Talk about your fantasies with a sex therapist and take it from there. A sex therapist helped me with my husband.
How to introduce my wife to BBC
- Thread starter Leejay82
- Start date
Just wondering, was the sex therapist fucking black men too?
@Molly1980 in particular what advice did your sex therapist give you?
Thst is HARD to anwer, there was so much. Hmmmm... Insecurity leads to boundaries. Fear of losing your partner or losing the love in between you both is a giant obstacle thst couples need to cross together.
There needs to be trust and assurance that nothing will change. As described to my husband sex is just sex. Some women like using vibrators, others like using black penises. It doesn't mean I don't love my husband. So he is always given priority, if he say "no" it's no.
Now this is something HE is giving me to make me happy. This is not something I am taking. My husband remains my priority.
I’m really wondering what the therapist did, say? Was it encouragement to go for what you want? I think it’s fantastic if that’s the direction it went.
yes to the porn. i found my husbands on accident, but after the shock at least i understood what he was into in all its glory no lying. and i have not taken the plunge yet but it was something that changed my mind on it
I am thinking that sex therapists may give different advice than marriage counsellors - i think some people conflatebthe two
Porn
Funny how the word COMMUNICATION never gets old .
The magic word...
Mine was already in conversation with a guy who was a school friend.
He asked to come round to ours when I was away and I said yes.
She started visiting him two three times a week. He fucked her hundreds of times and I am glad he did she needed it.
Perhaps
I want to know if after two years, his wife did try black.
I guess his wife might have gotten some. He posted a short video clip of her on Oct 12 2021.
Last edited:
