First off, my wife is well aware of my desire to have her cuckold me. She just can't wrap her head around it. She wonders how, if I'm supposed to love, honor, and cherish her, I could want her to fuck other men. I've given her my reasons for wanting her to do it, but I'm at a loss to explain it to her in a way that makes sense to her. Any advice is appreciated.
.....Seeing as your desire is to experience
"cuckold play" or the
"cuckold fantasy", not
real cuckolding, you might try to explain all the variables and fetishes that other couples have created to make their cuckold play "fun", and there are many of them. Also, I don't know if the excitement the two of you have now is at the level as when you first got married (it usually isn't), but cuckold play will usually elevate your sexual desire for each other back to the level you had when you first got married. I know, when I've seen my wife get pounded by another guy, we go at each other hot & heavy for 2-3 weeks afterward ... sex almost every night as I gaze at her open pussy and know how it enjoyed another man's cock just days or moments earlier.
.....Cuckold play is basically "pretending" or "fantasy play" that your wife has decided to screw other guys and purposely frustrate you. First off ...
#1: Draw up a Cuckold Agreement: Its a one page contract that says your wife can have sex with other men and that you agree to remain loyal and monogamous to her. The agreement would also have the parameters stated as to how it would work. For example, you might wish she only have sex with other men with you present, or with them always wearing condoms, or you sleeping in the guest room upon your wife's bull visits.
#2: The two of you might wish to put you in a cocklock and abstain from ejaculations except when her lovers have left. Or she may wish to deny you sex but once a month or even make you earn credits towards liberties she grants you.
#3: You might agree to dress up in feminine type clothing or wear silk panties.
#4: Have some types of "punishments" for disobeying or breaking rules, like being made to eat your own cum in front of her and her lovers.
#5: You might agree on domestic responsibilities around the house.
The whole point, and there are many, many more that both I and the other members here could suggest, is to make your marriage and your excitement for your wife really FUN. If it doesn't work, you can always stop, but I think with some imagination and ideas, you could have an awesome time being your wife's voluntary cuck. Maybe some of the other members have suggestions to this. I can supply more if you request them, along with samples.
