How do I tell wife I want to be cuckold

#13
I would suggest playing into her fantasies. Bringing it up during sex in a seductive way, not saying, "I want you to go down to the bar and find a man to fuck tonight," but saying something like, "I saw you watching the new neighbor work with his shirt off in the yard today. Did he get you hot? I bet he probably wouldn't mind fucking the married wife next door?" Keep it playful and light and see how she reacts. If she gets turned on by a little fantasy play, bring it up a notch until you give her permission to do what she really wants to do. As some of the other respondents mentioned, if you watch porn together, you can find the porn that interests you both and leads her in that direction as well. Good communication is often being attentive to what the other person is saying both verbally and nonverbally. This applies especially to sex. Don't push her farther than she wants to go, but give her permission to express what she really fantasizes about.
 
#18
Same here with my girlfriend! Afraid how she'd respond if I brought it up.. She's the loyal type so I don't think she would go behind my back to do anything, however I can tell she loves to flirt with other guys and really loves the attention, so that may be a good sign. I think most women would love to be in this position of being free to have sex and fun with whomever they want while still having a guy that loves them at there side. I think it's just how you warm them up to the idea and how you explain it to them without them just shutting down, even if they do seem weirded out by it initially. Like I'd totally be down for my gf to have another boyfriend on the side to go on fun dates with and of course to sleep with anytime, and she would still always have me. So she's not cheating or going behind my back so there's absolutely nothing she should feel wrong or bad about, just her having fun and being adventurous:). Buuut it's just the "what if" of bringing this up of how she could take this completely the wrong way and damage the relationship that makes me hesitant to talk to her about it:/ But I feel like I'm getting there slowly but surely:)
 
#19
Same here with my girlfriend! Afraid how she'd respond if I brought it up.. She's the loyal type so I don't think she would go behind my back to do anything, however I can tell she loves to flirt with other guys and really loves the attention, so that may be a good sign. I think most women would love to be in this position of being free to have sex and fun with whomever they want while still having a guy that loves them at there side. I think it's just how you warm them up to the idea and how you explain it to them without them just shutting down, even if they do seem weirded out by it initially. Like I'd totally be down for my gf to have another boyfriend on the side to go on fun dates with and of course to sleep with anytime, and she would still always have me. So she's not cheating or going behind my back so there's absolutely nothing she should feel wrong or bad about, just her having fun and being adventurous:). Buuut it's just the "what if" of bringing this up of how she could take this completely the wrong way and damage the relationship that makes me hesitant to talk to her about it:/ But I feel like I'm getting there slowly but surely:)
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#20
Thanks man! Yeah that's slowly what I've been doing, like I've gotten her into watching porn with me and I'm always sure to slip in some with buff black guys with big dicks and some latina/bbc porn (she's latina), and I makes sure to masturbate her really hard and make her cum when she watches it. And she seems to get wetter than usual when she sees it, so that's a good sign right?:) haha So that's basically where I'm at now. I'm thinking about getting her a black dildo and just saying I got it black as like a joke lol But I think once I get her used to being pleasured by a bbc dildo on top of the interracial porn, she might be curious enough to try the real thing, and that's when I'll bring it up:) So that's my current plan
 
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