sized that she loves and i am relatively sure she wants something bigger. When sober she says she isn’t interested in anything like this, but *******, she is all about the two cocks, especially the bigger dildo.

How do I go about leading her toward a bbc?! I want to see her filled and stretched, but I also know that she would love it if she was given the chance.

Omg. Im in the same boat. Let me know how it goes. Good luck. I cant wait to make it a reality

 

[whitechickslay]

Too bad none of you are in or near Destin Fla. it would be easier to chat with people in your local area

 

[AnonymousRob]

Too bad none of you are in or near Destin Fla. it would be easier to chat with people in your local area

I can’t find anyone discreet in my area. I’m open to chatting in other ways if people are

 

[Hotrnandhubby9]

I can’t find anyone discreet in my area. I’m open to chatting in other ways if people are

Me too.... slowing talking her into bigger better cock(s)!!!

 

[whitechickslay]

Well when/if you all are in this area I am open to helping her cuck you all

 

[Jenniferkayla]

My wife and I have been married for 13 years. Our sex life is pretty decent, but I feel like she could use a nice bbc to really open her up to the possibilities of hotwifing.

I have introduced a dildo, not huge, but nice sized that she loves and i am relatively sure she wants something bigger. When sober she says she isn’t interested in anything like this, but *******, she is all about the two cocks, especially the bigger dildo.

How do I go about leading her toward a bbc?! I want to see her filled and stretched, but I also know that she would love it if she was given the chance.

You need to get her on this forum together. Lots of willing and capable people here that’d be glad to speak to you guys about the lifestyle

 

[jrdestiny54]

My wife and I have been married for 13 years. Our sex life is pretty decent, but I feel like she could use a nice bbc to really open her up to the possibilities of hotwifing.

I have introduced a dildo, not huge, but nice sized that she loves and i am relatively sure she wants something bigger. When sober she says she isn’t interested in anything like this, but *******, she is all about the two cocks, especially the bigger dildo.

How do I go about leading her toward a bbc?! I want to see her filled and stretched, but I also know that she would love it if she was given the chance.

1). Tell your wife about this site and how you're positive there are men out there that would find her desirable. Tell her its anonymous. If she agrees go to step 2. Keep talking. Keep using the black dildos exclusively. Keep watching IR porn if possible.
2. Add some information to your profile. Ages, general location and some description of yourself and the type of activity you're looking for.
3). Get verified. Get verified. Get verified. The verification picture doesn't need to show her face. Add other pictures for the men to look at.
4). Sit back and wait for the messages to come in. Trust me. They will. It's up to you sort through them and decide with your wife if this is the right thing for your marriage. You may think she wants to get stretched by a BBC, but she may have different ideas.
5). Be sure this is what you want. Can you handle the sight of a Bull manhandling the woman that is your wife? It may be different in reality than in your head.

By the way, the above steps worked for us. Black dildos, IR porn, lots of discussion, lots of sifting through replies. Conversations, email, casual meetings.

 

[Auszeit2020]

My wife and I have been married for 13 years. Our sex life is pretty decent, but I feel like she could use a nice bbc to really open her up to the possibilities of hotwifing.

I have introduced a dildo, not huge, but nice sized that she loves and i am relatively sure she wants something bigger. When sober she says she isn’t interested in anything like this, but *******, she is all about the two cocks, especially the bigger dildo.

How do I go about leading her toward a bbc?! I want to see her filled and stretched, but I also know that she would love it if she was given the chance.

Hi, the "possibilities of hotwifing" (a nice word combination) has to begin in the brain! In my opinion every wife has these special slut in here but you need to get it out! The best way: Talking! Talk to her! Be honest and slowly! A woman do not need another cock, while she is married or in another relationship. Keep this always in your mind! You must be on her side and sometimes it matches and she will open her mind (not her legs - we are ladies) for some thoughts. Step by step...

 

[AnonymousRob]

Me too.... slowing talking her into bigger better cock(s)!!!

That’s what I would like!

 

[vej54]

My wife and I have been married for 13 years. Our sex life is pretty decent, but I feel like she could use a nice bbc to really open her up to the possibilities of hotwifing.

