How many husbands maintain their alpha status?

kennloni

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To me personally, I don't care for how everyone pushes the inferior white husband narrative. I understand while this my be true for some and a kink for many it seems like it's often ****** onto the wife. Im interested in hearing other opinions and thoughts on the matter. Especially the perspectives of wives.
 
It's also interesting because this lifestyle raises some serious questions that are always ignored.

Don't get me wrong im not judgmental at all I completely understand the variety of sexual preferences there are.

Some husbands are here because the have some serious self image problems or other mental health concerns. I've seen some wives destroy their husbands lives instead of helping him build himself up.
 
In all honesty I'm a man's man and am a supervisor doing concrete work, but at the end of the day sometimes I just want to sit down and relax my wife has a big sexual appetite and have sex with her every chance she gets. I've had this kink for quite sometime but have kept it to myself because I was ashamed. I ended up talking about the subject and floated around buying her a black vibratory and butt plugs by the end of the month I literally was double and triple penetrating her. After our crazy sex sessions I told her my fetish and she was taken aback because she never would have thought. I told her only because my sexual appetite had grown and I really couldn't keep it in anymore I bought her a he'll of a lot more dildos all in the color black and have even got her watching interracial porn with me. I've never made her squirter over and over I mean I have but nor like this. She's definitely trying to ease her way into this and I have even gotten her pole dancing classes to get her spirits up and imagination running. She came to me and told me she'd commit to her fetish as long as she can do it in porn. She's my everyone and love her with all my heart my only condition is that she fucks Mandingo first I'd love to see her squirm. This isn't about me being a cuck or being humiliated I'd hate it and I would not go through with it if yhat were the case. My wife gave birth to my ******* with a disability and it really was hard for her in the beginning, so in turn I would love for her to do strictly interracial porn because that's what I desire and now she does too. It's crazy to believe how far we've come we're fairly young and are in our thirties. I just want her to enjoy herself because the next gut she wants 4ight away is Dredd she has a crush on him
 
My husband is extremely alpha outside of the bedroom. From our personal life to his professional life he is extremely intelligent and alpha. Hell he's 6'7" everyone views him as an alpha and he fits it well. For him the cuckolding is a release from that life. It's a reprieve from having to make decisions and be the one to take care of everyone and the kinkier the better. I don't view him any differently for it either.
 
My husband is extremely alpha outside of the bedroom. From our personal life to his professional life he is extremely intelligent and alpha. Hell he's 6'7" everyone views him as an alpha and he fits it well. For him the cuckolding is a release from that life. It's a reprieve from having to make decisions and be the one to take care of everyone and the kinkier the better. I don't view him any differently for it either.
Thank you that's all I needed to hear
 
My husband is extremely alpha outside of the bedroom. From our personal life to his professional life he is extremely intelligent and alpha. Hell he's 6'7" everyone views him as an alpha and he fits it well. For him the cuckolding is a release from that life. It's a reprieve from having to make decisions and be the one to take care of everyone and the kinkier the better. I don't view him any differently for it either.
You are spot on
 
My husband is extremely alpha outside of the bedroom. From our personal life to his professional life he is extremely intelligent and alpha. Hell he's 6'7" everyone views him as an alpha and he fits it well. For him the cuckolding is a release from that life. It's a reprieve from having to make decisions and be the one to take care of everyone and the kinkier the better. I don't view him any differently for it either.

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Well put, this is myself and my husband as well. Stag and vixen type tho, he is still dominant in the bedroom. Just likes to cut lose and enjoy life with each other and have some fun secrets no one would ever think we would have.
 
We're not in the lifestyle, as my wife has no interest.

Each to their own, but I'm not into anyone's humiliation.

It's reassuring to hear so many couples keeping it fun :)
 
To me personally, I don't care for how everyone pushes the inferior white husband narrative. I understand while this my be true for some and a kink for many it seems like it's often ****** onto the wife. Im interested in hearing other opinions and thoughts on the matter. Especially the perspectives of wives.
Fuck that I’m so turned on by banging a girl I’m with, with other guys, but they need to have a cock at least as big or bigger. I’ll eat her pussy with cum on it and even suck his cock, but I would never kiss a guy or fuck him and if you try to humiliate me or disrespect me you’ll be leaving in a fucking ambulance. You can talk dirty but to entice and arouse not insult. I’m not a cuck but a dominant alpha and consider myself a hotwifer which to me is you and your girl trying to turn each other on by including other guys
 
If you subscribe to those classifications, I am more of an omega than alpha, but definitely not beta. Like everyone else in this thread, it's a way to unwind and relax, especially when it comes to my wife. My day to day I am in charge of a lot of people and make big, impactful decisions regularly that a lot of people depend on and I love doing it. But when I clock out and and need to unwind, I want to turn off my brain and just enjoy. I'm keep very physically fit and still very athletic, I've been a bull for another couple and that was awesome too, but something about watching my wife enjoy herself sexually without being involved physically or mentally is just such a release. I absolutely love watching her masturbate too. It's a bedroom kink for us and thats where it ends.
 
Haven’t shared wife yet. Don’t know if it will ever happen. Some times during fore play she really gets into it other times she says it’ll never happen.
I can handle taking the back seat so to speak and letting someone else drive but I’m getting back in the drivers seat after!
 
When we meet with single guys, we treat the experience as a threesome. No humiliation, just hot sexual fun.
Exactly…still haven’t done it yet with my wife, only role play, then I just took a chance and put a wife with bbc’s while eating her pussy and she came in seconds, admitting it turned her on but is conflicted..she knew I want to see her fuck but not bbc and I said that’s the ultimate fantasy. It’ll happen eventually. My ex and I would going hunting for cock and she willingly suck or fucked whenever I said hey you wanna? Fucking Hot!
 
I support everyone doing whatever they consent to. Have fun. I don’t consider myself a cuck. In fact, I have several hot wives I play with/dom. But I’m also bi. My wife’s pleasure is my ultimate pleasure. Stag/vixen may be a better description of our relationship, but during MFM fun, I enjoy helping wherever I can. I love to see her dominated and fucked well. And, if you’re going to suck a cock, a big beautiful black one is amazing. She enjoys watching.
 
To me personally, I don't care for how everyone pushes the inferior white husband narrative. I understand while this my be true for some and a kink for many it seems like it's often ****** onto the wife. Im interested in hearing other opinions and thoughts on the matter. Especially the perspectives of wives.
We are Stag and Vixen, so I'm not sure if I should answer this question. BUT... if we have a black friend then he is a guest of us as a couple, even if he is meeting her alone. If he's not a team kind of guy, he probably wouldn't be invited in the first place. Just sayin'
 
To me personally, I don't care for how everyone pushes the inferior white husband narrative. I understand while this my be true for some and a kink for many it seems like it's often ****** onto the wife. Im interested in hearing other opinions and thoughts on the matter. Especially the perspectives of wives.
She's a sub, I'm not! She has to obey me and no other white guy but me. She also should obey any and all BBC that's over +10 inches and naked infront of her. If hes under 9 inches, too bad.
 
My wife stills respect me!
I wouldn't say maintaining an alpha position cause when ever she's with a black guy he's the alpha.
But in the end we are still respecting each other and that's the important part in maintaining the balance.
 
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