How do I tell wife I want to be cuckold

Discussion in 'Cuckold Wannabes & Women Who Want Them' started by Raulgomez, Apr 18, 2016.

  1. Raulgomez

    Raulgomez New Member

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    Hi I am new to this community I have been looking into cuckold videos for about 4 months now and am extremely aroused by it. I want to tell me wife about it but am worried about how she would react. How should I bring it up? I want us to to be in this lifestyle
     
  2. wantabe1965

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    my wife got mad when i told her....but her pussy was soaking wet
     
  3. thirtyninesteps

    thirtyninesteps Well-Known Member

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    Same here my wife seemed a bit indifferent to the idea, but boy does she get wet in bed, just gonna keep working on her.
     
  4. wantabe1965

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    that is what I'm doing also.....she said to me...so you want to see another man fuck my married pussy
     
  5. Raulgomez

    Raulgomez New Member

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    So she was arouosed by the idea
     
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  6. Raulgomez

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    So she hasn't caved in yet?
     
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  7. wantabe1965

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    yes .. she gets very turned on when i tell her about a stranger fucking her ...she likes to watch porn with me...i will pretend to sleep and she will replay the ir parts and the girl on girl...while she uses her vibe
     
  8. Bick Muchem

    Bick Muchem Active Member Real Person

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    It's not hard to tell her, but how should I know? I fall more on the side of the individual that would fuck your wife.
     
  9. wantabe1965

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    i took me a few years to tell her ....she was shocked....but horny
     
  10. thirtyninesteps

    thirtyninesteps Well-Known Member

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    Not yet , taking lots of great advice from the guys on here, taking it gradually.
     
  11. VINCE71

    VINCE71 Member Gold Member

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    Looking for contacts to discuss this idea
     
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  12. BethLuvsBBConly

    BethLuvsBBConly Well-Known Member Gold Member

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    It is a 2 way street. I know women who are afraid to tell their hubby. And IMHO it is worse (more frustrating) for the wife who needs other men, then a hub who wants to watch his wife.
     
  13. dakotdik

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    I would suggest playing into her fantasies. Bringing it up during sex in a seductive way, not saying, "I want you to go down to the bar and find a man to fuck tonight," but saying something like, "I saw you watching the new neighbor work with his shirt off in the yard today. Did he get you hot? I bet he probably wouldn't mind fucking the married wife next door?" Keep it playful and light and see how she reacts. If she gets turned on by a little fantasy play, bring it up a notch until you give her permission to do what she really wants to do. As some of the other respondents mentioned, if you watch porn together, you can find the porn that interests you both and leads her in that direction as well. Good communication is often being attentive to what the other person is saying both verbally and nonverbally. This applies especially to sex. Don't push her farther than she wants to go, but give her permission to express what she really fantasizes about.
     
  14. JamiePrice69

    JamiePrice69 New Member

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    This is good advice. I too am trying to talk my gf into cuckolding me. She's so hot, I just want to see her fulfilled.
     
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  15. Cuckold74

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    Same here. I am desperate to be cuckold and see her fully satisfied by BBC, I have told her my fantasies and she plays along while we get intimate, but then will not talk more about it when we're done.
     
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  16. dakotdik

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    I find the assertion that men are desperate to have their wives "fully satisfied" ironic. Apparently, the wives are satisfied. It is the men who think that there must be something more their sex lives. How about figuring out what their wives want for themselves and give that to them?
     
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  17. radmon34

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    Tell about your dream abo─▒t it. Tell her you saw a dream that she waa fucking with a stranger. And say that, strange but i am turned on.
     
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  18. BBC4Latina

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    Same here with my girlfriend! Afraid how she'd respond if I brought it up.. She's the loyal type so I don't think she would go behind my back to do anything, however I can tell she loves to flirt with other guys and really loves the attention, so that may be a good sign. I think most women would love to be in this position of being free to have sex and fun with whomever they want while still having a guy that loves them at there side. I think it's just how you warm them up to the idea and how you explain it to them without them just shutting down, even if they do seem weirded out by it initially. Like I'd totally be down for my gf to have another boyfriend on the side to go on fun dates with and of course to sleep with anytime, and she would still always have me. So she's not cheating or going behind my back so there's absolutely nothing she should feel wrong or bad about, just her having fun and being adventurous:). Buuut it's just the "what if" of bringing this up of how she could take this completely the wrong way and damage the relationship that makes me hesitant to talk to her about it:/ But I feel like I'm getting there slowly but surely:)
     
  19. maccachew

    maccachew Active Member

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    It's all about how you plant seed of the idea in her mind! we are her to support you and guide you towards success fully converting your gf to BBC .. Peruse this site there is a guide read it and you can ask me any questions you have .. I'm here to help you and your gf of course! :)
     
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  20. BBC4Latina

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    Thanks man! Yeah that's slowly what I've been doing, like I've gotten her into watching porn with me and I'm always sure to slip in some with buff black guys with big dicks and some latina/bbc porn (she's latina), and I makes sure to masturbate her really hard and make her cum when she watches it. And she seems to get wetter than usual when she sees it, so that's a good sign right?:) haha So that's basically where I'm at now. I'm thinking about getting her a black dildo and just saying I got it black as like a joke lol But I think once I get her used to being pleasured by a bbc dildo on top of the interracial porn, she might be curious enough to try the real thing, and that's when I'll bring it up:) So that's my current plan
     
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