That is so perceptive and pathos-filled. And, in my experience and opinion, all of it perfectly true.I know for myself, it has little to do with my size, but psychologically my size plays a massive part in my PE problem. Size also means you'll probably have a lot less sex in your formative years and that adds to the anxiety. Even now in my mid 50's, I can look at my wife legs wide open, and get to a level of teenager excitement i'm usually unable to control, but I also look at her with an amount of dread as well, knowing i'm most probably going to fail before i've even begun. So me having sex with a women that isn't my wife, will almost cripple me with an amount anxiety, fear and embarrassment.
Nothing like laying on top of your wife, with your penis inside her, not wanting to thrust in fear of ejaculating, and just thinking don't cum, don't cum, while attempting to make it pleasurable for her. I think lack of size isn't the reason for premature ejaculation, its the lifetime of baggage that comes with having a small dick that throws you under the bus.
Not that I'm small-cocked and can vouch for the crucial sexual-performance-related details in your comment through any personal experience of the sexually disabling effects of them. I'm not and I can't. But being a doctor and sexologist as well as a man who is occasionally troubled by sexual anxiety too, I have a pretty good understanding of the crucial truths underlying and determining those details.
My heart goes out to you, Slinky.
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