If you subscribe to those classifications, I am more of an omega than alpha, but definitely not beta. Like everyone else in this thread, it's a way to unwind and relax, especially when it comes to my wife. My day to day I am in charge of a lot of people and make big, impactful decisions regularly that a lot of people depend on and I love doing it. But when I clock out and and need to unwind, I want to turn off my brain and just enjoy. I'm keep very physically fit and still very athletic, I've been a bull for another couple and that was awesome too, but something about watching my wife enjoy herself sexually without being involved physically or mentally is just such a release. I absolutely love watching her masturbate too. It's a bedroom kink for us and thats where it ends.