I had the pleasure of FINALLY revealing my secret to a relatively long-time female friend of mine.
She and I had known each other since before my marriage and we always were a little flirtatious with each other.
Anyway, she shoots me a message asking how I'm doing after the divorce, blah... blah... blah...
One thing led to another and I reveal to her that I watched my wife have sex with black men.
It was interesting as to how silent it remained, with no response from her ~ maybe an hour, or so.
I finally messaged her back, to where she responded "to each their own, but I would never do anything like that."
We start communicating again and she asks a variety of questions about the experiences, and I boldly ask if she's ever been with a black man: No.
Hmmmm.... could this be the start of a new beginning?!
I like how she states she wouldn't do anything like this, but is curious enough to ask a variety of questions.