I have introduced a dildo, not huge, but nice sized that she loves and i am relatively sure she wants something bigger. When sober she says she isn’t interested in anything like this, but *******, she is all about the two cocks, especially the bigger dildo.

How do I go about leading her toward a bbc?! I want to see her filled and stretched, but I also know that she would love it if she was given the chance.

The process is very simple....share about your sexual fantasy with her and listen to podcasts like Front Porch Swingers that specialize in the BBC-Hotwifing Lifestyle......

 

[Somerset]

From the GF's, please don't put too much pressure on her and let her go at her own speed which might be two steps forward and one step back. I'm on this site as a learning process and interacting with a few men which I've never had the opportunity before. I thought it would be easier but I'm also stifled by my own inhibitions about being with a Black man from my family structure and how I grew up. There was always only one color.

 

[AnonymousRob]

From the GF's, please don't put too much pressure on her and let her go at her own speed which might be two steps forward and one step back. I'm on this site as a learning process and interacting with a few men which I've never had the opportunity before. I thought it would be easier but I'm also stifled by my own inhibitions about being with a Black man from my family structure and how I grew up. There was always only one color.

That was my plan!

 

[TylerDurdannnn]

Too bad none of you are in or near Destin Fla. it would be easier to chat with people in your local area

Love destin. Used to live ther

 

[whitechickslay]

Love destin. Used to live ther

Did you? That's awesome! Yes it is a lovely place and even lovelier when you find white couples that are into the BBC scene and cuckold scene

 

[Alyciat]

My wife and I have been married for 13 years. Our sex life is pretty decent, but I feel like she could use a nice bbc to really open her up to the possibilities of hotwifing.

I have introduced a dildo, not huge, but nice sized that she loves and i am relatively sure she wants something bigger. When sober she says she isn’t interested in anything like this, but *******, she is all about the two cocks, especially the bigger dildo.

How do I go about leading her toward a bbc?! I want to see her filled and stretched, but I also know that she would love it if she was given the chance.

Wishing you good luck !

 

[danishcuckold]

Nice theme...we are now living in part of Europe with very few BBCs... makes it harder...plus Corona

 

[Rodgersmith1]

In the beginning I'd make these remarks at an opportunity and it was planting the seed so to speak of her thinking about black guys...

"well black guys do reach deeper".... and " white most women want to try a black lover at least once in their lives I'm sure " and if we'd see a couple "well black guys are really good in bed" ...." they are built for love making " things like that

later I introduced that talk in bed....I'd say "the only problem with black guys is they don't pull out" if you ever had sex with a black guy he's going to touch you deeper and cum there...he's not pulling out that's why they make so many babies " I'd say "they are not afraid to stay in"...then I would humiliate white guys and say "white guys pull out and black guys stay in and give it all to you" ....she'd be soaking wet

like i said it was all to get her thinking about black guys...and it worked ...like curiosity got that cat so did it for her...she did go for it eventfully ...how could she not at that point.

 

[AnonymousRob]

In the beginning I'd make these remarks at an opportunity and it was planting the seed so to speak of her thinking about black guys...

"well black guys do reach deeper".... and " white most women want to try a black lover at least once in their lives I'm sure " and if we'd see a couple "well black guys are really good in bed" ...." they are built for love making " things like that

later I introduced that talk in bed....I'd say "the only problem with black guys is they don't pull out" if you ever had sex with a black guy he's going to touch you deeper and cum there...he's not pulling out that's why they make so many babies " I'd say "they are not afraid to stay in"...then I would humiliate white guys and say "white guys pull out and black guys stay in and give it all to you" ....she'd be soaking wet

like i said it was all to get her thinking about black guys...and it worked ...like curiosity got that cat so did it for her...she did go for it eventfully ...how could she not at that point.

Thanks for the advice. I’ve already begun to do some of these things. She has some body issues. She’s a BBW which I love, but she doesn’t think she’s attractive and she is. She’s 5’9” about 180. Nice big ass, tight pussy, and 44 DDD tits. She is made for fucking and I wish I could make her see that, but she just thinks she is too big.

I know other guys find her attractive. I wish I could just get someone to flirt with her and for her to flirt back, to recognize that she is attractive.

 

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