I do have a grindr account. My wife has no idea. She has no idea that I'm secretly into black guys. I normally only use it away from home. I did hookup a few weeks ago with a fucking stud. He wasn't that far away from where I live. I went there and sucked him off. Was afraid to stop and get condoms on the way because the folks in the stores know me and my family. His dick was amazing. We talked after and pretty much set everything up to meet the following Sunday so he could fuck me with that beautiful dick. I gave him my number. Shortly after I left he text me and said he knew my wife and if I didn't send him $500 he'd tell my wife. I told him that I didn't have that much money. Then help sends a short video with me sucking his dick. We had a few back and forth text with him giving me a deadline. Not going to lie to you. I was a nervous wreck for the next few days. I had made up my mind. I don't have the balls to tell her. Hopefully he would and she would accept and possibly be into BBC as well. Nothing has happened as far as I know. So I guess he was bluffing.