My ex was an extreme racist and bigot, that’s why I feared him knowing about it, espially during the waiting time before divorce was final. Even long after the divorce, he still went into a rage when he found out about me dating a black guy.. but obviously, I could have cared less by then and he’s still clueless that it all began about 7-8 months before I ever filed for divorce.. Fortunately, I rarely hear from him again and the only reason why we still are in contact ever so often is that we still have a rental property in our name..