How do I tell wife I want to be cuckold

[FW wife Benefit]

i had surgeries the the meds caused shrinkage and major E.D..... i've told my wife many time that we should fine her a man or two to take care of her sexually many times but she said it's okay she don't need anyone else ...so been trying to get her to watch porn with me and not doing good that way either , anyone have any other ideals how i can get her to let loose and not have a feeling of cheating on me if she has sex with another man

Maybe after so many years in monogamy she can't imagine someone else finding her attractive. That and the feeling of guilt, together, may ******* any chance. I would not let it pass any opportunity to let her know how attractive you find her, and... that you have noticed (whoever else may be) looking at her, etc. Give her time for hairdressing, nail polishing, and any other frivolous things that make women feel upper in the self esteem scale. A bit of both, and being playful, and may you have luck. And if not, at least you are doing no harm with it and both of you will surely feel better!

 

[Madeline]

learn his fantasies

 

[Kscuckwannabe]

Agree. Hot idea. Wish wife would cone along in fantasy

 

[Gary Cuckold]

my wife got mad when i told her....but her pussy was soaking wet

I can't tell her. I want, but i just can't. I guess she fuck with other guys, cause she cuckolded me ten yeaes ago, but we don't talk about it. I try to find out how we move on and i can be a cuckold openly.

 

[Raulgomez]

a lot of bullshit answers on here.

that being said the way i found to work best (been in two cuckold relationships and still in one) is to play it into fantasies in bed also if its a fresh relationship you can ask curios questions like i did

"how many guys"
"whats the freakiest thing you've done sexually"
"who was the biggest"
then in bed use these like "i bet you wish marlon fat dick was in you right now"

thats how I've done it

How soon should you see results?

 

[bellnyc]

How soon should you see results?

depends took my wife two years to finally suck some other guys dick but my ex was doing it the next day we talked about it so it varies.

 

[Wife an bbc]

Too funny. Was about like my wife " honey ever think about swinging?"few weeks later at a swing club hooking up. Mmmm good times.

 

[julio e cirs]

While having sex you can by askin if she could not imagine being fucked by a big black cock. After all, the contrast between a beautiful white woman and a black man is very erotic. But she must never doubt about her love for her. When it gets wet, the first step is already taken ... later, if she come...

 

[MacNfries]

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[sub1jack]

I would suggest playing into her fantasies. Bringing it up during sex in a seductive way, not saying, "I want you to go down to the bar and find a man to fuck tonight," but saying something like, "I saw you watching the new neighbor work with his shirt off in the yard today. Did he get you hot? I bet he probably wouldn't mind fucking the married wife next door?" Keep it playful and light and see how she reacts. If she gets turned on by a little fantasy play, bring it up a notch until you give her permission to do what she really wants to do. As some of the other respondents mentioned, if you watch porn together, you can find the porn that interests you both and leads her in that direction as well. Good communication is often being attentive to what the other person is saying both verbally and nonverbally. This applies especially to sex. Don't push her farther than she wants to go, but give her permission to express what she really fantasizes about.

This is really good and just common sense. It is still difficult to discuss certain things when a wife sees her husband not as a sub but more as head of the household. But love your suggestions.

 

[derin jones]

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Good points, but not the lack of reciprocity for me. I'm not sure cuck, but more of an alpha swinger that likes to watch my wife fuck black guys. I love fucking the ******* out of other women, too especially other wives. I also love banging black girls and would love too hook up with a hot black couple where all of us could fuck.