How to introduce my wife to BBC

Hit her over the head with a bag of nickles then drag her to an IR convention, hahaha. Nah, I am just playing. Seriously, I think if you have to "make" her into what you want is a bad idea/approach. However, you can subliminally, implant ideas per se into her head by leaving bread crumbs if you may. Like others have said, IR porn, etc. The only difference I would suggest about that is to "pretend" you left it on your computer or tv screen, then from a nice vantage point, watch her reaction. If she immediately shuts it off, you have your work cut out. If she is into dildoes and stuff, get her a black one and see how receptive she is to it. But on the real, all that aside, TALK TO HER. You might be surprised. Better to be honest, because it will be more enjoyable if she segues into it herself, rather than you coercing her. Good luck, pay the receptionist on the way out.
 
abnranger67 said:
Hit her over the head with a bag of nickles then drag her to an IR convention, hahaha. Nah, I am just playing. Seriously, I think if you have to "make" her into what you want is a bad idea/approach. However, you can subliminally, implant ideas per se into her head by leaving bread crumbs if you may. Like others have said, IR porn, etc. The only difference I would suggest about that is to "pretend" you left it on your computer or tv screen, then from a nice vantage point, watch her reaction. If she immediately shuts it off, you have your work cut out. If she is into dildoes and stuff, get her a black one and see how receptive she is to it. But on the real, all that aside, TALK TO HER. You might be surprised. Better to be honest, because it will be more enjoyable if she segues into it herself, rather than you coercing her. Good luck, pay the receptionist on the way out.
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Thanks man! It’s a touchy subject which could go either way so best to approach with a bit of caution
 
There are subtle ways you can gauge how to approach this. I am sure you see interracial couples (black men with white women) in public in and about town. Just make small innocent comments like, that is a cute couple, etc, and pay attention to her response. Keep in mind also, we feed off each other. That said, and you know her better than anyone else, but her level of comfort to share her fantasies comes from YOU. So, you know we as men sometimes think we know everything and don't know *******. What I mean is, you may think you make her feel comfortable, but she may feel different, so take stock of YOUR approach and demeanor.
 
Leejay82 said:
What’s the best way to introduce my wife to my fantasy of her being fucked by a BBC without her thinking it’s weird. How do I bring it up in conversation, I think she would be up for it but it’s hard taking the first step
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Inboxed
 
Kellyshain said:
Man just let the woman be . If it’s only your fantasy and not hers then move on and enjoy it in your head . I won’t ever sleep with a woman because she is doing it for her husband . It must be a mutually agreed and not ****** upon either of you.
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I always ask my wife does she just do it for me and she says no she enjoys it too .. I'd feel weird about making her like something she doesn't
 
Kellyshain said:
Man just let the woman be . If it’s only your fantasy and not hers then move on and enjoy it in your head . I won’t ever sleep with a woman because she is doing it for her husband . It must be a mutually agreed and not ****** upon either of you.
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this....

No tricking, arguing, convincing. Dont.

Talk about it, show her sexy black men shows/music/movies/porn during ovulation, every single month.

She will warm up. Be cool.
 
A significant part of any serious relationship is acceptance of your partner with all of his/her quirks. If you can't discuss your sexual fantasies with your spouse you are not ready to bring any additional people into to your marriage. The first thing you must have is a solid relationship before you open your marriage to other participants. You aren't ready to make that step
 
I’m in a similar situation. I have the fantasy of see her fucked by a BBC. I haven’t ever told her, but I have bought some bbc dildos for her sex machine. They are the largest she has ever had and she is loving one of them, the Mr. Marcus. I have the Shane Diesel but she said it was a lil to big. I think she has the hint of what my fantasy is but I have never came out and told her. I’m afraid it would turn her off completely. What would you do in my situation? Any advice?
 
wife4bbc1 said:
I’m in a similar situation. I have the fantasy of see her fucked by a BBC. I haven’t ever told her, but I have bought some bbc dildos for her sex machine. They are the largest she has ever had and she is loving one of them, the Mr. Marcus. I have the Shane Diesel but she said it was a lil to big. I think she has the hint of what my fantasy is but I have never came out and told her. I’m afraid it would turn her off completely. What would you do in my situation? Any advice?
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I love the Mr Marcus myself ;-)
 
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